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19-year-old missing Kerala girl flees to Abu Dhabi to be with lover

  •   Mon, Sep 30 2019 03:21:38 PM

Abu Dhabi, Sep 30 (IANS): A 19-year-old Delhi-based Christian girl who flew to Abu Dhabi earlier this month and embraced Islam, has rubbished reports that she has been abducted and coerced into joining a terrorist group, adding that she came to the UAE for love.

"This is not true. I have found my true calling and have come to Abu Dhabi of my own free will. No one forced me. I am an adult citizen of India and can make my own decision," Ciyani Benny, now known as Aisha, told Gulf News on Sunday.

A final year under-graduate student at the Jesus and Mary College, Ciyani attended classes until on September 18.

However, the same day, she took a flight to Abu Dhabi to marry an Abu Dhabi-based Indian man she became friends with on social media about nine months ago.

Her parents, originally from Kozhikode, Kerala, filed a missing report alongside a police complaint saying that their daughter has been kidnapped.

But on Saturday, Ciyani issued a statement saying that she embraced Islam in Abu Dhabi Court on September 24 of her own free will.

"I have accepted this religion and would ensure that I would live with the same faith," she added.

In her statement, she urged the Indian government to take action against those spreading the "fake news" that she has been "abducted or is part of a terrorist group".

Ciyani said her parents, including his brother have air-dashed to Abu Dhabi to meet her.

"I have told them I am not going back. I want to get married to live in the UAE," she told Gulf News on Sunday.

 
  

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  • Salim, Bagalkot

    Tue, Oct 01 2019

    I thought the youngsters nowadays are more mature than 20-30 years back. This is insane. Only thing is they should lead a good life, not regret her decision later on.

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  • Naveen, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 01 2019

    Made a mistake without completing studies, Its well and good if her husband allows her to study further.. Good story.. keep tracking.. Need to see the climax..

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  • Joyisa, Mangalore

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    ಬೇಲಿ ಲಾಗಿದ್ ಪೋಯಿನ ಪೆತ್ತಲಾ, ಇಲ್ಲ್ ಜತ್ತ್ ಪೊಣ್ಣುಲಾ ಒಂಜಿ! ರಡ್ಡಲ ಪಿರ ಬರಂದ್.....

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  • David Pais, Mangalore

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    after 3 talaq she will realize monogamy is better dan polygamy.

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  • Rita, Germany

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    Whatever or whoever one says ,I say this girl has made a great mistake.Not that she marries or married another religious man, no .It is she simply without completing her studies ,without any basics she ran away to meet her lover.Why so hurry when both love first see you have some education completed,see some job.or without telling parents to run was it needed?Now she asks indian embassy to take action against people who spread news or family members?Not a fine way.This shows it does not come from her but her lover? I am sure she will soon realize her mistake .If she is happily married ok.Let her.when not too it was her decision.need not blame others.In marrying ,one should take decision with lot of thinking.and with some guidness.we cant blame religious leaders.They have no authority to bide one adult person.

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  • Francis Martis, Barkur/USA

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    This girl is immature. She was dreaming . She is not looking into here career. her future.
    She saw hope and greenery other side. She will initially see happiness and excitement,
    give her couple of months, she will come to senses.

    DisAgree [7] Agree [49] Reply Report Abuse

  • Sunil Dsouza, Mangalore

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    Love is Blind , time flies , new stories make up for the old ones ,

    DisAgree [2] Agree [15] Reply Report Abuse

  • NN, NN

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    Except for her parents, I don't think anyone else should worry about her. People are ready to sacrifice anything and everything for the sake of true love. We should leave her alone.

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  • John Tauro, M'lore

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    Even Ankit Saxena sacrificed his life at the hands of the girl's brutal family members. Now the murderers are rotting in jail. What's is the use? Was it really necessary for them to kill the innocent boy?

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  • Mahathma, Mangalore

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    ONCE YOU WILL GO TO YOUR PARENTS STAGE THEN YOU CAN REALISE THE PAIN!!!

    DisAgree [2] Agree [99] Reply Report Abuse

  • Ramesh, Udupi

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    If it is true love you don't have to change the religion. True love has no religion, it is pure and beautiful.

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  • Vishu, Uudpi

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    You may feel that you WON.
    Hope you can heal your parents PAIN.

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  • Jennifer, Mangalore

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    Modi returned fleeng princess to UAE.

    Will this girl be returned to her parents by UAE ???

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  • SB, Mlore

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    Return and do what ? She has become world famous because of this 3000 km Marathon run, simply another burden for parents during their retirement age.

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  • Deshbhakht, Mangalore

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    She may not be needed to outsiders. If her family had given up so esily, they wouldn't have reached UAE already.

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  • Shan, Udupi

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    Good job . You got right to take own decisions marrying a man as his wife. Remember he got right to marry another 2 girls. Don't blame him or your parents when you are in trouble.

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  • Sunil Pinto, Dubai

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    But talking talaq, talaq,talaq will be not so easy for him.

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  • Sanjay, Hebri

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    Wait for a year....

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  • Dev, Mangalore

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    A friendship of 9 months V/s living & practicing a religion one is born with.
    Yes, unknown person, doesn't know whether he was previously married, doesn't know about his family background every parent go through to find matching proposal for their children.
    Here girl thinks she knows everything in her teens, but the world outside is not that rosy & doesn't end they married happily story.
    It proves the religion she was born with she hadn't practiced properly & she saw another version of a religion she thinks is better with her immature mind.
    According to Islamic rule her father has the right to decide to whom she should be given in marriage, I think it is valid in UAE too. but conflict of interests might come here. Their courts will decide this matter too.
    Hope she wouldn't regret later as we have seen many social media marriages have proven disaster.
    Bed of Roses she dreams & the same roses have some thorns too, only time will decide the same.

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  • Peacelover, India

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    Even after doing thorough verification, knowing family background and other details marriages end up in breakup or divorce, and sometimes end up murdering the partner in spite of proper verification took place prior to marriage. She is an adult and she knows what she has done, and if at all the guy cheats her, then its purely her decision, she has to suffer

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  • Kiran Monteiro, Kateel

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    I m going to support the girl coz she is independent to choose her life, some years back my close friend brother wants run away with a girl but he saved on time,
    All the best Alish and wish you happy future, take care and be good

    Kiran Monteiro
    Latrell

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  • RANGA, MANGALORE

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    lets hope later she wont cry/complaint saying she is no. 3 or 4 and want to return but time may run out..it happened many time..she met in facebook n married, how danger it is when you cant guarantee even a arranged marriage these day..

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  • A mother, Kuwait

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    Dear Ciyani,

    Yes, you are right that you are a adult Citizen of India and has the right to make your own decision, but did you think of your parents for a moment before you took this decision ?????

    Your parents might have sacrificed so many things just to raise you up my dear and finally they had to see this day. I am not opposing your marriage, but the option you opted is completely wrong. You will realize this pain only when you become a mother my dear.

    Anyway happy married life and please keep your parents in your prayers.

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  • Kiran Dsouza, Bangalore

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    Too much freedom in Christianity is the reason for such incidents & the reason for community's diminishing population. She says she is a adult without doing her education complete? Love is more important than education & family?
    crazy.....

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  • Rajesh D., Mangalore, Dubai

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    Francis Saab

    You have rightly said, Our community leaders are still sleeping, Even for Sunday reading, girls come with short skirts.

    Shame on you elders of the church. You all are bothered only how to celebrate feast in a Grand manner (Dabazo) and how to build Mega church building. Can anyone tell us how does it help to increase ones faith.

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  • Lancy, Bantwal

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    Your absolutely right because our religion too much freedom and too much divorce Case no one talk about this matter. If not control these things only God knows what will happen in future.

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  • R.Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    Tell you what...( In my times)
    I would have never 'Let Go' of such a girl...
    So much of belief and faith.... One has to be fortunate to have such a life partner..!
    Pray for their well being ... friends..
    We all can make the World a better place to live in with true Love, peace and happiness...

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  • SB, Mlore

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    She fell for a proposal online. Lucky guy . Once Validity is over , Hoep she doesn't get to hear those 3 Magical words over same online .

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  • PRAKASH SHETTY, mumbai

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    Now a days young generation people are more attached to social networks & less attached to their own parents. they argue to their parents that we are more matured & you all are old minded people. 18 years of bond with parents & 9 month of friendship with the stranger person all of sdden bcame trusted person. is this not shocking? thier matuirty level ends only after sometime she realise that the so called loved person is already married person with childrens. it has happend to many girls in the past but what to do!!!!!!!!

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  • LJ, Mangalore

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    MUKUL EDDED ITTHANDA AAND AVE MALLA...

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  • mamatha, mangalore

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    We shouldnt think in terms of religion caste etc. however she should have some concer to her parents too.

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  • Gangaram, Moodbidri

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    Aisha.....

    jaise bi ho tu bana aisha...
    lagtha hai matlab eki hai paisa...
    acha nahi hoga rulaya tho ma baap ko aisa
    aage jo bi hoga aisha aisa jaise jaisa......

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Atlanta

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    We appreciate India's Democracy...

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  • Dinesh Kumar, Katipalla/Mangaluru

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    We do feel good, whenever outsiders appreciate our country

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  • Sanjay Serrao, Mangalore

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    Correct! first time in(since) 70years!

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  • francis lobo, Mangalore

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    Leave her alone. Let her enjoy her life. What is the point running behind her now when she has taken the decision as she is an adult and knows the pros and cons of social media and also about love and marriage. I wish her a happy married life.

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  • Alwin, Mangalore

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    Facebook to be banned. Many divide and family break down occurs. Add or delete friend provision to be removed

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  • R.Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    I mean........
    How Romantic...!!!!
    Completely believing in an unknown commodity errrr personality and flying down to stay him !
    Not even thinking of Father ...Mother...Brother...Sister....So much overflow of Love !!!
    Exactly the kind of girl I was looking for in my hey days ...Very rarely are they born you see.... The thing is you hear only the Opening if such stories ...never know the end....
    In any case all's well that ends well..
    Hope for the girl's sake ...she has made the RIGHT decision....

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  • Cynthia, Kirem

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    Hetheriki Bhandaar sir... Forget the past... Live with the present... Living with the present girl is much more valuable than the past dream girl... God bless

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  • Dinesh Kumar, Katipalla/Mangaluru

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    Wishing them both happy married life

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  • sujan, mang/dxb

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    They love each other.. love birds... please let them live peacefully. There are many such cases of Christian girls marrying Muslims in Kerala nowadays. Nothing to worry as both r minority and status won't change lol. jab kud ka patega tabi pata chalta he..

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  • Rajesh D., Mangalore, Dubai

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    Yes it is sad incident for parents. Leave her alone, she is an adult

    However difficult to digest below information 

     ''Getting friendship in Social Media from other country and getting married with in 9 months ''

    What was the hurry ? Both could have waited for some time, consulted with parents. There are many inter-cast marriages are still going on with parents approval.

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  • Cynthia Goveas, Sharjah

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    Dear Sis,

    Before you do anything you should think about your parents and discuss with them at least the Mother, who is more then anything in the world .

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  • Rathnakara A, Shirva

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    All religions and parents must think about it!

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  • Praveen, Mangalore

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    All planned well in advance. I wounder how she allowed by emigration officer to go out of the country with our Guardian. Normally single young female is not allowed to travel alone . emigration officers ask so many questions before allowing any single females.

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  • Deshbhakht, Mangalore

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    That is applicable for employment visa only. She may have gone on a tourist visa

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  • KRPrabhu, Mangalore/Bangalore

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    ಸಬ್ ನಸೀಬ್ ಕ ಖೆಲ್ ಹೈ ಭಾಯಿ...🤔

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  • SB, Mlore

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    She is adult , Graduate , so obviosly she may not have ECR in passport . She can flyout without any problem as far as she has visa for the destination country .

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  • Fernandes, Mangalore

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    Dear Mr.Praveen. There is no fault of emigration personal, if a single lady cross 18 Y and hold valid visa & ECNR. Yes it is well advance planned. We dont know what type of visa she had.

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  • Simon, Mangalore

    Mon, Sep 30 2019

    May b her male friend wit her?

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