Udupi: Brahmavar couple in US held for leaving child alone in filthy, rat-infested home


Daijiworld Media Network - Udupi (SP)

Udupi, Jan 28: It is gathered that a couple hailing from Brahmavar in the taluk, currently living at Bronx, New York city, has been arrested by the police on charges of endangering their five-year-old child, who was found to have been left alone at their apartment at Bronx.

A report in New York Post stated that a deliveryman representing FedEx found the young boy alone surrounded by rats, pests and dirt. The five-year-old was identified as the son of Wilfred Lewis (59) and Charlotte Lewis (48) from Brahmavar. The couple face charges of endangering the welfare of the child. After the FedEx deliveryman alerted the police, police constables who went to the apartment found that the kid was alone in an apartment that had garbage, rats, bedbugs, and other pests in abundance along with faeces, the report said.

The FedEx man had knocked at the door of the said apartment as he needed to obtain signature of a family member to deliver a package. The boy opened the door and told the deliveryman that his parents were not at home. Thereafter the FedEx employee, who noticed the environment inside through the small opening, alerted police officials nearby to help the boy.

It is gathered that the mother of the boy is employed at a medical centre as nurse. She was taken into custody from her workplace. The father surrendered later at the 50th Precinct station. Sources told the New York Post that Wilfred in his statement to the police said that his son was able to take care of himself and was 'self-sufficient'. They were later granted bail for $15,000 and told to appear in court again in February.

The other children of the couple, a 15-year-old boy with impaired hearing, and two girls aged 12 and 13, were at school at the time the boy was noticed by the FedEx employee, it is learnt. The children were taken away by volunteers of city child welfare for counselling.

It is said that the entire apartment belonging to the family was filthy with uncleaned floor full of garbage and smell of faeces permeating the entire house.

Wilfred and Charlotte are natives of Matpady in Brahmavar, Udupi, and have been living in the US for many years as green card holders. Wilfred reportedly is a professor.

Shocked by the news, many netizens, mostly Americans, posted angry and even abusive comments on Wilfred's Facebook page.

  

Top Stories

Comment on this article

  • Rob Stan, Udupi / US

    Thu, Feb 01 2018

    I don't think the medical case of the eldest son is due to doctor's negligence & I also don't think the mess is because of the eldest son. They were too busy with school, work & study which could have prevented them from keeping their house clean.
    Also here it's more important for a small child not to be left alone even for a few minutes. I have heard about small kids being left alone in the middle-east, but not here. It might have been that Mr. Lewis leaves early in the morning for MTA & Mrs. Lewis used to reach before the other children leave and couldn't leave the job due to some circumstances on that day and they did not have a backup plan to keep the child in some friend's house. I don't think the eldest son was at home at the time of the incident.
    They might have warned about the house not being kept clean & told them to approach the landlord for maintenance. I wonder why the landlord did not check the unit as they normally carry out yearly inspection & paint if required.
    Mr. Lewis joined MTA in recent years. So there is no question of pension. We do not know about his previous job as a professor.

    DisAgree [12] Agree [10] Reply Report Abuse

  • Lawrence Vaz, Michigan/US

    Thu, Feb 01 2018

    Dear Priya Lasrado, MUMBAI,
    They may be your uncle and aunty. But note one thing in life If you can not spend one hour in a weak for cleaning your house and through the garbage at least once in two days that means you are not good to live in this world. See this issue became so big all over the world mainly because the house was like a waste bin and a 5 year old child was left alone in that garbage bin. The fridge was empty because of your uncle and aunty. If at all they don't have time they could have get help from cleaners they are there in US. As the world know NO parents can be with their children for 24 hours. Parents will leave their children and go for few hours, but the house should be in living condition and there should be sufficient food for them to eat. US officials are not that bad you understand. If caught like this they will warn you and leave.
    This became head lines only because of the house condition and empty fridge! There are several others leaving their children alone going out for sometime not over nights. Anyway along with you all, I do pray God to resolve this matter at the earliest and let the children back to their parents, in whatever situation "Parents love and care we can not get from anyone else". This became a extreme negligence by the parents. In future let them live a good, clean and healthy life. Lord Jesus help these parents to get back their children at the earliest. Forgive them for whatever happened. Guide them in a right direction to take care of their children with love, care and affection, Bless the children a bright future under the care of their parents. God bless them all.

    DisAgree [7] Agree [21] Reply Report Abuse

  • James Fernandes, Barkur Chicago

    Wed, Jan 31 2018

    Dear late Fr. Alfred Roche OFM Cap.
    Some of us are in need of your help.
    Deliver us from unnecessary comments.
    Your empathy is wanted.

    DisAgree [15] Agree [16] Reply Report Abuse

  • Priya Lasrado, MUMBAI

    Tue, Jan 30 2018

    Wilfred Uncle and Charlotte aunty have been like family to us .
    And for all you people bashing them ... theres something significant you need
    to know . Their eldest child suffered from a medical case of Hypoxic
    ischemic Encephalopathy ... due to the doctors negligience .. as a result of which he is autistic . As parents , they have done the best they could .
    Having stayed with them for a month in the US ... day and night i have seen them
    taking good care of all the four lovely kids especially their eldest son . Perhaps , on that fateful day ,their eldest kid might have scattered the things all around the house resulting in the mess and maybe the parents could not have been able to clean the mess at that point of time .
    This situation is not what it seems to be . So its my sincere request , people please do not have any prejudices in mind regarding this family, especially without knowing the whole truth .
    Uncle and Aunty , our prayers and support is always with you .

    DisAgree [17] Agree [41] Reply Report Abuse

  • M. Fernandes, Toronto

    Tue, Jan 30 2018

    Thank you for your comment and the information within. It helps shed some light on their difficult situation. I do not know them, and cannot imagine what tough times these must be. I wish them strength and good counsel to get their family back and on track.

    DisAgree [5] Agree [26] Reply Report Abuse

  • Gf, Udupi

    Wed, Jan 31 2018

    Priya, please post this same message on wilfred and charlotte facebook.
    The media has lynched him without the full truth.

    DisAgree [8] Agree [19] Reply Report Abuse

  • TARA, New Jersy, USA

    Wed, Jan 31 2018

    Priya Lasrado, MUMBAI
    After reading all the articles i really feel sad for the family
    They are both educated with good jobs, good salary, good medical insurance and good medical knowledge. Please Don't say its MIE is caused by doctors negligence. A nurse in USA working for montefiore hospital knows who is the best doctor. If it was a doctors NEGLIGENCE. they can sue the doctor and hospital for millions of doller's (did they sue the doctor for negligence???)
    As a MTA workers can retire after 25 yrs of service at the age of 55. with full pension.
    As nurse with full medical knowledge, good medical insurance and with MTA pension all this should not have happened.
    Doctors negligence may not be a valid defense to win the custody of children.
    I pray that they will be reunited as soon as possible. lets not judge who is right and wrong.
    i do not want to comment about his house. its up to them to keep clean or dirty. i don't live there so no comments

    DisAgree [8] Agree [18] Reply Report Abuse

  • Glenda, India

    Fri, Feb 02 2018

    I fully agree with you Priya. People want to gossip and this is what they have found. If the eldest son is in that condition I can understand how the parents must be going through and such children are to be taken care with lot of patience. Such children get sudden attacks and get angry on small little things and probably he must have got such an attack where this child may have messed the house.
    Hope Mother Mary intercedes and brings justice to this family.

    DisAgree [7] Agree [9] Reply Report Abuse

  • Henry Mascarenhas, Greenville, NC, USA

    Tue, Jan 30 2018

    Dear JNB - Mangalore Mumbai,

    Thank you for your voice! Mahatma's voice gave us freedom. Japan rose up from dust after WWII and we are still debating about garbage in someone's house a continent away! We need to walk the walk. God Bless!

    DisAgree [6] Agree [6] Reply Report Abuse

  • Ignatius Rodrigues, Uppoor/Abu Dhabi

    Tue, Jan 30 2018

    What is the truth, who knows for sure?

    DisAgree [6] Agree [2] Reply Report Abuse

  • Rob Stan, Udupi / US

    Tue, Jan 30 2018

    Mr. Lewis was working as a professor earlier & worked as MTA tech when the incident took place. Mrs. Lewis was studying MSc Nursing while working. They were a hardworking family.
    Acres of land in Mid-west & North-east of US comes down to few cents of land in the west coast. Miles of driveway comes down to few yards for the same price.
    It has been seen that the 1st generation who came here with high qualification & good job & big house doesn't translate to the same with the kids. I have seen many kids of these high earning individuals in ordinary professions. Rather the chances of kid of a normal person reaching great heights are more. In US, it's alternate generation which does well unlike in India where only people of certain family tree or caste hold high positions.

    DisAgree [6] Agree [11] Reply Report Abuse

  • Vincent D'souza, Mumbai/USA

    Tue, Jan 30 2018

    These couples are victim of circumstances at wrong time, wrong place and at wrong person at fedex bell ring .
    Bringing up family in USA is not that easy like other countries because working s life is so busy than any country in the world believe me or ask somebody here, that's why many people leaving back to the home country and sometimes visiting back and forth.

    DisAgree [20] Agree [23] Reply Report Abuse

  • Hariprasad, Bajpe - Mangalore

    Tue, Jan 30 2018

    Vince! The Fed-x man was the little boy's guardian angel to say the least. God bless him!
    5 year old boy alone at home? with Rats, mice and filth?
    Would you or would you ever let your loved ones live like that?
    Our cattle, poultry, pigs have much cleaner den!
    God love the Fed-X man!

    DisAgree [17] Agree [22] Reply Report Abuse

  • Laveena Lasrado, Mangalore/Mumbai

    Tue, Jan 30 2018

    Dear Wilfred And Charlotte.....Our thoughts and prayers are with you both at this testing time..People are commenting without knowing the circumstances that you were in.If the people who commented negatively about you , known the exact fact they would not have commented like this.We salute you both for the care and Love you have shown for all your four children....I tell this because our entire family lived with you during our visit to USA . I can only say your children will definetley testify about your care and love that you have showered upon them as a parent....It is so shameful to see so much of insensitivity speading in the social media. Since we lived with you for more than a month, we know exactly how lovingly you take care of your children . Also our entire family salute your three kids who too take good care of their elder brother who is a special kid...we have seen your five year old child who is concerened about his elder brother..

    Dear all, Please do not spread this kind of character assasination about the parents .Here the mess was not done by the parents or by the three kids....the eldest kid must have pulled the food out of the fridge..without realising what is right or wrong...We cannot blame the parents because of the mess done by the special child...Rats tend to come inside the apartments when food is seen....Again thats not the parents falt... Every day and night parents clean the house before ...Every morning kids were sent to school neatly..Every holiday the kids were taken to different places to enjoy their vacation....They are doing more than any normal parents can do....They are not only taking good care of their kids ....also funding hundreds of poor students back home for their education....Can any irresponsible parents can do so much of charity? They were not at all selfish.Some mistake must have happenned...somewhere...we humans make mistakes.... please pray that the parents and children may be united soon.

    DisAgree [16] Agree [40] Reply Report Abuse

  • Gangadara, Madipu

    Tue, Jan 30 2018

    Laveena Lasrado, Mangalore/Mumbai
    You are a nice story creator to "HIDE THE TRUTH AND WRITE THE FALSE" I too have friends in US New York Apartment, who never seen a mice or rat for more than 15 years during his stay over there. Rats and mice can not come overnight to anyone's house dear Laveena. You can not digest the truth for sure. Remember New York is not your mice, rat and rodent filled Mumbai.

    DisAgree [23] Agree [22] Reply Report Abuse

  • Rob Stan, Udupi / US

    Tue, Jan 30 2018

    Mice story is the creation of the Fed-Ex employee. He must be seeing lots of Tom & Jerry. But I have seen lots of rabbits around our compound. There might have been roaches, but they are because of the neighbor's pets.

    But here the pest control & maintenance of the apartment is taken care of by the apartment owner. But the Lewis couple failed to inform them to do pest control & do maintenance of the cabinet & paint the house.

    Apartment owner does all this including painting free of cost which is included in the rent itself. Here mortgage of a house & rent of an apartment translates into the same. It's easy to relocate with rental and there are benefits with owning a house too, but maintenance, anti-sue home insurance & all that becomes expensive when someone owns a house.

    DisAgree [3] Agree [4] Reply Report Abuse

  • Peter, Brahmavar

    Tue, Jan 30 2018

    Thanks for your live testimony for Wilfred and Shalet. Lol no

    DisAgree [2] Agree [4] Reply Report Abuse

  • kevin fernandes, MANGALORE/MUMBAI

    Thu, Feb 01 2018

    Only time can tell the true story. I can understand the flat is not cleaned properly. What about the bugs/rats/faeces? If the family is staying in the flat there should be no bugs/rats/stink all together at the same time. Something is amiss. They live in states not in a third world country!!right?

    DisAgree [5] Agree [1] Reply Report Abuse

  • Divya, Udupi

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    1 “Do not judge, or you too will be judged. 2 For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. 3 “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? 4 How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? 5 You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.
    Matthew 7:1-5

    DisAgree [7] Agree [29] Reply Report Abuse

  • andrew, Mangalore/USA

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    There is no excuse for not having the house clean and leaving the child alone. It is understandable that both parents have to work but the other kids could have helped out with cleaning the house. Mom was probably picking up extra shifts and father was picking extra classes while there was no one to help the kids.

    I don't know this couple personally but there seems to be greed for almighty dollar. Probably the mother will lose her nurse's license because child endangerment is grave crime and who wants to be nursed by someone who cannot keep their own house clean.

    Hope the couple is able to get out of the legal mess and hope mom stays home while the professor take responsibility of provider of the house. Stop the greed people.

    DisAgree [14] Agree [17] Reply Report Abuse

  • Henry Mascarenhas, Greenville, NC, USA

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Andrew,
    Thank you for the opportunity to respond to your views. I am not sure if you realize how stressful nursing profession is in US. Long arduous 12 hour shifts, commute and in addition if this lady is picking up extra shifts to make ends meet to raise four children in US, your guess is as good as mine because we know how life is in US. These folks are not living lavishly, they do not even own a house in US, seems like they are living in subsidized rental apartment. The college Mr. Lewis said to have worked has been shut down two years ago, I do not think he holds a teaching job anymore. One of their children is said to have hearing deficit. This couple is middle aged and are bound to have middle age-related health issues limiting their abilities to juggle life like we all expect them to do. There is a lot more to this picture than we know. Hope the Board of Nursing and the Hospital where she is employed gives her an opportunity to rehabilitate herself for the sake of children. Who does not need a second chance in life? She may not be a Martha Stewart, however overall the situation is pitiful. I am not making an excuse for their gross negligence, we human beings are good at judging people in public opinion until it hits home. May God have mercy on this couple and the children.

    DisAgree [7] Agree [48] Reply Report Abuse

  • Hariprasad, Bajpe - Mangalore

    Tue, Jan 30 2018

    Henry: Your response to Andrew doesn't absolve the crime. The couple doesn't work 7 days/24 hour
    shift. Cleanliness is basic requirement for a healthy life style. You know lot about the living/working
    conditions in the U>S., I spent over 50 years in the US, first as a student and then as a High complexity
    Laboratory director for reputable clinics that require Federal and State License.

    We raised several kids in our house - we had a 5 Bedroom house with 2 Acre land and almost mile long
    drive way with a parking lot that could hold 20+ automobiles.
    These parents are accused of Child-endangering - a serious crime American courts will not accept/ nor
    be lenient to this couple, Excuses aside its human decency to keep living quarters clean and free of
    health hazards. Rats/mice and other critters shouldn't be children's companions! Lets follow the court case - the truth will come out!

    DisAgree [12] Agree [10] Reply Report Abuse

  • Henry Mascarenhas, Greenville, NC, USA

    Tue, Jan 30 2018

    Hari,

    Thank you for your response. I am glad you have seen best of the both worlds. While you and the rest in this forum are very concerned about this couple in USA, I am also concerned about our citizens and their families in India, I would have loved to hear from you and the rest what you are doing for our society and its malady in India.

    The plight of Adi Karnataka and Koraga community in your own neighborhood who have lived in squalor and poverty for generations is unfair, they are the victims of our society whereas Lewis family is not a victim of the society in US. The fact that Koragas and such other people live in the conditions that they live in is because people like you are not raising your voice to make their lives better, scores of people on this forum are crying foul about Lewis family in US in utter contempt instead I would like to hear their voice for our own nation in India.

    This family can be rehabilitated and they have hope, the system and the laws in US will not betray them nor condone their neglect. I am not going to ask you about your contribution to the down trodden in your own community, search your soul and find out when was it last time you had similar feelings about your own Koraga community and such people who live in your own society.

    Utilizing social media to toot your two cents worth is very convenient, I would love for you to indulge yourself, your family and your friends and uplift our community in our own nation.

    Think about child labor, defecation in public and all such social maladies, do your might where you are living, leave this couple to their destiny, they will be taken care of as you know. Start your service to our nation today, I wish you well.

    DisAgree [6] Agree [15] Report Abuse

  • JNB, Mangalore-Mumbai

    Tue, Jan 30 2018

    Dear Hariprasad-Bajpe,
    Nice to hear your comments and experience,

    Quote:
    "These parents are accused of Child-endangering - a serious crime American courts will not accept/ nor"....
    Unquote:

    I just want to know your opinion specially in India near yours and mine neighborhood parents leaving their children outside semi naked surrounded with open wells and bore-wells unused within their vicinity and compound, at the end of the day cry and blame themselves loosing their children in open well,
    how much it cost to cover a boundary for a open well?
    Hardly 2 person 2 days labour charges will finish the work.

    Is it not a crime and punishable?
    How many precious children we lost recently and in the fast of this utter negligence? any action taken or any initiatives taken person like me and you.
    It is easy to take others for task and show our one finger at others while 3 fingers looks at us and one Thumb looks up reminding us above us someone who will judge us all, so who we are to judge others?
    Have a great day.

    DisAgree [1] Agree [18] Report Abuse

  • Richard, Mangalore.

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Amazing !! So the Fedex courrier could see rats and cockroaches through the small opening of a window ? He mus t be having amazing eye sight.
    People who live abroad, be it in Gulf or in US , know the struggle when both partners work and cannot afford a maid. Yet they try to keep up and survive, while financially supporting a whole lot of relatives, parents siblings back in India.
    It is sad to see when it comes to India bashing we find a whole lot of racists getting overly interested, and unfortunately our less informed bretheren from our own country too join in humiliating them in public. Leaving a 5 year old is illegal, but hats off to a working couple who desperately struggle to keep running the rat race , probably cleaning up during the weekends. Hope and pray they get their kids back .

    DisAgree [6] Agree [21] Reply Report Abuse

  • Raj, Mangalore

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Did you see the picture it shows the condition of house . I feel pity if this was situation of survival and financial difficulties but it's a shame if this was done just to save money. Rats, cockroaches and fleece are common in dirty apartments. It is not only limited to Indian communities.

    DisAgree [11] Agree [6] Reply Report Abuse

  • Henry Mascarenhas, Greenville, NC, USA

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    I have truly enjoyed reading and contributing to this lively forum. It is gratifying to learn that very many of us have expressed genuine concern for child welfare/safety without malice and some like Ms. Pais have demonstrated their belly ache for this couple for their own gratification. No matter how you slice this apple, the moral of the story is child endangerment, be it here in US or in any other part of the Universe. Cleanliness is next to Godliness it is said, yes indeed, it took Mahatma Gandhi to start a social and moral awareness in our nation decades ago and we have not made considerable strides towards basic tenets of life in India. Every nation, culture and civilization has its own pit falls, some of us have learned from our past and gone on to succeed and build nations and others tend to lag behind. Talk is cheap, together we need to find solutions to make India a better place for our future generation than dissecting one person, one family and one culture at a time for our demise. So long.

    DisAgree [6] Agree [22] Reply Report Abuse

  • Rita, Germany

    Tue, Jan 30 2018

    @Henry Mascarenhas Greenville USA,Here I would explain the situation of this couple so.Mother takes up duties as Nurse ,over that she is doing a MSc.Nursing .That itself iexplains how long she is at home,four children,school going ,a 5years old child ,a elderone not able to help himself?I understand the mess .mostly when parents are not at home children do what they want.probably samething happened as post man rang bell.unluckily.of course childs life is endangered.one asks how she can take care of patients.One should live their life and can understand why and what.I wish someone in USA near to them can help them out of their problematic situation.sad for kids.Rats and mice,might be kids pets in house?Some children even here keep them as pets ,but in boxes.As I see they are really in trouble.Please someone help them through some helping hands .with our hard comments nothing will workout.

    DisAgree [3] Agree [10] Reply Report Abuse

  • Louis D’Souza, Mabukala/Kuwait

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Wilfred was my classmate. I stand with him during his difficulties. This is a conspiracy, truth will be out soon. He is in US more than 25 yrs. I just cannot believe such news. Good and bad days are part of life. We are with you Wilfred.

    DisAgree [10] Agree [27] Reply Report Abuse

  • Rao, Udupi

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Negligence or carelessness will sometimes cost you very badly.

    Both the parents are arrested, All four children are with caretakers. Mother has already been removed from her job. It is really a painful situation.

    Wherever we are, we need to be careful and be responsible. We cannot take things lightly. It is a lesson for all.

    Let us hope the good day comes for the whole family.

    DisAgree [2] Agree [17] Reply Report Abuse

  • JK, Udupi/Dubai

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    after all it is American bugs n rats......won't harm small kids!!!!!

    DisAgree [3] Agree [9] Reply Report Abuse

  • Vijay, Brahmawar/Mlr

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Hail my fellow Netizens🙏

    All i hear is judgement, derision and oneupmanship

    Mistakes may have been made but I see a family struggling to stick together through it all. No signs of abandonment like the undertones in the comments made.

    Would appreciate it if someone could point out how the family can be reached and helped.

    IT TAKES A VILLAGE TO RAISE A FAMILY

    DisAgree [6] Agree [35] Reply Report Abuse

  • Roo, Brahmavar/ Antipodes

    Fri, Feb 09 2018

    Yo Vij!!

    DisAgree Agree Reply Report Abuse

  • Peter Lewis, Brahmavar

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Un fortunate and one bad hour and may be some un avoidable movement made it happen. I am these parents neighbor and knows them since birth.I know how much they are loving to their kids. Dear Wilfredaba and shalet Voni IAM with you at this hour.May God bless you and your children to over come with all your difficulties.

    DisAgree [17] Agree [31] Reply Report Abuse

  • Ignatius, Sastan

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    I am not sure whether we should be passing on such rude comments as if we have exact information about what has happened. I for once know this couple and their entire family for long because their entire family is very well-known in Brahmavar.

    Theirs is a respected family who are known for their benevolence. Not just this couple but their siblings and entire family is in the US for over 4 decades now. So staying in the US isn't new for them and for sure they are very well aware of stringent US Laws too. So I sincerely believe that before passing on such harsh judgments and comments we need to hear version of the story from couple too.

    Agreed they did wrong by leaving a 5-year-old child alone at home which again was filled with dirt, roaches, and rats. But I can't agree that they have been doing so all this while and that's how they have been living. It could be that they could not make it to home on time due to some work before their other children left to school or got delayed due to some other reason on this particular day. So why can't we wait to hear from them too once? I am lenient towards them because I know not just them but their entire family who are fondly known as 'American Family' in and around Brahmavar. Their brothers, sisters, niece, nephews are all there and I for once vouch that this could one such incidence where something unexpected took place and they ended up in this situation.

    DisAgree [20] Agree [37] Reply Report Abuse

  • CHRISTINE, MANGALORE

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Nothing special in this. Both parents are going for job children going for work. Cooking and getting ready to job and school is a great job and they done it. Cleaning the house they might not had time. They might thought they come later home and do.. People giving big big comments their house may be dirtier than this. Who knows.After all the boy is 5 years old he also might have messed little more as he is free at home. Mother may be ill so that she cannot do the work.

    At home if husband and children help a little to mother she do little more work even cleaning the house. Otherwise she also has to go for work all work means it is one day job how can she reach job place in time.

    I hope there is no fault in parents.

    DisAgree [17] Agree [24] Reply Report Abuse

  • Thomas Scaria, Mangalore, Colombo

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Let us not be too judgemental. This story is one-sided, when it comes to cleanliness. It is possible that a 5 year old can mess up things and throw things around when he is kept alone. The rat story, etc are bit difficult to believe as it does not conform to US standards. If there are rats in apartments, the state also must be held responsible. But leaving the child alone in the house while parents go for work is punishable by US Law.

    DisAgree [14] Agree [22] Reply Report Abuse

  • Samantha Lewis, Mangalore / Dubai

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Such reports should not be published without conviction. Yes the hygiene condition can be seen and disturbing. The couple may having their version to say.. Lets not be judgmental till we know the fact.

    DisAgree [16] Agree [22] Reply Report Abuse

  • PEDDU, MANGALURU

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    When there is equal earnings and equal rights practiced the place will be dirty like this !! there are no compromises on personal ego even the house get burned ! they stick to one point ? why should I DO !!! These so called highly educated life is so much of complicated nowadays.

    Even you do wrong things in your life and no one catch you but one fine day "one angel" will come in a disguise like FEDex agent or Mobile Technician so guys beware and respect the almighty.

    There is nothing wrong to clean the house by yourself after all its your house !!

    DisAgree [4] Agree [18] Reply Report Abuse

  • Jenifer, Mangalore

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    'Why should I do ? " is answered by the system of employing lower grade workers to offer the services. If we find it too expensive to hire the domestic help then we are not aiming at a target bur running in a circle. For example, a rich man's wife, daughter or mother may not sweep or clean the utensils but he has enough resources to hire a domestic help whereas we are not so well-off. That itself says that 'why should I do' does not imply to us middle class people.

    Therefore, share the household works, or end up in legal mess like this couple. Else, don't marry, don't bear children, don't own a home. Live like a gypsy or rent a hotel room. After that, don't crib about lost culture/tradition/values.

    There is no other way out.

    DisAgree [6] Agree [8] Reply Report Abuse

  • PEDDU, MANGALURU

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    I do agree with you completely ! This was a American Dream and turn into nightmare ! by the way BRHAMAWAR is beautiful place to live with dignity.

    DisAgree [5] Agree [17] Reply Report Abuse

  • JNB, Mangalore-Mumbai

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    may be they clean the house at weekend since both are working,
    keeping a housemaid also not an easy task,
    later same housemaid can take you for ride in US stating duty hours are more than labour law etc bla,bla like Indian diplomat Devyani Khobragade's maid did for her.

    DisAgree [7] Agree [17] Reply Report Abuse

  • Kishoo, Barkur

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    There must be something more than we all know in this story. Not all days are same and let us not judge anyone here, without knowing the real facts. I feel something amiss, I don't know. Let's hope and pray for the best for the couple and their kids.

    DisAgree [20] Agree [23] Reply Report Abuse

  • Lily Grace D Silva, Mangalore/Mumbai/Dubai

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Shameful and disgusting to womanhood this couple has brought. How can the parents keep the house so dirty worse than the animal shed. In fact even these places are also equally kept clean. What kind of nurse she is? A mother, never ever leave the children this way. She cares and loves them and their well being is the primary duty. Her hearts goes out to them in taking care. I too am a mother and this brought tears in my eyes. Bless the guy who called the police to take action on the spot. Let the police and concerned department keep this couple in their custody and train them how to keep the house clean and take care of the children.
    I yet to believe they are from our country..

    DisAgree [23] Agree [25] Reply Report Abuse

  • Rao, Udupi

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    You have to follow the law of the land.

    DisAgree [1] Agree [22] Reply Report Abuse

  • Jenifer, Mangalore

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Exactly. Otherwise remain in the country of your origin, don't dream about the West. This is better than polluting the country you migrated to.

    DisAgree [3] Agree [22] Reply Report Abuse

  • Rudolf Rodrigues, Mumbai

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    There r many such incidents being reported from this country!!! Read below another recent horrific one! This is the "underbelly" of this nation below the froth!!

    California couple arrested after trapped children discovered in their home
    16/01/2018
    Californian couple have been arrested, after police discovered 13 people held captive and neglected inside their house.

    Ranging in age between two and 29 years old, the victims are believed to all be the offspring of 57-year-old David Allen Turpin and 49-year-old Louise Anna Turpin, according to Riverside County Sheriff's Department.

    The discovery was made, after one of the captives managed to break free and call 911 from a cell phone she discovered inside the house. She told police her siblings were being held captive by her parents, and some of them were bound with chains and padlocks.

    When police arrived at the address in Perris, California, they discovered what they believed to be 12 emaciated children locked in the house in foul-smelling surroundings.

    The officers were shocked to discover that seven of the captives were actually adults, ranging in age from 18 to 29.

    All 13 victims were interviewed by police, and provided with food and drink, after they claimed to be starving.

    The children were sent to Riverside University Hospital for treatment, while the adults were admitted to Corona Regional Medical Centre.

    DisAgree [1] Agree [11] Reply Report Abuse

  • Suman, Mangalore

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    They must be Rahul Gandhi fans. Against cleanliness programs

    DisAgree [75] Agree [17] Reply Report Abuse

  • Amith, USA

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    They may be waiting for FEKU'S Swatch Bharat Abhiyaan in the US!!! Poor people couldn't make what is Alsi & what is Nakli!!!!!

    DisAgree [10] Agree [45] Reply Report Abuse

  • D.P.Shetty, Bahrain

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Great Amith USA always comments on Indian politics,Modi,BJP,RSS. there is no comments such dirty condition people are living there,hope you are wearing dark cooling glass

    DisAgree [6] Agree [10] Reply Report Abuse

  • Clvie, Kuwait

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Painting saffron or sweeping the roads a daydoes not make anything clean.

    DisAgree [8] Agree [34] Reply Report Abuse

  • A.F. Roche, Udupi

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Keeping ur house shabby is better than keeping ur dirty minded thoughts. U n ur Feku can clean na?
    .

    DisAgree [7] Agree [17] Reply Report Abuse

  • sunil n dsouza, udupi/dubai

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    In India people might have told non of your business. Kudos Americans and their law.

    DisAgree Agree [7] Reply Report Abuse

  • Vincent Rodrigues, Bengaluru/Katapadi

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Quite unfortunate incident indeed and also inhuman one which is beyond any reasoning

    DisAgree [2] Agree [3] Reply Report Abuse

  • John Pinto, Mangalore / USA

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Leaving minor kids at home alone is a crime in the US, no matter what the circumstances are.....plus the the filthy and rat infested house..... the couple are in big trouble, over and above losing their children to foster care!

    DisAgree [1] Agree [29] Reply Report Abuse

  • Ramesh S, MANGALORE

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    ..One professor and onother nurse...what is the use of education then..labour accommodations more clean than this professors home..

    DisAgree [13] Agree [66] Reply Report Abuse

  • TTM, boston usa

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    NUTTY PROFESSOR

    DisAgree [11] Agree [14] Reply Report Abuse

  • Ray, Mangalore/ Dubai

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Dear Readers,

    Please don't judge anyone..life is not easy with everyone and it differs from person to person...please pray for all the members of the family!!!

    DisAgree [23] Agree [63] Reply Report Abuse

  • GORDOST, KUDLA

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    We can see that the community is defending their own eventhough they have committed inhuman act. They are trying to come out with many excuses - like " dont judge by the report" , " they may be facing financial problem" .. etc etc... . Had it not been not from the same community all would have unanimously cried for death penalty ... . present day government would have also come into the picture as if that is their doing!
    Quite interesting to note the mentality of these peo[ple!

    DisAgree [29] Agree [19] Reply Report Abuse

  • Ray, Mangalore/ Dubai

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Dear Sir...If it will be any another religion also i will stand by my statement no doubt about it!!!

    DisAgree [4] Agree [17] Reply Report Abuse

  • Vivek, Hirebyle / Abu dhabi

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    yes ..i agree with you.......

    DisAgree [5] Agree [4] Reply Report Abuse

  • Vivek, Hirebyle / Abu dhabi

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Opppsss.......I agree with GORDOST, KUDLA

    DisAgree [12] Agree [5] Report Abuse

  • Raj, Dubai

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Please check if anyone of your relatives abroad staying in bedspace ,how difficulties they face because of diffrent shifts.Even I am not Christian I stand for them May be their circumstances brought all this problems.It's true that child was alone at home,And it's crime in that country to leave the child alone.But your saying is very much as inhuman,don't think that you will be same as you are now.Life's days are different chapters of book..

    DisAgree [2] Agree [8] Reply Report Abuse

  • Stan, Udupi/Dubai

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    They spoiled the name of the country they are born. Take their children away as they are unfit to guide them Professor and a NURSE and house infested with rats ,bedbugs shows the dirtiness of their mind.

    DisAgree [16] Agree [38] Reply Report Abuse

  • Sachin Shetty, Mangalore

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    This is the difference between the Indian way and US way of raising kids...Indian parents will not leave their kids alone even if they are old enough to take care of themselves...

    DisAgree [7] Agree [25] Reply Report Abuse

  • PEDDU, MANGALURU

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    ONLY SHOW OFF BY INDIAN CITIZENS WHO LIVING IN USA !! ONLY TOM TOM BUT INSIDE STORY IS DIFFERENT !!

    DisAgree [7] Agree [34] Reply Report Abuse

  • Vivek, Hirebyle / Abu dhabi

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Trump is right ...banning Migration for anyone .....

    DisAgree [3] Agree [22] Reply Report Abuse

  • jl, india

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    AGREE with you. cannot keep feet on two boats career and family. always sacrifice career for family else do not have kids if you cannot look after.

    DisAgree [3] Agree [30] Reply Report Abuse

  • Hilda D Silva, kallianpur/Loretto

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    It is an unfortunate incident.I know the couple closely.Charlotte is a loving caring mom.All days are not the same.May be the couple couldn't clean the flat.Let us not inflict pain at this time when they are undergoing this ordeal.

    DisAgree [43] Agree [47] Reply Report Abuse

  • Vivek, Hirebyle / Abu dhabi

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    it's not just a Incident now.....it become a News.....i can Understand leaving a Boy Alone ....but look at the Cleanliness.....

    DisAgree [3] Agree [12] Reply Report Abuse

  • sri_elder, Karkala

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    I think Fed ex employee has done kind of moral policing...
    These things doesn't need court hearing, it doesn't need international coverage..
    These things need to be settled locally by police through talks because people involved here are educated and need little attention...

    DisAgree [21] Agree [44] Reply Report Abuse

  • Vivek, Hirebyle / Abu dhabi

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    it would have been ....little negotiations with little money....but it is Not our India......what to do?.....

    DisAgree [2] Agree [6] Reply Report Abuse

  • Dev, Mangalore

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    American Dream Turns Nightmare!
    The grass on other side looks more green & most people migrate in the hope of becoming citizens of that country as it is a country with plenty of material wealth but lacks in wellness & contentment we have in our home country.
    Once they land there they find living in US is not easy, they need credit rating & cards to get every facility like buying a house or car, they buy them or avail these things at a cost & are forced to work double shifts to pay the credit they got. Health Insurance is another scam which doesn't even cover their dental care in full, the policies make the company rich & people are forced to have tests or treatments the company wants them to have.
    After spending a fortune to get green card people can't come back to India, as they will be viewed as failures in their native place if they do so. The heavy taxes too take their toll but recently Trump has reduced them.
    In US kids have more freedom & rights than their parents, they value their future generation & treats them like princes or princesses, many Indian migrants are learning that in a hard way. Whatever frustrations, stress, anxiety & helplessness they faced only the parents know to bring up all their kids in an expensive part of the world & neglecting their own house in maintaining hygiene & cleanliness is a mistake now they will regret for rest of their life in US

    DisAgree [9] Agree [22] Reply Report Abuse

  • Rob Stan, Udupi / US

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    My advice to my fellow Indians is that there are good luxury/ultra luxury apartments for half the price if one can drive 1 -2 hours outside the city center of any main city. But driving to & fro for such a distance is not everyone's piece of cake. So people have to plan many things; there are lot of things that need to be planned. I have heard that some people travel through train for 4 hours in each direction to work for 8 hours daily for 5 days. People especially who are not born in US need to increase their positive energy level to match the energy level here. This can only be done if we do workout,swimming & other activities & not by having parties & chit chatting.
    The apartment where the Lewis couple are staying is good but their particular unit was not kept tidy. I have checked this through photo & video's from other sites. Also Mrs. Lewis was pursuing Master's in Nursing. So they were really stretching with Master's, both working, 4 kids etc.,But whatever they did was wrong & I'm sure the court & child services would give them an opportunity to rectify their mistakes.

    DisAgree [5] Agree [39] Reply Report Abuse

  • Stan, Udupi/Dubai

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    To keep the house clean and tidy does not cost any money.Even poor people keep their house clean.

    DisAgree [2] Agree [13] Reply Report Abuse

  • Hariprasad, Bajpe - Mangalore

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Educated couple doesn't have time to take care of their children? No means also? We have two little kids - we love them so we decided one of us (naturally mother) will stay home. We needed the money but the kids are too precious - we chose to make lots of money once the kids got to be adults! And we
    did! My American returned friend told me just a week ago how his close relative locked up his/her two boys all night long - while husband and wife partied with stolen liqueur, food, friends and prostitutes!
    When they got caught for stealing, lying, cheating they fabricated stories blaming the kind/generous
    sponsors of victimizing them! They bragged themselves as victims of human trafficking at every occasion in order to gain residency! Americans believe these stories but only the sponsors can relate
    to the hardship, loss of over million dollars and peace of mind! Excusing parents who victimize innocent children is a true folly and a sin of greatest Magnitude. God love the poor Children. There should be no reason to victimize God-given precious treasure(s) and look for vain excuses!

    DisAgree [6] Agree [11] Reply Report Abuse

  • Bengalurian, Bengaluru

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    It could have been a double edged sword for the sponsor. He might have been paying less for his employees who were taken to US without any documents. The employees might have been knowing that they can claim to be victims of human trafficking as they could have heard similar stories which happened to other people. So they might have been partying with stuff from the same store where they were working and the sponsor lost a million dolor for calling cops & the employees got green card.

    DisAgree [2] Agree [3] Reply Report Abuse

  • gm, mlur

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    I don't have to say anything here other than how can anyone keep his / her surrounding so dirty that is also inside the house. Unbelievable.

    DisAgree [3] Agree [37] Reply Report Abuse

  • Anseema, Mangalore

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Mithro
    Swach America :)

    DisAgree [4] Agree [17] Reply Report Abuse

  • Valerian Dsouza, Udupi/Mumbai

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Appreciate U.S. concern for Children and senior citizens and reprimanding Brahmavar couple for leaving child alone in filthy rat-infested home.
    Neglecting and or causing harm whether to children, elders, helpless or anyone for that matter is gross injustice.
    Such laws are necessary in a country. Here in India, off late, welfare of Cattle, Dogs etc. is on the rise but humans!

    DisAgree [4] Agree [26] Reply Report Abuse

  • Debra Whaley, Maysville, USA

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    My Hats off to all of you who have expressed outrage and compassion (for children) about this Indian couple in US. I am touched by your awareness, now please go out with the same compassion and outrage and lend a hand to the hungry, poor, neglected, abused children who are bound in the chains of child labor and slavery in India. I will give my voice to your noble deed!

    DisAgree [11] Agree [65] Reply Report Abuse

  • AMAR NATHAL, MANGALORE

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Debra Whaley, Maysville, USA, all those who expressed anger and shed crocodile tears will disappear one by one as your assignment seem to be a tough.

    DisAgree [3] Agree [43] Reply Report Abuse

  • Jenifer, Mangalore

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Debra,

    "now please go out with the same compassion and outrage and lend a hand to the hungry, poor, neglected, abused children who are bound in the chains of child labor and slavery in India. I will give my voice to your noble deed!"

    Why aren't you telling the same to the US officials who detained the parents ? Why aren't you asking the US government to first eradicate drug-addicts, muggers, shooters of the innocents and so on and then to go after the Levis couple ? Why aren't you demanding the couple be freed because its alright to leave a child unattended in unhygienic conditions ? You decided to pester those who commented here because its none of their business to say anything about something that is happening outside India ? Why ? Did the Levis family drop down from the sky into the US or were they (and might continue to be if the US deports them) Indians ? Doesn't this make any difference to the repute of India as a nation, or no ?

    You are actually defending the couple - explain me how otherwise ! Perhaps my vibes are correct that what is reported here is natural situation with all families Indians origin in the US ?

    DisAgree [9] Agree [9] Reply Report Abuse

  • Wilson Dsouza, Mangalore

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Debra,

    First clean your house rather pointing at others mess . Just to remind you , few backs two parents chained their 13 kids and treated them as slaves .. !!

    May be Indians can teach you how to be a good parent and whats respect .. !!

    DisAgree [4] Agree [6] Reply Report Abuse

  • Nelson Pinto, Dubai/Mumbai

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    @Sangeeta Pais, Kundapur/ New York ,
    Pls don't jump into judgement, we all are from Asian countries or origin , our elders must have left us alone and went out atleast for short period of time one way or other for sure because that system supported them at that time and even now, if I am wrong, you can see there even today.
    I know one Indian guy took cooking masala to gulf in his bag and he got arrested then deported in gulf and other one took meat , it is a system.
    About the filty kitchen when many outsider came home when kid was alone to take him out the house, ofcourse it must have happen that condition in small kitchen area.

    DisAgree [20] Agree [17] Reply Report Abuse

  • NN, NN

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    This is for information of all green card holders (non-citizens)

    A person may be deportable from the U.S.
    if he or she:
    Has been convicted of domestic violence, stalking, child abuse, child neglect, or child abandonment, at any time after U.S. admission.

    If convicted, which is most likely, this couple can be deported back to India.

    Child care is expensive in the US at the same time there is help available from the State, if one cannot afford it.

    DisAgree Agree [15] Reply Report Abuse

  • NN, NN

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    For further information, open defecation is also a crime in USA (indecent exposure) and if convicted the non-citizens can be deported.

    DisAgree Agree [7] Reply Report Abuse

  • TTM, BOSTON, USA

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    A noncitizen is deportable if, after admission and after September 30, 1996, he or she is
    convicted of a “crime of child abuse, child neglect, or child abandonment.”46 There is no
    requirement that the person have a particular relationship with the child, or that a particular
    sentence was imposed. At this time ICE appears to be charging almost any offense that has a
    minor victim as an element, or where the record of conviction shows that the victim was under
    18, as a crime of child abuse. It might even so charge P.C. § 272

    DisAgree Agree [7] Reply Report Abuse

  • Henry Mascarenhas, Greenville, NC, USA

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Ms. Pais and the other folks,
    Parents of Asian origin in the Western World are generally very ambitious, caring and nurturing of their children. It is unfortunate that Lewies’s are a disappointment to our community. Before judging this couple for their short falls, we need to give them the benefit of doubt. Immigrants like Lewies’ from Asia try to stretch themselves beyond their abilities in supporting their own families here in US and try to support their extended families in India to make their lives better. While doing so they do not realize that they are getting themselves into a cycle of extreme stress resulting in depression, anxiety and ultimately deterioration in their own marital relationship leading to social instability. Lewis’s probably suffered from deep financial crisis and may not have been able to afford child care which is very expensive in US. They probably were working very hard to make ends meet, although there is no excuse for neglecting their own children. Please do not be judgmental in crying foul, if any pray for their them and their children. God Bless you and your family. I am not their friend, I do not know them, I am a fellow countrymen and a health care professional.

    DisAgree [28] Agree [26] Reply Report Abuse

  • Fernando, Ujree

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Brother,
    Whatever difficulties, pain, rain, cold, sorrow and so on, there is no excuse for not cleaning their house. Being a Professor and Nurse who is teaching others and taking care of others first you learn yourself, then you teach others you got it. First you take care of your own health then you take care of others health. The decency of US authorities is they published only one picture (may be the kitchen picture). They didn't publish the pictures of other places in that house.
    IF THERE IS SOMETHING WORNG RAISE YOUR VOICE AND TELL THAT IS WRONG. DON'T JUSTIFY WRONG THINGS.

    DisAgree [5] Agree [16] Reply Report Abuse

  • Henry Mascarenhas, Greenville, NC, USA

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Totally agree with you, neglected children have hope in US whereas our children in India are deprived of hope, we need people like you to end child labor. Please do not be a armchair critic, please raise your voice against child labor/slavery in India, my prayers are with you. God Bless
    http://unicef.in/Whatwedo/21/Child-Labour

    DisAgree [6] Agree [12] Reply Report Abuse

  • Fernando, Ujree

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Henry,
    Sure I can. Only I want Our ex Mumbai police commissioner, Reberio should be our President or Prime Minister, who can take care of me and help me. The current BJP or Congress govt. people will finish me as early as possible. Because people who do child labor, sponsor their election.

    DisAgree Agree [7] Report Abuse

  • C P Urva, Mangaluru/Bengaluru

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Keeping a house clean is it also expensive? They also have a grown up kids can’t they clean a house? Everyone have their challenges in life but that does not mean we forget our basic etiquette’s. The house in that particular looks like a garbage in that pic. Don’t you think?

    DisAgree [2] Agree [19] Reply Report Abuse

  • Henry Mascarenhas, Greenville, NC, USA

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Could not agree with you more. We need conscientious citizens like you in India, you are our future. 525 million people in India practicing open defecation is nothing to be proud of. Again please raise your voice just as you have now to make a difference to mankind and our citizens in India.
    https://www.huffingtonpost.com/rose-george/open-defecation-india_b_7898834.html

    DisAgree [6] Agree [9] Reply Report Abuse

  • Hariprasad, Balkunje-Mulki

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    There is no excuse for such behavior in this modern world! If parents don't have time to take care of their newborns - I say don't have kids. Innocent angels need to be taken care 24 hours a day!
    The negligent parents deserve scorn NOT APOLOGIES and EXCUSES for their IN-HUMANE CRUEL
    HEART-LESS CONDUCT - In my opinion they deserve punishment allowed by the full-extent of the LAW! Hoe can we condone such behavior and worse justify it by blaming other factors?
    At the same token as professionals in healthcare and Academia they could have chosen NOT TO HAVE
    children - other people do it?
    This CRUDE, CRUEL behavior is UN-BECOMING of any parent much less EDUCATED/WOFKING/
    GAINFULLY employed parents! Lock them up!

    DisAgree [4] Agree [6] Reply Report Abuse

  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    NAAM BADE DARSHAN CHHOTE ...

    DisAgree [15] Agree [29] Reply Report Abuse

  • Jose, Bombayi

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    No Black sheep theory to this case uncle........

    DisAgree [3] Agree [4] Reply Report Abuse

  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    A lot of Mangaloreans working in the Gulf, claim they are Managers to their family back home.
    I was on deputation to Dubai for a few months & many people whom I knew failed to recognize me ...

    DisAgree [2] Agree [9] Reply Report Abuse

  • Rohan Pinto, Mangalore

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    How she got job in healthcare department as a nurse ?

    DisAgree [6] Agree [24] Reply Report Abuse

  • Rufus, Udupi/Boston

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Is that you Wilfred, unbelievable what a life you are leaving. I feel sorry about your children’s God bless them

    DisAgree [12] Agree [22] Reply Report Abuse

  • Charan Amin, Mlore/Dubai

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Nurse and professor ? My God, look at the way they maintained their house. Poor and uneducated people will maintain their house better than this. Unbelievable. May be they are psychos.

    DisAgree [9] Agree [27] Reply Report Abuse

  • Alwyn, Canada

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Indians will be indian's no matterr where they go. It is a shame to see people never change of thier indian culture. Finally the truth is out and the kids will be taken care. Sad.

    DisAgree [26] Agree [15] Reply Report Abuse

  • HENRY MiSQUITH, Bahrain

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    I really don’t understand how parents with great jobs could be so irresponsible and disgusting! Some people really don’t deserve children.

    DisAgree [8] Agree [31] Reply Report Abuse

  • Henry Mascarenhas, Greenville, NC, USA

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    My dear Indian Brothers and Sisters,

    Please do not lynch this family. Yes they have neglected their children and household, they have not committed a crime. Thank God for the Fedex delivery person. If any, this couple will have an opportunity to set their life straight, hopefully? We Indians are compassionate and kind, we are forgiving and caring, let us for once be true Indians in praying for this family. It is very easy to be arm chair critics, every one of us has our own drawn backs big or small. Do forgive them when they return to their soil, they do belong to that land. Only Jesus Christ, Prophet Mohammad and many great saints such as Basavanna and others were without blemish and sins. God Bless!

    DisAgree [20] Agree [17] Reply Report Abuse

  • JAGDISH, mumbai

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    USA du mata enchenena ?

    DisAgree [1] Agree [8] Reply Report Abuse

  • Mp, Brahmavar

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Can anybody in Brahmavar tell me what is wrong with this family.

    DisAgree [11] Agree [19] Reply Report Abuse

  • rajesh, udupi

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Once you are told what is wrong with them, are going to do it alright? Mind ur own business than being a unappointed honorable supreme court judge. Its easy to pass judgement sitting at home.

    DisAgree [9] Agree [27] Reply Report Abuse

  • BBD, Sanfrancisco

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    This is an live instance of God is present among us. Yesterday we read a news about Saitan parents wherein father was kicking his son for lying and his monster mother instead of stopping her husband she was recording. God brought this truth out in the form of "mobile phone technician".
    Today God saved this 4 children from the clutches of their monster parents in the form of "fedex delivery man". BE AWARE, TRUTH WILL COME OUT. WON'T GO HIDING FOR A LONGTIME. Do good things and live good life is the only solution.

    DisAgree [11] Agree [22] Reply Report Abuse

  • JK, Udupi

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Very inhuman thing what they did to the kid. Such people should be kept in jail forever without bail, not worth to live in the society.

    DisAgree [12] Agree [12] Reply Report Abuse

  • Ahmed K. C., Mangalore

    Sun, Jan 28 2018

    US citizens are not used to such living conditions.
    But, in India, sab kuch jugaad.
    Phir bhi dil hai Hindustani.
    We believe that such living conditions will boost our immunity.

    DisAgree [4] Agree [18] Reply Report Abuse

  • Nelson Pinto, Dubai/Mumbai

    Sun, Jan 28 2018

    Just like some of the gulf countries taking small pain killer medication is a big crime punishable under long term imprisonment, similarly leaving kid alone in US is big crime, it's all about system, some countries it is against the law & in others it is all petty issue not to be discussed.
    I feel really sad for the parents, hard working good parents, hope God will help them.

    DisAgree [17] Agree [14] Reply Report Abuse

  • Rahul, Mangalore

    Sun, Jan 28 2018

    Mother is a Nurse& The apartment is very dirty.
    What type of Nurse she is.

    DisAgree [6] Agree [28] Reply Report Abuse

  • leslie, udupi

    Sun, Jan 28 2018

    I wonder what forced the couple to be forced by law...
    Having a invalid child is not the reason to desert the house and child...
    Let us not draw conclusions here...
    Life is always tough for parents with special children....
    I am one such parent...

    DisAgree [2] Agree [9] Reply Report Abuse

  • ca girishkk, m'lore/dxb

    Sun, Jan 28 2018

    What this can be called as...., Make in Hindustan style ..., though I beg to differ....!!!!

    DisAgree [8] Agree [6] Reply Report Abuse

  • Jenifer, Mangalore

    Sun, Jan 28 2018

    Well, leaving the child alone when the other siblings at school is understandable but the filth in the house ? Bugs, rats ?

    Can't they spare an hour for cleaning the house ? So much bent on putting work-hours ? How do you guys digest wealth earned in this sway ?

    You guys are putting to shame the entire Indian population there in the US !

    DisAgree [8] Agree [26] Reply Report Abuse

  • comman, man

    Sun, Jan 28 2018

    money money...!!! Paise k liye kuch b karenga

    DisAgree [6] Agree [13] Reply Report Abuse

  • Ahmed, Bangalore

    Sun, Jan 28 2018

    If they can't afford to meet expenses in US then why is the need to settle there and why not return to home land and stay in cheap and best clean house??

    Looking inside clearly shows how negligible and unhygienic these couples are. Even after being literate, their standard of living looks like low class labour.

    With such living, they have made our India especially our Udupi ashamed. Normally our coastal karnataka is very clean compared to any other place in India. Just wondering how can people of these couple belonging to such place turned unhygienic.

    There is a saying in English "Grass is always greener at other side"

    When you can't afford to stay in US, not to fall so low and lead a pathetic life but instead to migrate other place or return home land to stay good and healthy.

    DisAgree [6] Agree [16] Reply Report Abuse

  • I wish I was there, Bahrain

    Sun, Jan 28 2018

    There are more filthy homes in the US, this is not something new, there are couples who chain their wife and kids what about that,
    Give us a break.

    DisAgree [7] Agree [16] Reply Report Abuse

  • Sujata Gonsalves, Bangalore

    Sun, Jan 28 2018

    What goes around come around. Real KARMA

    DisAgree [6] Agree [13] Reply Report Abuse

  • Thomas Andrade, Toronto

    Sun, Jan 28 2018

    The mother is working as nurse and does not know how to keep her house neat and tidy. How can one expect from her to look after patients if she is not able to take care of her own 5-year old child? Hope both the parents would get an exemplary punishment.

    DisAgree [8] Agree [21] Reply Report Abuse

  • NN, NN

    Sun, Jan 28 2018

    After living in the US for so many years and holding fairly good positions, the Professor and the Nurse should have known better. Now both may lose their jobs and all children will be in State custody. Never live children under 14 years alone, even if they are matured enough to take care of themselves.

    DisAgree [2] Agree [14] Reply Report Abuse

  • Anand, Mangalore

    Sun, Jan 28 2018

    Shame on these parents. Behind money making. No time to clean the house. How they live in this condition , like pigs.

    DisAgree [8] Agree [23] Reply Report Abuse

  • shagird, mangalore

    Sun, Jan 28 2018

    devils home, only satan resides

    DisAgree [8] Agree [16] Reply Report Abuse

  • HENRY MISQUITH, Bahrain

    Sun, Jan 28 2018

    Shame on filthy educated family.

    DisAgree [9] Agree [24] Reply Report Abuse

  • Rita, Germany

    Sun, Jan 28 2018

    Hard to hear this news.Onething atleast is thank God for the child.and his brother and sister help came through post man at last minute.Hope things will clear soon.

    DisAgree [9] Agree [9] Reply Report Abuse

  • Sangeeta Pais, Kundapur/ New York

    Sun, Jan 28 2018

    Finally the truth is out.

    DisAgree [14] Agree [82] Reply Report Abuse

  • RonRon, Udupi

    Sun, Jan 28 2018

    @Sangeetha Pais..... why didn't you inform authority .... you are also guilty for hiding the fact.

    DisAgree [6] Agree [21] Reply Report Abuse

  • Henry Mascarenhas, Greenville, NC, USA

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Ms. Pais, we do not know the circumstances under which this couple neglected their child and the reason for their deplorable living conditions though they seem to be gainfully employed. Please do not be critical. Every one needs a chance to make their life better. If you do not have anything good to say, please do not say anything at all. Thanks

    DisAgree [24] Agree [27] Reply Report Abuse

  • Jembar Bappu, Bajpe

    Sun, Jan 28 2018

    Salute US law of land
    Standard of living
    Value for human beings
    Really great !!!

    DisAgree [7] Agree [148] Reply Report Abuse

  • FAZIL, DXB

    Sun, Jan 28 2018

    What about US blood shed was in Iraq, there was no value of human being...

    DisAgree [47] Agree [9] Reply Report Abuse

  • Devkumar, Mangalore/New Delhi

    Sun, Jan 28 2018

    standard of living surrended by rats, pests in an apartment.

    DisAgree [5] Agree [18] Reply Report Abuse

  • Sunil, Bajpe

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Devkumar, Mangalore/New Delhi
    You are one cartoon. They are not US standard. they are your INDIAN STANDARDS shown by an your fellow INDIAN in the US, got caught and published by the US news channels all over the world. Write some matured comments friend!

    DisAgree [12] Agree [17] Reply Report Abuse

  • Devkumar, Mangalore/New Delhi

    Mon, Jan 29 2018

    Even Late Bal Saheb Thackeray was also cartoonist. Why you people become ecentric when say something about other western countries.

    DisAgree [5] Agree [8] Report Abuse


Leave a Comment

Title: Udupi: Brahmavar couple in US held for leaving child alone in filthy, rat-infested home



You have 2000 characters left.

Disclaimer:

Please write your correct name and email address. Kindly do not post any personal, abusive, defamatory, infringing, obscene, indecent, discriminatory or unlawful or similar comments. Daijiworld.com will not be responsible for any defamatory message posted under this article.

Please note that sending false messages to insult, defame, intimidate, mislead or deceive people or to intentionally cause public disorder is punishable under law. It is obligatory on Daijiworld to provide the IP address and other details of senders of such comments, to the authority concerned upon request.

Hence, sending offensive comments using daijiworld will be purely at your own risk, and in no way will Daijiworld.com be held responsible.