Kundapur: Groom absconds two days after 'love' marriage, bride protests at his house


Silvester D'Souza
Daijiworld Media Network - Kundapur (AM)

Kundapur, Oct 18: The couple, after a courtship of 10 years, had a registered marriage last month. But before formal wedding ceremony could take place, the groom went absconding. Now, the distressed bride as well as her family has camped outside the groom's family's residence, demanding justice. The incident came to light on Wednesday, October 18.

Lalitha, a nurse, fell in love with Manjunath, a building construction worker, 10 years ago. The couple was very close to each and had even developed physical relationship. Manjunath who went missing after promising to marry her, was caught by the police and counseled. The couple then got registered marriage on September 25. It is said that Manjunath who informed his family about his wedding two days later, faced stiff opposition at his house. He went missing after that, and has still not been traced.

Lalitha and Manjunath’s wedding ceremony was fixed for October 6 at Sri Vasuki Subramanya Nagasakshi temple. All were invited including people from Lalitha’s workplace. All arrived, but Manjunath. Speaking to media, Lalitha said that the incident made her family members to contemplate suicide.


Protest in front of Manjunath's house

Lalitha decided to protest in front of Manjunath’s house. She has demanded Manjunath’s family to do justice to her. Holding the wedding banner and invitations, Lalitha is looking for justice.

Circle inspector and police personnel who arrived at the spot, requested Lalitha and her family to calm down and vacate the place. But the protesting family is stuck to the place and refusing to leave until justice is served.


Argument between families


In the melee, an argument arose between Manjunath’s brother-in-law Chandra and Lalitha’s family members. Lalitha accused Manjunath’s family of protecting him, which led to further arguments between the two families. Personnel from Kundapur police station arrived at the spot and cleared the place.

Police tried to settle the matter amicably, but Lalitha was not ready for it. She filed a missing complaint regarding Manjunath at the station, and finally withdrew her protest temporarily.

“I was in love Manjunath from the past 10 years. When he absconded leaving me, I filed at complaint at the police station. The wedding was fixed for October 6, but Manjunath has escaped. I will protest till I find my husband and will not stop," said Lalitha.

“Manjunath was never interested in the wedding. He has informed me about the same. By the time I spoke to Kundapur police station inspector Nasir Hussain, he had got married. Hence, the police said that they could not do anything as the couple had already got married. He met us the last time and went somewhere and has not returned yet. We are looking for him. If he does not return in two days, we will file a police complaint," said Chandra, Manjunath’s brother-in-law.

  

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  • CHRISTINE, MANGALORE

    Thu, Oct 19 2017

    Here I want to tell you is Before marriage girls should keep distance from boys. Whatever deep love physical relationship is wrong.
    On the marriage day he absconded means it is a great pain to the girl.
    Again I am asking if christian or muslims inte rcaste marriage bjp and bajarangdal will not allow marriage though there is blessings from elders and friends. Now they also ABSCONDING WITH THE BOY.
    Better to forget the boy . Other wise same may continue in future when hardship comes in life.

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  • Vincent Rodrigues, Bengaluru/Katapadi

    Thu, Oct 19 2017

    Quite unfortunate incident and the groom to b traced and arrested if he has done this to misuse the girl he loved and married

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  • AnoNymouS, Mangalore

    Fri, Oct 20 2017

    Same case as abandoning wife after getting married.

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  • Jamal, UAE

    Thu, Oct 19 2017

    BD/VHP/YOGI;
    GO AND CHECK IS IT LOVE JIHAD IF NOT DONT BOTHER YOURSELF...
    REST OF THE PUBLIC ND OFFECIALS WILL BRING JUSTICE FOR HER

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  • Mangalurian, Mangaluru

    Thu, Oct 19 2017

    Before marriage, there is equality between the woman and the man.

    Some say, there is even such thing called love. But no man understands clearly what love means.

    As soon as the marriage ceremony is concluded, the wife transforms into a boss, and the man must adjust himself into the 'service-provider' role. If he does not get the message, the society (and later on police, lawyers, courts) will ensure he does.

    Smart Manjunatha woke in the nick of time!

    The rest of the married men can take years to understand the basic rules of marriage. But no chance of an escape!

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  • Santan Mascarenhas, Kinnigoli/Mumbai

    Thu, Oct 19 2017

    What you want to say is, that at marriage, man loses his bachelor's degree and woman acquires master's.

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  • Rajesh, dubai

    Thu, Oct 19 2017

    He wants to say that he is victim of marriage.....Smart Manjunatha woke in the nick of time!

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  • shan, dubai

    Thu, Oct 19 2017

    Rules are there to be broken ... to be broken. it is acceptable to break rules. ... ignore all rules . Supreme court tells even Sex with minor wife, despite consent, is rape. India has so many rules but no one follows as there is not punishment for breaking the rules. Even in India corruption is crime and most of our leaders are caught in corruption and enjoying their life......

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  • J.F.D SOUZA, Attavar, Mangalore

    Thu, Oct 19 2017

    A COWARD INDEED.!

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  • Vinod.raj, mangalore

    Wed, Oct 18 2017

    Where is BD-VHP when woman being cheated???

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  • Canute, Dubai

    Thu, Oct 19 2017

    Because absconding guy might be from BD

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  • Ahmed K. C., Mangalore

    Thu, Oct 19 2017

    Vinod Raj,
    Why they will come for her rescue? Is she a COW?
    Protection is only for COWS.
    Only domestic, not for Export quality
    And only for those handled by Khasaai. Street wandering, garbage eating will also not get protection. Even those inside Goshalas also no protection.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Thu, Oct 19 2017

    BD-VHP are giving protection to our Cow's ...

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  • Saviour, Earth

    Thu, Oct 19 2017

    The matter has to be resolved between the man and the woman. Speaking about cows and bhakts no matter what the news/post is seems to be in trend these days.

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  • Rajesh D, Manglore, Dubai

    Thu, Oct 19 2017

    Who will give them money in this case, they will not come close to you if there is no gain for them.
    People who are honest they work & take care of their family, people who do not work, wait for the opportunity to trap others and extort money.

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  • Santan Mascarenhas, Kinnigoli/Mumbai

    Wed, Oct 18 2017

    “Manjunath was never interested in the wedding. He has informed me about the same" Lalitha said.

    Woman marries the man thinking he would change
    Man marries the woman thinking she would not change.

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  • PINTO, Doha/Qatar

    Wed, Oct 18 2017

    That is why it is not recommended to register the marriage before it is solemnized in the temple / Church / Masjid..Now neither you can force Manjunath to live with Lalitha and accept her nor Lalitha can marry another boy without a legal divorce. This has happened with so many couples (especially NRI's who would like to apply for a family visa for his would be wife to take her along after the marriage)

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  • Abdul Narayan D'Souza, Udupi

    Thu, Oct 19 2017

    What sought of logic is that? Don't men/women who marry in temple / church / mosque develop cold feet after marriage?

    Once the marriage is registered, Lalitha and Manjunath are married couple and neither their family nor the police can do anything about it.

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  • Dilip, Mangalore

    Thu, Oct 19 2017

    Abdul - Narayan - D'souza! Superb sir!!

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  • Vicky D, Dubai

    Wed, Oct 18 2017

    Girl should meet her life partner at least once without makeup!

    After first night & first shower boy should not feel that some one else came out of bathroom!!!

    People should understand its not the look that builds the relationship but the love & commitment for each other takes the relationship to long run

    Hope the groom comes back & the couple live happily for ever!

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  • Rita, Germany

    Thu, Oct 19 2017

    @Vicky D Dubai,I can say here it is a gone case.Fellow will never come back.He must be hiding or gone elsewhere,otherwise Police will search and get him marry in temple.He was not at all interested in marraige,that one sentence says everything.He was interested only on physical relationship,not any deep affection .If the girl was a bit clever would have ended it earlier ,when he said not iterested in marraige.why did she waited for 10years?Now with force marraige?Never.it will not function.oneway train will never come back .She loved him but not he.One who loves a woman really ,will certainly wants to make her his partner.Doesnt help when she protest in front of his house.May be he has a wife already elsewhere.These contractor workers have a wife at every workplace(almost)dear Lalitha ,dont wait and waste your time waiting for this man.you already wasted 10years.now earn your own money and suppose he comes he comes,when not let him get lost.Such coward men really a shame to the soceity.Pysical relation yes,but no marraige isnt their wishlist.

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  • Sunanda Bangera, Vitla/Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 18 2017

    Marriage is not completed only after registering in the court. Marriage completes only when they stay together and show at least one of their own child. Here the law must act quickly to unite them together. Manjunatha don't bring SHAME to us. Take your wife and you build your own family please.

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  • L n T, Mumbai

    Wed, Oct 18 2017

    Love Jihad or love bakwas

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  • Ahmed, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 18 2017

    So called orange wings are busy in cow protection. They will not protest or support this lady....

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Wed, Oct 18 2017

    Moral - Girls should not offer anything to the boy before Marriage ...

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  • Stan, Udupi/Dubai

    Wed, Oct 18 2017

    No escape route for MANJUNATH as the marriage is registered. You deserve justice and you will succeed.

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  • Jenifer, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 18 2017

    Lalitha, you must be happy, for your marriage is already registered. No matter which corner of the world he goes, his relationship with another woman becomes illegal. Men like this must be nailed by legal blockage like you have done.

    You are a nurse, cling on to your job. Self dependency is way better than relying on a man like Majunath.

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  • Abdul Narayan D'Souza, Udupi

    Thu, Oct 19 2017

    Yo Jenifer,

    Without knowing anything from Manjunath's side of the story, you seem to have already concluded that he is the bad guy.

    The couple is already married; and any dispute between them now is nothing but another instance of a domestic dispute (not violence unless proved otherwise).

    Unless Manjunatha is a crackpot, he will come back in a couple of days and will have to live with his wife.

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  • Dinesh Narayan Poojary, Kundapura/Bengaluru

    Thu, Oct 19 2017

    Abdul Narayan D'Souza, Udupi
    Looks like you know this guy personally!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  • Abdul Narayan D'Souza, Udupi

    Thu, Oct 19 2017

    If I had known him personally, then naal torhudhu voithondhu baiduve.

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