Mangaluru: Twice-married man weds again, second wife accuses him of 'love Jihad'


Mohan Kuthar
Daijiworld Media Network – Mangaluru (EP)

Mangaluru, Jan 15: A man who has married twice and is a father of three children, has allegedly married a Hubballi-origin Hindu girl. His wife who is struggling to look after her two children, has lodged a complaint of 'love Jihad' against her husband at Konaje police station accusing him of having 'converted' the Hindu girl in order to marry her.

Asif (35), Rantadka Boliar resident is the accused. He was employed as a lorry driver eighteen years ago and had fallen in love with Afsa, a resident of Inoli Bisait resident and married her. However Afsa came to know after her marriage that Asif had already been married and had a child. The first wife due to poverty did not file a legal case against Asif and instead was rolling beedies for her living. Asif also has a daughter and a son from Afsa.

As the children grew up, Asif deserted Afsa too and went to Hubballi looking for a job. Afsa who could not look after her children tried to locate Asif and came to know that he was in Hubballi. Asif did not respond to her attempts to contact him. Therefore, she complained about it to Konaje police station. When police there contacted him, he promised to give her Rs 2,000 for her expenses per month. But he has not paid any money for the last three years. He has not communicated with Afsa either. She was rolling beedies but the bank passbook and children’s scholarships are also in Asif's name. Therefore, life was difficult for her.


Afsa approaches women's rights group

Thereafter, Afsa's mother went to Inoli Navodaya Stree Sangha and Deepa Stree Shakthi Sangha requesting for help. The activists responded to the requests of the elderly woman and obtained information from relatives about the whereabouts of Asif. They came to know that Asif had married a Hindu woman in Hubballi and was staying in a rented house near Deralakatte. Accordingly, two members of the Sangha together with Afsa complained to Konaje police station against Asif.

Police have asked them to lodge a complaint in the court as it is a family matter. The case has become serious with allegations of love Jihad as Asif has married a Hindu girl.

  

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  • Pattedaara, narimogaru

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Only solution is to start eating pork and rearing pig at home. No love Jihad will occur.

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  • Raj, Kudla

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Sterilization should be done for this twice-married man. Shame on him !

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  • Sachin Shetty, Mangalore

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Love jihad confirmed

    DisAgree [7] Agree [30] Reply Report Abuse

  • Monty Dotor, Mangalore

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    A social activist of Mangalore had said that there is no "Love Jihad" a few days back.
    Did she go to meet the victim?

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  • D.P.Shetty, Bahrain

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    This good see ladies from hindu community helping her and this lady had courage to complain against him.this lorry driver thinking every driving one one lorry.

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  • Vincent Rodrigues, Bengaluru/Katapadi

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Marriage has become a business having as many wives without any limitations

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  • Ivar, Mangalore

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Implement Common Civil code. Only people like Asif will oppose it!!

    DisAgree [7] Agree [42] Reply Report Abuse

  • Salim, Man /Jubail

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    It remember me the song of Lata Mangeshkar : Jyot se Jyot Jagate Chalo, Prem ki ganga bahate chalo...

    DisAgree [18] Agree [9] Reply Report Abuse

  • Roshan Braganza, Mumbai

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    In POLYGAMY it's equally resposnbility of sister wives to take care of husband

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  • kas, Mangalore

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Rajesh...Udupi …. Again I am requesting you to read the list of beneficiaries .... For your ref pls read the following

    Shaadi Bhagya Scheme (Kannada:ಶಾದಿ ಭಾಗ್ಯ) is a Government of Karnataka scheme to provide financial assistance for the financially backward minority(muslim, Christian, sikh, parsi etc) women.

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  • Rajesh, Udupi

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Yes..
    Why poors chosen from a set of community? Why not all? We pay tax to support poor from across communities.. but sikulars bring differentioan like this.

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  • kas, Mangalore

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Earlier you were screaming and spreading lies that shadi bhagya is only for Muslims.. Now my comment has opened your eyes to know the truth ... any how sanity prevailed

    Why the reservation is only for SC and ST... why not for others....
    Contact the Law makers , for the changes you need ,,,,

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  • Rajesh, Udupi

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    where did I name a community? Don’t bluff.. giving to one (or more) community and denying another community is utterly wrong.. I stick with that,

    why should we contact those law makers who steal our tax and temple money and pour it on some chosen ones.. instead we will use ballet paper to send sicklars home.

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  • masif, Jizan/kinnigoli

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    He is is one of brother cyanide Mohan,
    Mohan was Killed 20 women’s name of Love Marriage, after looted her all ornaments
    But
    Asif leaved 2 womens with out take care after production baby, name of love Jihad, (as per sangi Mentality)
    Who is most Danger here Mohan or Asif???
    All community people have a some Criminal mentality people its mean Not a wrong his religion

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  • Dinesh, Dubai

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Bhaiho.. Bhano... yehi hai women empowerment.. this jobless people thinks womens are baby manufacturing machine .. teach them dont give up.

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  • Ramesh S, MANGALORE

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    ..when women from the same community ditched like this then community will wake up to LJ issue..this is bound to happen when TTL & Polygamy in force..its a hanging sword..In Karnataka its not a big problem, but in AP/UP/BIHAR like states its big problem for women..but the way Congress/Communist penetrated into even SC , i dont think anything good will happen to this country..

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  • Ramesh, Kasaragod

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Congi commentors become so frustrated that they drag Modi even for street fights.

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  • Comman, Man

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Any body can make clear whats the meaning of Love Jihad..??
    This women cheated some body.. some cheated her. !!

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  • HENRY MiSQUITH, Bahrain

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Modi's triple talaaq failed.

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  • Rajesh, Udupi

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Yes.. congis will try their best to stop modi imement this TT law

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  • kas, Mangalore

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Define the punishment clauses PROPERLY ..... Then every one will support it .... Do not present/ serve half cooked food, it will cause LOOSE MOTION ....

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  • Rajesh, Udupi

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    7 decades of over eating causes LOOSE MOTIONS.. one has to get into first earn then eat mode of life. Why rely on bhagyas for 3 weddings from our tax money?.

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  • kas, Mangalore

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Rajesh ... can you tell me which govt is giving bhagya for 3 weddings.....Do not spread the lies like MORONS... Again I am requesting you, to be fair in your comments ....

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  • Rajesh, Udupi

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    condition - Even though this would be only a one-time assistance, divorcees and widows intending to marry again passing above criteria can also avail this plan

    Do you think this scheme can not be misused? given that this man is a cheat.

    Further the scheme for one community is absolutely wrong in a democratic set up. Either for all poor across communities or none..

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  • JAGDISH, mumbai

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    shame on you people.

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  • kas, Mangalore

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Shame on you people, who could not give justice to 22 lakh sisters who are deserted by their HUSBANDS ....

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  • JAGDISH, mumbai

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    If you are more concerned for those 22 lacs sisters then why are you wasting your time ..go out and do something boss.....go against the system and give justice to 22 lacs sisters.

    GOOGLE SPECIALIST

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  • HENRY MISQUITH, Bahrain

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Shame on Feku and Feku bhakts

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  • SHAHID, SHIRVA

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Shame on you who cant handle your womens...

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  • Ani, Udupi

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Example should be led from the top. Why all fekus are silent on the matter of our PM's wife? Doesn't she deserve justice? On what morality you talk about others?

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  • M.Sadiq Mulky, Mangalore/Jubail

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Inspired by Mr.Modi

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  • Rajesh, Udupi

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    True.. Modi is the force behind these hapless woman, taking head-on with the pervert.

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  • kas, Mangalore

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    First give Justice to your Gujrathi Bhabi and then peep in others bath room ... Nagpur hypocrites ..... There are 22 lakh sisters waiting for justice ....

    This driver should be punished .... so also the husbands of 22 lakh sisters ...Talking like SAINTS ....

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  • Rajesh, Udupi

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    burnal moments..lol
    Some people are like - give us all kind of schemes and shadi bhagyas... then say, dont intwrvene betweeen us.... we will handle our women.. disgusting

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  • kas, Mangalore

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Rajesh ...really burnol moments.... Utter silence in the news of Tagodia .... really missing your comments there ....

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  • kas, Mangalore

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Rajesh.... pls go and read the terms, conditions and the beneficiaries of Shadi Bhagya .... Do not make bow bow, with half knowledge... Half knowledge is always dangerous ... Be professional in your comments with facts

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  • Shanthram Hegde, Koppa

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    The saddest part of these Muslim women is they dare to raise their voices in other countries and not in their own MUSLIM countries. If this happened in Pakistan she would have got her triple talaq over her cell phone!!!!!

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  • khalid, mlr / saudi

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    who set the trend in our country of deserting a wife and roaming around?

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Haven't these people heard of 'Live in Relationship' ...

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  • Langoolacharya., Belman/Wash DC.

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    What is 'Live in Relationship' Jossey Sir...could you please explain it...in simple English...so even I could understand it...

    ...JH...

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    A long-term relationship that resembles a marriage but no questions asked ...

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  • Moshu, Mangaluru

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    poor man probably dont even know what love is. He is dragged by hunted sources for nothing but to exaggerate the agenda to paint it to love jehad which . The allegation from second wife totally doesnt make sense. Being a poor she might have asked to allege for few penny.

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  • Bengalurian, Bengaluru

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    This is not Jihad...
    He is a lorry driver & a kind man...
    But he has to show his kindness to his wife ...
    His job involves lot of stress..
    He is a traveler & puts the tent wherever his lorry goes...
    But this needs to stop and his lorry has to come back to where it has started the journey...
    Life can sometimes be tricky but we have to live it....

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  • Langoolacharya., Belman/Wash DC.

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Best comments about this article so far....sounded like Philosopher Confucius.....or Jossey Sir...

    ...JH...

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  • Rajesh, Udupi

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Kind man ? Stress?

    Look at the shameless ways people support a pervert.

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  • Santan Mascarenhas, Kinnigoli/Mumbai

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    It is unfortunate that there are 2.4 million abandoned wives in India, as per census report. 20 lakh Hindus, 2 lakh Muslims and 90,000 Christians and others. The difference is, some are fighting the case and some are not.

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  • Ahmed, Bangalore

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Love Jihaad? What rubbish! Did he go far any war to call it a jihad here? Is marrying any lady from different community a Love Jihad ? Is it a crime? The only crime he has committed here was deserting a wife and marrying another lady without informing her about his past marital status.

    There is no concept of Love Jihaad any where it's all Sanghi/Chaddis fiction. Also there is no crime in marrying a person from different community.

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  • Rajesh, Udupi

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    This crock cheating innocent woman is not a big problem
    2 women virtually on street is not a problem
    Third woman too on the verge of getting cheated is not a problem

    Sanghis involving in the internal matter is the problem. .there you go

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  • Ahmed, Bangalore

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Having more than one wife for u it could be a problem, but for those who keeps with balance to them its not a problem. Do not blame polygamy here for the reason, its the mentality of the people how they take each relation. Our prime example is our PM who has only one wife and has been deserted.

    The analogy is the same as how we treat mobile phone. It can be used in a wrong way or can be used in a good way. The same with polygamy. there are many who are happily married with multiple wives and has no issues, but if the person itself and his behavior is wrong, then he will misuse any law or rule.

    Its clear, if he was a good person then he would not have cheated, but this person is an habitual cheater. But here the ladies are trying to take benefit of Sanghi made fictional concept of love jihad word and misusing the case.

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  • Rajesh, Mangalore

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    No man on earth can be equally just to two or more wifes. Do not give cases for this. If Modi is guilty for any wrong doing let him get punished as well . Let the aggrieved complain. Dont give some pretext to stall Law on polygamy ban.

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  • kas, Mangalore

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Be fair and equal to all ...... Enjoy the beauty of life ....

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  • Rajesh, Mangalore

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Ban polygamy.

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  • Ravi, Mlore/Usa

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    I thought only Donald Trump could afford to be married 3 times.

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  • Rudolf Rodrigues, Mumbai

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Crazy people in a "DIGITAL WORLD", blaming each other, after trying to enjoy the "fruits"!!

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    This is called 'Lust Jihad' ...

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  • Langoolacharya., Belman/Wash DC.

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Chief Justice of India Justice Deepak Mishra should take suomoto of this and appoint a SIT to investigate this Love Jehad case....

    ...JH...

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  • Shaf Bhakt, Mangalore

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    This is the story of most Muslim families who suffer below poverty line.
    Don't care Modi ji. Hell is sometimes better than this life with a religion tag.
    Please stop Tripple talaq and polygamy from immediate effect. Allah will bless you lot. India will remember your legacy.

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  • Luv, Mlore

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    This betrayed and deserted women what choice does she have to fight for her rights other than
    using whatever support she gets from wherever possible.
    For that matter even using the popular word love jihad to her advantage is also justified.
    That is why Triple Talaq should be criminalized.

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  • Kiran, Mumbai

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Bigots like him r responsible for the deteriorationg hindu muslim brotherhood. Jihadis like him should rot in r jails. Send hom to hell.

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  • Ahmed, Mangalore

    Tue, Jan 16 2018

    Why do you call him "Jihadi" ?
    What Jihad he has done ?

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  • Rahul, Mangalore

    Mon, Jan 15 2018

    Universal law should be implemented soon.. these type of people are responsible to disname Islam

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  • C.T.Thomas, Nandalike

    Mon, Jan 15 2018

    No wonder some are against the ban of 'Triple Talaq' so they can enjoy the fruits. These poor ladies will surely vote for BJP, no matter what ever their men say. The saffaron party has played its cards well.

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  • Comman, Man

    Mon, Jan 15 2018

    Uneducated people..,
    Afsa came to know he had married early then why she did not complaint against she cheated???why she gave birth for 3 kids??because she was happy at that time.
    she should also be punished..

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