Bengaluru: Techie woman finds husband's profile on gay app, files divorce plea


Bengaluru, Jul 26 (IANS): A 28-year-old techie woman has sought divorce from her husband after discovering his profiles on gay dating apps in Bengaluru, Karnataka. She has also lodged a complaint with Woman's helpline and the Basavanagudi police are also looking into the issue.

Though counselling sessions were held for the couple, the lady has decided to file divorce petition in the court, the sources said on Monday.

The woman, working for a software firm, got married to a 31-year-old man in June 2018. It was the second marriage for her husband. She has alleged that, her husband hid the information about his sexual orientation and cheated on her. She also explained, their marriage was never consummated, according to police.

The marriage was arranged by elders and the man worked for a reputed bank. After the couple started living together, the man maintained distance from his wife. Whenever questioned, he said that his first wife cheated on him and he is yet to recover from the shock.

Later, he started yelling at her for not bringing enough money in dowry when he ran short of excuses. He also started throwing silly accusations at her. During the first lockdown, she observed her husband was always chatting on mobile phone. His behaviour became weirder during the lockdown.

During the second lockdown, she started checking his phone after growing more suspicious about him. She discovered that her husband has put up his profile on gay dating apps and was chatting with multiple partners.

Once the lockdown restrictions were lifted, she lodged a complaint with the woman's helpline against her husband. Though, he refused to accept his sexual orientation in the initial stages, the husband agreed that he put his profile on dating apps.

 

 

 

 

 

  

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  • Rita, Germany

    Tue, Jul 27 2021

    First of all such people shouldnt marry a innocent girl and make their life miserable.Nowadays there are enough divorces and families are broken.Second or first ,Parents shouldnt seek a girl for their son who is known as a Gay.and he was already married once and got divorced .Didnt they knew the reason?I too came across such a marraige last time ,where parents saw a poor girl ,married where boy was not in the position to fulfill his duties.Girl wanted to divorce,but as in Roman catholic religion was a long way ,but last with meetings ,and girl got it divorced.she got some sum ,which she now studies .People should also be careful not to hurt sentiments of innocents .One should be honest enough before getting married if one has any problems in their life.

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  • Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Mon, Jul 26 2021

    "After the couple started living together, the man maintained distance from his wife. Whenever questioned, he said that his first wife cheated on him and he is yet to recover from the shock." What is the secret of his will power and abstaing from physical relation. Aisa bhi hotha hai kya ?👍👈😇 where is Womens rights activist. No fire ? Looks like she relinquished her responsibility because of my unhealthy comments. So sorry

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  • Langoolacharya., Belman / Washington, DC.

    Mon, Jul 26 2021

    What Saree / sorry ???....'Vanjel Vaach...ani Prajith Kar'..... ...Tak...Takk...

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Thane

    Mon, Jul 26 2021

    Even after three years she didn't realize " Dal Mein Kuch Kala Hai .. "

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  • Jossey lover, Wherever Jossey is

    Mon, Jul 26 2021

    OH MY GOD JOSSEY HAVE NOT LAUGHED SO HARD SINCE LOCKDOWN STARTED. KEEP IT UP BRO.

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  • Langoolacharya., Belman / Washington, DC.

    Mon, Jul 26 2021

    Jossey lover, I am 'Disciple / Shishya' of your lover Jossey Sir ....his wish is 'COMMAND' to me....like a good soldier I will obey all his commands blindly...no matter what....like Yeddy following Modiji Commands without a blink... ...Tak...Takk....

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  • John, Valencia

    Mon, Jul 26 2021

    Pattuji, ddnt that yeppi (gay) website have an email ID n PW? Or was it like walking into walmart?

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  • John, Mangalore

    Mon, Jul 26 2021

    All communist and socialist same sex, no gender ideology creaping in here. Slowly to promote this evil in the name of modern thinking / times / generation. Then bring divisions or difference in opinion in the family, society, nations and to allow it in the name of humanity, equal rights, justice, liberalism. Then slowly get political power, then total communist dictatorship using this dividw. They have already ruined US and US almost under communist and socialist control now. Then no freedom then these liberals with communist and socialist bring on virus and through vaccine control the population using same brainwashing plans, as it came from bat, cat and rat, inspite of using lab made weapon grade virus also vaccines, not able to control the virus then blame it for hurried tests and bring in boosters. Both vaccine and booster are itself virus generator? it is a different story but all this to control the whole world and then keep it under some dictators like china, russia, north korea and venezuela. That's how communist and socialist make use of these evils

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  • Joel, Mangalore

    Mon, Jul 26 2021

    What was she doing in a gay dating app anyway?

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  • Pat, Uae, udupi

    Mon, Jul 26 2021

    Dude, read first then comment. Dont jump to conclusions with half baked knowledge. She got suspicious and checked his phone. She saw the dating apps n profile in "HIS PHONE"

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  • Gibs, Udupi

    Mon, Jul 26 2021

    Woman has been cheated by the husband and his family. She has absolutely right in filing for divorce and get justice for his intentional act. If he is gay then why does he Married and not fulfilling the Marriage obligations!!! It seems that the boy hid his sexual orientation from his family or looking for dowry from girls. Let her get the desired justice soon.

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  • k b r, Mangala Uru

    Mon, Jul 26 2021

    in some cases, gay man and lesbian woman get into some kind "marriage of convenience"... for companionship and to avoid the stigma of "not married"... this might be one such case, however the lady wants to terminate this... probably "marriage of convenience" has now turned into marriage of inconvenience for some reason...

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  • k b r, Mangala Uru

    Mon, Jul 26 2021

    "The woman, working for a software firm, got married to a 31-year-old man in June 2018. " the lady says their marriage has not been consummated... 3 full years... why did she not seek divorce on this ground itself... why would any lady wait this long and live with a sexually dysfunctional husband for 3 years...

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  • Rita, Germany

    Mon, Jul 26 2021

    k.b.r.mangala uru,it is clearly said because of corona lockdown.Rest is their business.We out siders cant judge them.I find she has right.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Thane

    Mon, Jul 26 2021

    He has ruined this girls life just like our Honorable ...

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  • ca girishkk, m'lore/dxb

    Mon, Jul 26 2021

    Nav Bharat syndrome..., story of a wimpy kid..., let me quote in toto - "... their marriage was never consummated, according to police..."; that too since 2018.... whom to believe... this laaady techie.... seems to be was not in need of him till he found duly wedded husband's profile in ... some site..., what is the guarantee that it is create by him..., Techies can create anything.... mathlab FEKU profile.., let the court decide that it is his.., let's wait for the guyz version..,

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  • Vivian, Mangalore

    Mon, Jul 26 2021

    Why was she looking into that app ;)

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  • Shankar, Mangaluru

    Mon, Jul 26 2021

    point!

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  • Vishu, Udupi

    Mon, Jul 26 2021

    ಅಯ್ಯೊಯ್ಯೊ ಉಂದು ಎಂಚಿನ Gay, ಅವಸ್ಥೆ ?

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  • rolf, Dubai

    Mon, Jul 26 2021

    She could have Abadon him.

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  • Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Mon, Jul 26 2021

    Man of all Evils ! Sort of sickness according my opinion.

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  • Kusuma Kumari Gunji, Nellore Kodyadka

    Mon, Jul 26 2021

    Wife in this case has every right to apply for divorce and adequate compensation for hiding the fact that he is a gay

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  • Langoolacharya., Belman / Washington, DC.

    Mon, Jul 26 2021

    Hmmm...this is very Serious issue....Yeddy and Bomma i should appoint SIT / Special Investigation Team to investigate this.... Appoint Special Public Prosecutor to prosecute the case....like Bhaskar Shetty murder case... Where is J Sir ? ... for expert comments ? ...... ...Tak...Takk...

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