MNC Asst Vice-president Arrested for Rape Attempt


PTI

Mumbai, Mar 4: Browsing matrimonial websites and making friends without checking out identities can prove harrowing as a city-based lady doctor has found out to her chagrin.

The 35-year old MBBS doctor was browsing a matrimonial website and made friends with Sameer Pareeja, a 40-year-old assistant vice-president of a Pune-based multinational firm earning an annual salary of Rs 17.50 lakh.

Pareeja was arrested on Tuesday for allegedly having tried to rape the doctor after luring her to Pune promising to marry her, giving fake details about his identity.

According to the cyber cell of crime branch, the accused, Sameer Pareeja, a married man residing in Bangalore, came in contact with the woman from Mumbai in December, 2007, through the Internet.

Pareeja, was produced before a court which remanded him to police custody till March 9, police said.

"She was browsing Jeevansathi.com when Sameer came in contact with her through chatting. He introduced himself as Raj and said he is working with a World Bank project in Tokyo. He told her that he is unmarried and asked her to exchange pictures," JCP (Crime) Rakesh Maria said.

Pareeja then sent her some pictures of a male model saying that they were his. After she sent some photos, he proposed her to marry him. "As they become friendly, he asked her to send her nude or semi-nude pictures through webcam," Maria said.

"Believing him, she sent her pictures following which he told her to meet his friend Sameer Pareeja in Pune to know more about him," Maria said.

"On April 20, last year, the girl went to Pune to meet Sameer and stayed at the Turf Club. Sameer took her to Taj Blue Diamond hotel where she was offered alcohol, apparently laced with some substance," he said.

"She was in a semi-conscious state after consuming the drink following which Sameer attempted to rape her. She raised an alarm after which the accused fled from the scene."

"She later suspected that Sameer and Raj are same. She returned to Mumbai and registered a complaint with the police on February 3," Maria said.

"After investigation, we came to know that Sameer lives with wife and an adopted daughter in Bangalore," the police officer said.

Police suspect he may have cheated several other women in similar manner and demanded sexual favours from them.

The MNC executive has been booked under relevant sections of the Indian Penal Code and Information Technology Act. 

  

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  • ABUBAKKAR SIDDIK, THEKKAR- UPPINANGADY / DOHA - QATAR

    Mon, Mar 09 2009

    Well written. Keep it up.

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  • Susan K, India

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    M.Bhat, Mumbai... I agree with you for asking Jude why is he taking it up seriously on Mr. Nayak, when he is just giving his suggestions. BUT NOW YOU MR. BHAT CAN YOU TELL ME WHY ARE YOU TAKING IT SERIOUSLY ON JUDE WHEN HE IS GIVING HIS OPINION... DONT YOU FEEL YOU ARE TRYING TO BE A HYPOCIRTE THERE... BE REALISTIC MR.BHAT. I HOPE U UNDERSTAND THAT.

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  • Rohith, mani

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Dear Mr Michael Lobo, everybody can be your sisters if you think them so.

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  • Simon, Mangalore, Dhahran

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Micheal Lobo, good discussion and great idea to give hug to some of those who need some positive encourgement. I like to meet personnally some of our commentators to see who are these people and what they have been doing and what are their goals/ intentions for the future. How about we all meet in a given location in Managlore for few hours to unload all our issues and concerns. Personally I prefer to meet in an open location where police can guard us from mushromming Sena's and bad elements of our society.

    Let me hear some location preferences from Bhats, Nayaks, Jude, Cruz, Rita, Gonsalves, Abubakar, Shettys, Lobo's and Pinto's. Each one of us is right in their own way and what we think right is mostly based on our upbrining, friends that we associate with, personal maturity, education and cultural backgrounds, morals, and values. We have to learn to agree to disagree with others and develop mature society.

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  • jaya, qatar ,mangalore

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    We are all humanbeings and that is the only religion in this world. "manava dharmave ekaika dharma'. God created us and we created these religion, caste, culture, everything and fighting for the safe guard of those religions. I think god made a big mistake by creating human beings,who are fighting for their religion , caste, culture and so on.  In earlier days people were struggling for food and shelter that time they were not aware of this but now our stomachs are full that is why we are fighting for silly reasons. so why cant we live together by accepting humanity is the only religion and nothing else.

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  • prakash D'Souza, Mangalore

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    This lady is really stupid to send her semi-nude pics to that stranger and as mentioned about her age may be she was very keen to get marry. After knowing his profile she took a foolish decision to meet him. Hope all other People gets lesson from this.

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  • Michael Lobo, Banaglore

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Madhav Bhat, Sharjah Nagesh Nayak, Bangalore Jude, Mangalore Dubai and many more here are having really a healthy discussion. All this is possible because of Daiji friends website. Many times daiji friends did not publish my comments because I was writing hard hitting truths, which will pain the people. Some people here are really provoking innocent people to join the fray. In a way it is good. Reality must be addressed in the toughest manner and with dissent sometimes. I hope daiji publishes this. I want to ask every commentator here to give a warm hug to forget all our enmity and come together as brothers and sisters. I am looking forward to hugs from M. Bhat and Nagesh Naik specifically. Others are also welcome.

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  • M.Bhat, Mumbai

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Jude, Mangalore Dubai You have said - majority's opinion against a small minority who are trying to hijack people's everyday habits in the name of culture and religion etc., etc., Why does that not apply to you and your ilk as well?. A narrow minded person like you feels everyone’s like you. You have shown true colours by continuosly insulting Mr.Nayak, whose views may not be correct. Now donot proclaim yourself as knowledgable, tolerant and peace loving person. Just because some of your ilk’s biased views concurr, you call yourself majarity and have given the right to attack a person who has just expressed him opinion. I am afraid what happens if you become majority? your verbal attack may that time become physical. For this same reason organizations like SRS, BD, VHP etc., are mushrooming to safe guard us from your sinister designs. There is no difference between you and SRS as you both are two faces of same coin. Grow up and stop writing childish. Donot add more fuel to fire, as this is being read by many people.

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  • Michael Lobo, Banaglore

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Can everybody in these columns give a hug and say - we are all brothers and sisters of the same family ? Can this feelings comes in your hearts ?

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  • Joseph F. Gonsalves , Bannur Puttur/Mangalore

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Dear Mr. Mhadav Bhat, Sharjah, Nobody is attacking Hindus and Hindu culture verbally but those are specifically writing views against the fundamentals for imposing their ideology upon other citizens of India. INFACT HINDUS ARE VERY GOOD PEOPLE WE LOVE THEM.

    The problem of the crux is the fundamentals. The things/materials whatever we are using now are the inventions from the western countries. Brahmins in India are revered for their intelligence. What intelligence? Did they invent anything new? Even for the launching of satellites we are importing parts from western countries. If anybody is opposing western things/materials should read the history who invented all those things? Hardly we can find one or two Hindus name in the new inventions.

    Do you think that Indian culture is supreme? Ask Americans whether their culture is good or bad, ask Australians whether their culture is good or bad, ask the Middle Eastern people whether their culture is good or bad, ask the Russians whether their culture is good or bad? Hope you will receive from all of them that their culture is also supreme. In such case for what culture we are fighting for?

    As Mr. Nagesh Nayak suggests I quote: LIVE TELECAST OF WAR BY SANJAY TO DHRITHRASHTRA, ASTRAS (MISSILES) CRORES OF EVENTS ARE THERE TO EXPLAIN. DON'T JUMP & EXPOSE YOUR NONSENSE”. Unquote. I also suggest Mr. Nagesh nayak to watch TBN EUROPE available in hot bird. If you need I can provide frequency. I think Mr. Nagesh Nayak will be cured spiritually.

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  • Jaya, Qatar, Mangalore

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Friend, you said vishnu avatar is the influence of christianity, but  dont agree with this as you may be knowing that Hinduism is the oldest religion in the world. so how can you say that vishnu avatar is the influence of christianity. Dont fool the people. Indus valley civiliazation is the oldest civiliazation and the dravidians were worshiping god and godesses (shiva and durga). and many believe that Bible is the revised edition of Bhagavatgita.

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  • Jude, Mangalore Dubai

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Mr Madhav Bhat, Nobody is attacking either you or Mr Nagesh Nayak. It is not a personal assault but the majority's opinion against a small minority who are trying to hijack people's everyday habits in the name of culture and religion. It is also a way of exposing the narrow minded views of the minority who inspite of limited knowledge and ignorance are trying to portray themselves as scholars, pillars and protectors of Indian culture.

    This is an assault on narrow minded views and not upon a person. What the Ram sene did was physically abuse and harm unarmed girls, who were no different from your daughters, sisters, wives or mothers. So please do not identify your goondas with the majority whose wrath you are facing through the power of a pen.

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  • abubakar uk, ubar/abudhabi

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    In this ultra modern world,its very difficult to reaslise who is safe and  who is fake...so better keep away from  online marraige proposals...

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  • Jude, Mangalore Dubai

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    The last part of my rejoinder which was not published probably due to space restraint is as below : Why is your guru Mutalik not taking up these issues? Why are you bragging about the Ram sene members getting two people married? Do you suggest that we give them this year’s Nobel prize for peace? I would have appreciated if they had united lovers from different religions. Can they do that? And will your narrow minded views allow that?

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  • Khursheed, Abu Dhabi

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Well, big fight on the issue. Opposing western culture but not a system is quite confusing from Mr Nayak. None of the indians are opposing or blaming indian culture which is the best in the world. Pub incident was mix of multi crimes and we cannot go with only Sanskrit/Hindi but Engish is also part of our life.

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  • Madhav Bhat, Sharjah

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Hi readers there is no difference between you (some of the readers) & Rama sene.They are attackinhg on Pub & Women , you are all (not related to published story) assaulting Verbally Nagesh naik & Hindu Culture

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  • JOHN ROOSEVELT LOBO, KAIKAMBA/DUBAI

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Mr.Nagesh Nayak, To your info Nalanda University is Buddisth University and the library you have mentioned was the most renowned repository of Buddhist knowledge in the world at the time. Its collection was said to comprise hundreds of thousands. It was plundered & burned NOT by Western people.

    This heinous crime commited by Bhakthiar Khilji ( Khutbuddin Aibaks General ) and he has not carried any ancient Indian scientific books to West. Secondly, do not blindly say it is western culture. Even after tally of horoscope some married couple are approaching court for divorce.

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  • Clifford, Mangalore, Dubai

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Mr. Nagesh Mama, India name of your city Bangaluru and not Bangalore

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  • Mrinal, Mangalore

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Mr Nagesh Nayak, after reading all these comments, If I was in your place I would never ever commented on anything in future. It is very embarrassing. So, my friendly advice to you is please stop commenting, as your making fool of yourself.

    I do understand your good intentions, please keep them for you alone as nobody can rule your life and obviously you cannot rule anyone and nobody will allow u to do so. Best thing is to keep quiet and in future please don’t write nasty comments.

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  • JOHN ROOSEVELT LOBO, KAIKAMBA/DUBAI

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Mr.Nagesh Nayak, You have not studied history properly. Nalanda University is Buddisth University and the library you have mentioned was the most renowned repository of Buddhist knowledge in the world at the time. Its collection was said to comprise hundreds of thousands. It was plundered & burned by Bhakthiar Khilji and he has not carried any books

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  • Rita, Goa

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Nagesh joker, another laugh at these comments of yours. Infact you keep us better entertained than Johny Lever. Laughing is healthy anyways so please continue sending your senseless and meaningless comments.

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  • Prakash Leema, Bhatkal /Dubai

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Dear Nagesh The phenomenon of 'Krsnajanmastame' in which the child Krishna is represented as a suckling at the mother's breast. Nanda, the foster-father of Krishna had gone to Mathura to pay his taxes (just as Joseph had gone to Bethlehem for census).

    Krishna was born in a cow-shed (Gokula exactly as Jesus was born in a manger) massacre of infants of Mathura by Kamsa (just as was the massacre of infants by Herod) Krishna (like Jesus) had raised the son of a widow from the dead Kubja anointed Krishna just as Mary had done with precious ointment. The avatar concept (God coming into the world in the form of a man) in Vaishnavism is the influence of Christianity. Any more evidence you want ? there are unlimited evidence my dear brother.

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  • Prakash Leema, Bhatkal /Dubai

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Dear Nagesh, If you really know vedas’ well then show who had panchkaya(five wounds) on his body in Bhagved geeta. Its none other than Jesus Christ. Like that there are several things written about jesus Christ. Veda’s expertise knows this but they can not reveal this to Hindus. Veda’s have written more than 6000 BC. Please go through this link which is published by Bhagavad-Gita Trust. Hope you will get some knowledge

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  • Jude, Mangalore Dubai

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Dear Nagesh Mama, Firstly it is good to know that I have such an enlightened uncle in you. But, dear mama, there is a saying that limited knowledge is dangerous. I would therefore humbly like to correct a few of the points that you have raised.

    Nalanda university was a Buddhist institution and the destruction of this university by the Khilji’s who were ruling Delhi at that time sounded the death knell for Buddhism in India. It was not destroyed by the westerners but by the Khilji’s ruling Delhi. Their ancestors were Turks who came to India and settled here, just as our ancestors ( yours & mine) (Aryans) migrated from central Asia.

    Now you might say that there is no difference between Hinduism and Buddhism. If that is the case why did Dr. Ambedkar and his followers denounce Hinduism and became Buddhists. Why are so many dalits in India leaving Hinduism and converting to Buddhism today.

    Today American institutions along with the Japanese and the Chinese are trying to revive Nalanda University at the cost of US$1 Billion. Japan has promised to pool in around US$ 500 Million. Where is your BJP, BD and Ram Sena in all this. They are busy dividing people in the name of Ram instead of contributing towards rebuilding our ancient glory which was Nalanda that you so admire.

    It is the foreigners who are taking the lead in rebuilding our ancient glory whereas desh bhakts like you are busy destroying our secular fabric. Secondly you must have read about som ras. Can you tell me what was som ras?. Was it a milk and chocolate drink? As far as the whole world knows it was a form of an intoxicant, same as modern day alcohol. It was widely used to celebrate victories and important occasions according to the Vedas.

    The Vedas say both men and women used to consume this drink. Next is our ancient sculptures at Kahjurao and so many other temples across India. Kamasutra originated from India. Just because it is so I am not suggesting that all of us have sex in the streets, so don’t get me wrong.

    My simple query to you is in spite of our ancient India being so advanced, why are you and your misguided colleagues trying to take us back to the stone age. I would also like to ask you to define culture. Your narrow minded views cannot be described as Indian culture and your efforts to thrust this narrow minded view upon the masses also will not succeed whether the BJP comes to power or not.

     Finally have you explained to any of us as to why dowry deaths take place in India, why do child marriages happen even on this day in some places, sati is still being practiced. Just the other day a child was married off to a dog. People described as lower class people are not allowed to worship in temples.

    Every other day young men and women are killed for marrying people from other castes. All these practices are not western influences, but the rot prevailing in our own culture. Why is your guru Mutalik

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  • ASHA, /BANGALORE

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    MR.Nagesh Nayak better take a VRS.

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  • Avinash D'Souza, Bangalore

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Nagesh mamu, Nalanda was not a Hindu university. It was a Buddhist University...

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  • Melwyn, Vogga

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    What should we call this? Technology effect or some thing else ....

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  • mark lobo, Mangalore/Dubai

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    It seems the lady involved in this matter is not an angel either. Why she sent her nude and semi-nude photos when the guy sought the same from her? I am a married guy and I can never imagine asking such  stuff from the girl who will be my wife. This request should have sent alarm in this lady's mind. I think she was blind in love or so called web love!

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  • Joseph F. Gonsalves , Bannur Puttur/Mangalore

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Dear Mr. Nagesh Nayak, I quote your word “Hi” Is it not western culture or western word you are using? I never trust in Horrorscope. Your friend Mr. L.K. Advani is moving according to this horror scope and made a big horror of babri later he found no scope. He will never become Prime Minister only he utilized as acting PM while Mr. Vajapayee was in wheel chairs.

    As you suggest Mr. Jude to read some of the books I also suggest you to read the Holy Bible, especially the New Testament, Acts of apostles, the letters of St Paul and the Revelation to John. You will not understand revelations so easily. You can refer to a priest to get those meanings in the revelations. Hope you will refresh.

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  • Janet, Managalore/ Dubai

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Jude, Wah, Jude, your comments are best suited.

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  • Abu Raihan - MUSCAT, Oman

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    I appreciate your comments on Nagesh Nayak. I think this is more than enough for him. Please keep it up. I think this man is not 100% ok.

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  • Jerome, Mangalore

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Why dont you people understand that nagesh mam is also enjoying by seeing the reactions of people on his nasty comments!

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  • Godfrey, Abu Dhabi

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    There is nothing new in cheating through the Chatting sessions. This is an awakening call to all those parents having young children. I remember just last year right in Abu Dhabi a lady doctor got cheated by a Nigerian who wanted to exchange fake dollars, while she went to exchange the money she got trapped and now languishing in the Jail.

    There is no doubt thoousands of people have benefitted from these matrimonial sites, but one needs to be extra careful as there are evil people everywhere around us. Who knows how many hours of chatting this lady doctor did per day and how long this was going on. As the time passes by it is quite natural for a human being to get closer without thinking about the consequences.

    Just watch ORKUT.com site and see what is going on there. Do you ever watch your child chatting with his friends. Does your child ever allow you to watch from behind while chatting. Last year I remember a wife divorced her husband because he was engaged in virtual sex on the web and the wife caught him red handed. So a sincere advice for those who are on look for life partners, never trust anybody who comes for chatting, discuss the situations with your dear and near ones and be vigilant all the time.

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Thank God the documents were stolen from Nalanda University by the Westeners ! At-least that enabled us to send Chandrayan to moon - else, we had to wait for next Hanuman to travel outside India.

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  • INCHARA, BANGALORE

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Mr. Nagesh Nayak, Bangalore. As per your comment “AGAIN RESULT OF WESTERN CULTURE.WE FOLLOW ARRANGED MARRIAGE AFTER SEVERAL ROUNDS OF TALKS & MEETING BY BOTH SIDE.FIRST HOROSCOPE WILL BE EXCHANGED,THEN ENGAGEMENT,THEN MARRAIGE LIKE PROGRAMME WILL BE ON RELIGIOUS INFRONT OF ALL RELATIVES & FRIENDS.THIS IS CALLED REAL INDIAN MARRIAGE. Please check this earlier news and your comment. 1. ”Sri Rama Sena Takes Lead in Bringing Lovers Together through Marriage” It is very clear that you are having A  PROBLEM. Kindly check up your health.

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  • Pradeep, Mangalore

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    There is no difference between this guy (Raj/Sameer), Ram Sena and his highness Nagesh Nayek !!

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  • wilfred, mangalore

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Mr. Jude nice comments on Nagesh mama.

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  • Nagesh Nayak, Bangalore

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Hi Jude beta,we are opposing western culture & not a system.you guys are having brain only to comment/blame Hindu culture. All the inventions & tecnologoes are originated in INDIA . I think you are aware of NALANDA UNIVERSITY which was burnt by western people after stealing all the books & records. NALANDA UNIVERSITY burnt for 13 years. Just imagine how much records & details of all sciences were in NALANDA. PLEASE READ VEDAS, BHAGVAD GITA, RAMAYANA, MAHABHARATH & UNDERSTAND CLEARLY. EXAMPLE:PUSHPAKA VIMANA, LIVE TELECAST OF WAR BY SANJAY TO DHRITHRASHTRA, ASTRAS (MISSILES) CRORES OF EVENTS ARE THERE TO EXPLAIN. DON'T JUMP & EXPOSE YOUR NONSENSE.

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  • Eric Coelho, Mangalore/Ajman

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Such Incidents of Women Expoitation is nothing new. We have seen and read about Bill Clinton and also Israel President. When unqualfied behaviour is done by Most powerful people then this incident is too small.

    The Comments by various people herein above is more attacking each other. One gets carried away through Body Language, through Good Personality and Beauty, through Good Product Marketing, through Expensive Gifts. I am sure this lady must have been carried away while chatting on line through body language and personality. If she has sent nude or semi nude photos it is nothing new as we see a lot of nude and semi nude photos of Bollywood and Hollywood actors. Many people live through their Emotions (like this girl) and many people apply their Mind. I can only say that this article brings an awakening to each and every people.

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  • Simon, Mangalore, Dhahran

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Nagesh Naik and others who are like him in their sensless and baseless comments, hopefully you all are holding your spirit well after reading responses from some of the readers listed below. Based on your past history of nonsense comments, If I was one of you, I may try to show more maturity and understanding on concerns or issues which in todays world order are impacting our daily lives, relationships, and surroundings.

    We have seen nothing but shameful behaviour from you all and as Jude pointed your comments are just a laughable matter at this point. Please learn to be considerate to others and attempt to inform others that you are also concerned. At the end of the day, it is one of the available option that we choose and actions that we take / follow up with may result in a situation that is addressed in this news article. No one forced the Doctor to access the web site and chat with MNC executive. There is no pub culture or a Western culture in these situations. Let me be very clear that after watching today's young generation in last three to five years, I am very much hurt to see deterioration of our moral values and high importance shown on materalistic items.

    It is not late and we can recover with your help and support along with your positive encouragment to those who choose to take wrong options without evaluating possible consequences and are paying the hefty price for their choices.

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  • Dr.Madhyastha H, Hungarkatte/Japan

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Look this kind of western pub and web culture with good intention is always welcome. I feel this lady doctor is a fool to send semi nude pictures as rightly pointed out by Nicholos of Bangalore/Canada.

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  • Shenoy, Mangalore

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    People should be careful while dealing with strangers.

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  • Nicholas, Bangalore/Canada

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    I also got married by seeing bride from Jeevansathi & also my friends,But one thing I observed strange in this article & comments are inspite of educated girl she has no commonsense,when a guy whom she has not seen or met asks for semi nude/nude pictures she must have become alert & come to know the nature of the guy as no decent guy with good intentions will ask any girls to send obscene pictures. In the crime conducted there is sure a share of the girl also & no fault of the matrimonial sites

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  • Walter Saldanha, Mangalore, India

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    This is a warning for others. Lakhs of people have benefited from the matrimonial websites. But cyber crimes cannot be negated. Website chatting is an advanced technology like cellphone, computer. Depends upon how one uses it. Cyber world is a boon as well as a bane to the society. Many people make good use of it, while evil of cyber crime is prevailing.

    But this advanced technology is necessary for the development for any culture. We cannot call it western culture. Arranged marriages are good but not all. There are quite many cases where arranged marriages have failed. Love marriages have stories of both success and failure. So there is no culture which is free from all impediments.

    In Western culture women have more freedom and they are liberated from male domination to a certain extent, they are being empowered, where as in India the exploitation of women seems to be maximum. They are deprived, ill treated and made to slog in the houses. Scriptures tell us that women have to be worshiped like 'Devi' (goddess) but our society treats them like a doormat (charano ki daasi). When anyone speaks about Indian culture, then he needs to make a thorough study of it.

    The great poet Sumitranandan Pant, has been pained to see how women are treated in India. He has written: "abala jeevan hay teri yahi kahani, Aanchal mein hai doodh aur aankhon mein paani". This is also one part of our culture. If a survey is conducted and a study is made then we will know how much we are exploiting women in the name of culture and religion.

    A few women may not talk because for they have been conditioned by the culture, religion and tradition to say that their "pati is parameshwar". So it is the need of the time that women need to talk for their rights.

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  • Manu, Kuwait

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Dear Mr. Jude, Excellent comments keep it up.

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  • VENITA DMELLO, Abu Dhabi

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Jude...I am glad that you have a fitting reply to Nagesh Mamu...

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  • Sathish , MANGALORE/DUBAI

    Thu, Mar 05 2009

    Jude I stand by your excellent comments given to Nagaesh and Bhat.

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  • Michael Lobo, Bangalore

    Wed, Mar 04 2009

    Jude, Managlore-Dubai - fantastic reply to M. Bhatta and Nagesh maama. You answered them to the point. They will have to ask P.P. Hegde for countering your queries ! Many of the people here have taken full time job to comment on every rubbish issues. I do not know how their stomach gets filled if they waste all their day like this. Doctors are generally more social as their job demands.

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  • Clifford, Mangalore

    Wed, Mar 04 2009

    Mr Nagesh Nayak & M Bhat, if both of you win Lottery in US Dollars and/or British pound what will you do? You will compromise with western currency?

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  • Sourya Prakasha, Permude

    Wed, Mar 04 2009

    Joseph F. Gonsalves- GOOD COMMENTS !.

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  • Ronald, Udupi

    Wed, Mar 04 2009

    Fantastic comments by jude. I really get surprised about Nagesh & Bhat's logic on culture. Every culture is good as long as we practice it within limits and not attacking others culture..

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  • Lavina, Dubai, U.A.E.

    Wed, Mar 04 2009

    Matrimonial sites can no longer be trusted as a good source for marriage proposals. I know of numerous cases where these sites (which started off with good cause) are now used only for the purpose of flirting & dating. There are a few who innocently register to look for marriage proposals... Someone shows interest... Starts off with promise of marriage... dating... courting... and then finally - No, parents do not accept. Please advice all families & friends to beware of such on-goings...

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  • Kumar, Abu Dhabi

    Wed, Mar 04 2009

    Jude GREAT.... you have replied very clearly to M.Bhatt. We have seen many senseless comments from this M.Bhatta lately.

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  • shetty, udupi

    Wed, Mar 04 2009

    GOOD COMMENTS

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  • Prashanth , Udupi

    Wed, Mar 04 2009

    Oh! Great Real Indian Marriages Mr. Nayak ! There are several rounds of Talks , Meetings , Eatings , Horoscope Match Fixings , Engagement , Marriage Like ( ? ) religious Programme in front of all relatives and friends. Fine. Then why you burn alive the bride for dowry ? Is this too a part of Indian Culture ? Even after Matching Horoscopes some marriages didn’t work. Now will you say that too the influence of Western Culture ?

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  • Jude, Mangalore Dubai

    Wed, Mar 04 2009

    Nagesh Mama, you have explained the right Indian marriage. Could you next also explain the right Indian divorce?. We are all keen to know. Do you have a 100% record to show that all CORRECT Indian marriages, as you have explained them to be are successful?.

    Don't simply sit and generalize things. Also since you call yourself a desh bhakt and Indian, could you prove to all of us that you do not eat western food, wear western clothes, either walk bare footed or with wooden stills, move around in a bullock cart, do not watch TV, do not use a tooth brush, do not attend to the calls of nature in a western toilet, do not send your kids to schools teaching western subjects etc etc.

    The very fact that you are writing your comments in english and surfing the net proves that you are a hypocrite.Anyways please keep writing your comments. they make all of us readers laugh, just as how we enjoy Johnny Lever in movies.I can say that you are a great entertainer.

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  • Rita, Goa

    Wed, Mar 04 2009

    Mr Bhat you need to get matured with your thinking. This incident could have also taken place in a hotel room booked by the culprit. My point of explanation is that pubs or hotels are not bad places to visit for a male or female. It is the male or female who have filth in their minds and hearts.

    A person with a bad intention can do bad things anywhere not only in pubs or hotels but also in their own homes. Here the female is to be blamed. No matter how much she loved the guy, how can she send nude or even semi nude pictures and that too to a guy who she has never met but only chats on the net.

    By profession she is a doctor which means well qualified. If educated people make blunders like this what about the illiterate?

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  • Manohar Dsouza, Mangalore/Bahrain

    Wed, Mar 04 2009

    It is very unfortunate that such a mature well educated lady succumbed to this internet dating fraud. Anyway, thankfully no harm was done and we should appreciate the fact that the lady had the guts to go to the police and get this man arrested. There is lot of good and at the same time plenty of evil on the World Wide Web. Internet is useful and fantastic, only thing is, all of us should be prudent and exercise caution while surfing the cyber world.

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  • A.S.Mathew, U.S.A.

    Wed, Mar 04 2009

    Some evil people will take advantage of the gullibility of other people through internet dating. These crooks will lie anything and everything to cheat other people. They will lie about their job, salary, religion, social status and will put somebody's picture to lure innocent people. When it is too late, there is no turning back, but straight to tragedy. So, be very vigilant.

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  • nagesh nayak, bangalore

    Wed, Mar 04 2009

    AGAIN RESULT OF WESTERN CULTURE.WE FOLLOW ARRANGED MARRIAGE AFTER SEVERAL ROUNDS OF TALKS & MEETING BY BOTH SIDE.FIRST HOROSCOPE WILL BE EXCHANGED,THEN ENGAGEMENT,THEN MARRAIGE LIKE PROGRAMME WILL BE ON RELIGIOUS INFRONT OF ALL RELATIVES & FRIENDS.THIS IS CALLED REAL INDIAN MARRIAGE.

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  • josephine, India/Bharath(mahan)

    Wed, Mar 04 2009

    Sharmila, Here is lesson for all, without any gender bias ,who indulge in wrong doings(why only girls????).Remember truth prevails. "Satya meva Jayate"

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  • Jude, Mangalore Dubai

    Wed, Mar 04 2009

    Mr M. Bhat, Just for your information the alcohol issue and attempted rape happened much later. Before this she was sitting at home all the while and chatting from her PC and exchanging pictures. Just don't bring in the pub matter into this and mix up issues.

    Do you want me to send you a list of cases where young women are attacked and raped in their own houses? This man is a psycho and a sex maniac. Such people are everywhere today. Some of the attackers on the pub from the Ram sene belong to this category as well, as the world saw how they molested women. FYI i will continue to vist pubs with my wife or girlfriends and continue to enjoy my drink. You please sit at home and drink milk.

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  • Sourya Prakasha, Permude

    Wed, Mar 04 2009

    Joseph F. Gonsalves- GOOD COMMENTS !.

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Wed, Mar 04 2009

    How many of recently married couples got introduced through seeking suitable proposal ? Women today do not depend on parents to find a groom - girls are educated, work and even support their parents financially. They are bold enough to find a match from the crowd they meet. Matters do go out of hand as it happened in this doctor's case.

    However, she is bold enough to report the matter to the police so that the man finally got caught. Those who accuse the woman of being wrong, please access how correct is the man who may have cheated several more women ?

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  • Joseph F. Gonsalves , Bannur Puttur/Mangalore

    Wed, Mar 04 2009

    I do not know how a female doctor presumed Raj after asking her to send nude or semi nude photos. Didn’t she found suspicious when he asks such photos before marriage? I think she trusted in Raj who continuously lying to make him fame by deceit.

    Finally the deceived paid the price. Every human desires ambition in life and that is good but over ambition will ruin the life. When a bride is young they need Engineer, Doctor, Manager and big big shots. Once the age is lost then they prefer even Rickshaw Driver.

    Advise to aspiring brides do not go behind handsomeness and wealth of a bridegroom rather search diligently the conduct of a person whether an alcoholic edict, smoker or having illicit affairs with any other females or a gambler. Advice to men: whenever a bridegroom wanted to marry he requires a fresh girl. That is a good idea I agree. Suppose the aspiring bride also asks are you a fresh groom and can you answer YES?

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  • M.Bhat, sharjah

    Wed, Mar 04 2009

    Dear Pub culture supporters,The Same thing will happen in future in Mangalore Pubs also.Even though she is a Doctor she was helpless when consumed alchohol, then how about our mangalore girls?(Taj Blue Diamond hotel where she was offered alcohol, apparently laced with some substance," "She was in a semi-conscious state after consuming the drink following which Sameer attempted to rape her. She raised an alarm after which the accused fled from the scene."

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  • H M Pernal, Mangalore

    Wed, Mar 04 2009

    After Pub Attack now Web Attack on Women !

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  • Sharmila, Mangalore

    Wed, Mar 04 2009

    This is a lesson for those girls who has got the habit of chatting with unknown persons through internet.

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  • Eric Coelho, Mangalore/Ajman

    Wed, Mar 04 2009

    Being the VP of a MNC company question the credibility of the Company that employs him. The Company he works should sack him immediately to protects its name. I am sure the Accused is a sex maniac or sex starved.

    He must be aware that the Law in India is not strong against rapist. That is why it has happened. The Police should make a thorough investigation to find out his Personal and Official background and how his married life has been.

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Wed, Mar 04 2009

    This is Web-abuse of women. I wonder how he treated his wife as well as the adopted daughter because he appears to be a habitual abuser. He must be subjected to an open trial, severe punishment and publicly shamed so that no man attempts to hide behind the computer screen and cheat women.

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