Kundapur: Old man driven out by family which underwent religious conversion


Silvester D'Souza

Daijiworld Media Network - Kundapur (SP)

Kundapur, Oct 24: A 65-year-old person from here has reportedly been driven out of his own home by his wife and two male children. The person who was ousted by his own people happens to be Mark D'Costa, residing near HMT at Koni here. He is a Roman Catholic.

Mark had married 24 years back, and had led a happy family life till two and half years back. His wife and children, it is said, got converted without informing him. After coming to know about the religious conversion, he raised objection, but had to face severe backlash at the hands of his wife and children. It is being claimed that his wife and children with the support of a police head constable, registered attempt to murder and dowry harassment case against him after which he had to spend ten days inside jail.

After he secured bail in the case, his family drove him out of his house. It is learnt that the police too have warned him against going back home. As a result Mark is literally living off the streets. With no idea about his future, he has now approached the Santwana Kendra meant for women.

Mark used to work as mechanic at Arvind Motors here before retiring. He has wife and two children. His wife and children got converted into New Life under the influence of someone three years back. Mark came to know about it six months later after he observed that his wife and children, who were regular visitors to the church, stopped these visits. They also stopped Mark against offering prayers and destroyed the crib he had prepared for the Christmas in 2016. Although Mark filed complaint in the police station here, he rues, no action was taken.

On October 6, he was preparing to offer prayers at home when his wife and children stopped him, and also urged him to convert into New Life. He was warned to leave home if this proposal was not acceptable to him. After strong words were exchanged between him and his son, his son approached him with a sickle to hit him, he said. Mark says that when he snatched away the sickle from his son's hand, his son took a photo of him holding the sickle, filed murder attempt and dowry harassment case against him with the support of a Christian policemen, and sent him to jail.

Mark then approached president of Mahila Santwana Kendra, Radhadas Kumbhashi. He narrated his tale of woes to the journalists, seeking justice for being driven out by his own wife and children. Radhadas, responding to his story, wanted to know from the police why no investigation was conducted into the complaint filed by Mark in 2016 and how they registered murdered attempt case in spite of the fact that no one had suffered external or internal injuries. She opined that by the way the dowry harassment case was registered against a person who lived harmoniously with his wife for 24 years, on the fact of it it appears to be a conspiracy hatched by the police in connivance with the woman and her children. She assured that she will carry on with her fight for providing justice to Mark.

  

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  • Af,,, Mangalore

    Thu, Oct 25 2018

    Those who do not have self control and faith in God will easily get converted ,poor man need some support from local people to fight the case, if the property is belongs to him then wife and children must kicked out and teech them a lesson.

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  • Darshan, Mangalore

    Thu, Oct 25 2018

    Those who pass comments here MUST open a bible and read just one verse from it. It is in the 7th Chapter of John, Verse 51. Same thing happened 2000 years ago and man has not changed a bit since then! :-)

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  • John Crasta, Mangaluru

    Thu, Oct 25 2018

    Jesus makes it very clear in Mathew 7:22-23 ,that those who do wicked things in His name, be it for evangelization, interfaith relationship or for any other reason will be denied. It is irrespective of any miracles performed by them.

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  • Thomas Cutinho, Dubai/Mangalore

    Thu, Oct 25 2018

    New life is just spoiling the family life..They just do not want to go to church, they do not believe pope, bishops, nuns and priest and they do not want to hear anybody etc etc. After joining new life people repent for joining it. I hope Mark D'Costa will get the justice and his family will come back to their original faith.

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  • ca girishkk, m'lore/dxb

    Thu, Oct 25 2018

    FEKUISM hits Christianity....!!!! After all everything become FEKUMAYAM.....!!!!!
    Aaj kal wohi tho chal raha hai naa....!!!

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  • Lobo, Mangalore

    Thu, Oct 25 2018

    Learn to see good things and you will realize that world is not so bad as you think. Go around places and meet people especially who are into social services and community developments. If you wear coloured glasses you will see entire surrounding with colour only.

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  • El En Tea, Mumbai

    Thu, Oct 25 2018

    New Life Born Again are Church separatists that's all
    They don't go charity ans social works neither help poor no donation only thing carrying words of God in hand and distributing pamphlets.
    No celebrating any festival just critize at the end begging for Church help for the final burial.

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  • Vincent Rodrigues, Katapadi/Bangalore

    Thu, Oct 25 2018

    Harsh to put out the head of the family out and push him to the street which would have avoided by the elders by reconciliation.

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  • Daniel, Mangalore

    Thu, Oct 25 2018

    Just so everyone knows , new life is not part of the Protestant chruch .Protestantism in India includes. Baptists , lutherans , anglicans , Methodist , Ana baptists ,Adventist all together form the church of south India .new life is a sect indipendant on its own .

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  • Observer, Mangaluru

    Thu, Oct 25 2018

    Same viewers who diacarding now New Life from christianity used to enjoy mocking other faith sects in the pasts.
    Man written books which have been kept changing over the time period will never becomes a word of God.

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  • Sandesh, Udupi

    Thu, Oct 25 2018

    They all believe in Jesus Christ. And why fight for supremacy. Most important question is why people deserting Catholicism and joining other denomination like new life. Some where wrong preaching is responsible for this.

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  • Chris, Tel Aviv

    Thu, Oct 25 2018

    Rapes in India , child molestation in the west . All these alligations have rocked the catholic church world wide .

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  • Cyril, Mangalore

    Thu, Oct 25 2018

    Selling your own God is New Life.

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  • G M Hegde, Udupi

    Thu, Oct 25 2018

    I have closely observed that the said organization & couple others from Kerala are the reason for all mischief & animosity between communities & religions. They are the real mischief mongers & uncontrollable saffron volunteers target the whole Christian community as a result.

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  • vidisha, Mumbai

    Thu, Oct 25 2018

    100% I agree with you. These so called new sects are the mischief makers. (They provide for the families, no need to work. They will make you a priest, convert you also) and the Catholic church has to bear the brunt. People of other faith do not realise the reality and without knowing the truth put the entire blame on the priest and religious.

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  • SURESH HEGDE, UAE

    Wed, Oct 24 2018

    New life is like poisions snake...

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  • Rems, Mangaluru

    Wed, Oct 24 2018

    May be we should get the wife and children's side of the story too. In most cases, catholics convert to new life after having gone through extreme family problems like alcoholism etc. This family has certainly gone through something bad. It is very much evident from the kind of hatred they are having on the old man.

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  • Charles D'Mello, Pangala

    Wed, Oct 24 2018

    If there is no peace in the family, whichever religion you follow, what is the use...?????

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  • Alwyn, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 24 2018

    "New Life" is a group of some evil people who use Jesus name for their benefits.
    New Life is bringing hatred within a family, and this group creates troubles in the society too.

    24 years lived together and now doing the evil act.

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  • Ahmed K. C., Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 24 2018

    I am keen to know the differences between RC and this New Life. Can some one throw some light on the subject.

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  • John Tauro, M'luru / Kwt

    Wed, Oct 24 2018

    @ Mr. Ahmed K.C.,
    In short RCs follow age old practices and man made traditions such as idol worship and adoration of saints and their relics which are not mentioned in the Holy Scriptures. Priests are forbidden to marry. Members of New Life or Protestants follow the Bible, worship God directly, they don’t pray in front of idols or worship saints, priests marry and earn their livelihood like any other common man.

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  • NN, NN

    Wed, Oct 24 2018

    The difference is that it's a New Hanky Panky. The bottom line is the same - either you make money by building community halls, buttering the rich people or by simply delivering mesmerizing lectures. Only the HUMANITY is the best religion of mankind.

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  • Alex, Mangalore

    Thu, Oct 25 2018

    You can check that descriptions about Roman Catholic and New Life in wikipedia.org.
    Most of the things that are factual true. Differences are too many. Similar to Islam breaking into firstly two and then sub divisions of them . I would say comparatively the difference between ISIS and Ahmadias, how vast the differences are.

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  • Nawaz, Udupi/ Kuwait

    Thu, Oct 25 2018

    @Alex,

    Islam has never broken into two or more as you claim. The teachings of Islam are safeguarded in the Quran and authentic Hadiths. Whoever follows and practices these teachings are following Islam. Others are name sake Muslims. As simple as it is. There is no question of breaking of Islam.
    But it is true that some corrupt people of Muslim community has created their own clan for their self benefit and to garner money. It does not mean that Islam has broken. It means that some Muslims are corrupted their practices for their self benefit.

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  • Alex, Mangalore

    Thu, Oct 25 2018

    @ Nawaz
    Are you teaching me. Just look at the history. Islam after the death of your prophet broke into Sunni and Shia, one following Abu Bakr and other following Ali,your prophet's son in law. Each one of these calls the other non muslim
    And again Shias branched out into 12 and further many.
    From Sunni side you have Salafis, Wahabis, Sufis and from which came out Ahmadiahs which is further away than the Sunnis. From Salafi's came ISIS and from Wahbai's came AlQaida.

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  • David Pais, Mangalore

    Thu, Oct 25 2018

    @Alex, Mangalore, absolutely correct truth.

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  • Nawaz, Udupi/ Kuwait

    Thu, Oct 25 2018

    @Alex, David

    Absolutely junk. After the death of Prophet Muhammed ( Peace and blessings of Allah be upon Him) not a single Muslim was ready to become a Khalifa of then Islamic state as it was a very big responsibility and accountability and no Muslim at that time was hungry for power.
    When nobody was willing accept the khalifite, it's absolute non sense and rubbush that any companion of Prophet (Peace and blessings of Allah be upon Him) called each other non Muslims.
    Later Abu Bakr Al Siidiq (R.A) accepted khalifite by the pressure of all other companions (including Ali). Abu Bakr (R.A) personally proposed Umar (R.A) to the responsible position of Khalifa.

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  • Alwyn, Canada

    Thu, Oct 25 2018

    Same as shia and SunnI but worship the same creator

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  • NN, NN

    Wed, Oct 24 2018

    Is this what we call a New Life? Brain wash is a powerful tool - it can make or break a person.

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  • David Pais, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 24 2018

    mark d'costa is a christian & it is not a conversion. changing denomination is not a conversion. new life is a christian denomination like da pentecostals , marthomaites, jacobites, c.s.i's church of south india (not chatrapati shivaji international air port) baptists, etc., etc...

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  • Rathan, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 24 2018

    David if it is not conversion what is it please explain in simple words. Usually other religion speaks ill about Hinduism about cast system. This is also same cast system. Then why followers of Jesus have different system and why they blame Hinduism for cast system

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  • David Pais, Mangalore

    Thu, Oct 25 2018

    @Rathan, what do u mean about cast. understand meaning in between cast & caste. christians don't have caste system. it is all denominations.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Wed, Oct 24 2018

    New Life is all FAKE ...

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  • Sanjeev Kamath, Udupi

    Fri, Oct 26 2018

    This never happens in BJP states. There they practice, "Love thy Neighbour & family".

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  • John Tauro, M'luru / Kwt

    Wed, Oct 24 2018

    I have heard catholic priests speaking against New Life and other sects, but never heard followers of New Life turning against their own family member. As far as I know they don’t preach hatred and don’t oust family members for not accepting their beliefs. Motive for ousting may be other than religion also since the helpless aged man is now retired and without any income.

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  • Mahathma, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 24 2018

    Kya Jumla hai bhai??? Jossey please solve their problem because our state government will not solve because they are in jumla status!!! poor Mr.Mark has to get Justice

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  • Hariprasad, Balkunje-Mulki

    Wed, Oct 24 2018

    New Life for the wife and the boys!

    Misery and HELL to the Noble /hard working man!

    Police need to check this out.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Wed, Oct 24 2018

    Let them burn in Hell ...

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  • sri_elder, Karkala

    Wed, Oct 24 2018

    Unbelievable things are happening in Karnataka since long.. But coming to media by late...

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  • GD, Udupi

    Wed, Oct 24 2018

    These New Life guys are very irritating and they give fake testimonies to convert people. These people who torture their own family members are not fit to be called humans.

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  • El En Tea, Mumbai

    Wed, Oct 24 2018

    New Life Born Again always against other faith mostly with RC.

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  • francis lobo, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 24 2018

    This is a common scene in Mangalore Catholic families. One person say - a daughter or Son- enters the New life church .He or she is followed by his family, then he encourages and takes his brothers sisters ,finally the mother joins and the father does not have a choice so he also follows them. New life is a division of Christianity and how we can say it is a conversion. This person may not have agreed for this so he is thrown out of his house, may be he has handed over his property to his children and may not be having any other option.

    I have seen this happen near my house,. The mother joined new life because she had a tiff with local catholic church priest. She was a devote catholic. She was followed by her son , who later got married to a girl in the new life community. The husband and younger son of the lady were did not attend for many years. Finally they did not have choice because of the wife .So they also followed .So whole family went to a new christian community. That is the end of story !

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  • Stan, Udupi/Dubai

    Wed, Oct 24 2018

    Good that he ha s not left his birth religion. Mark is being persecuted for his faith and authorities should investigate the matter and solve his problems. What kind of a new life is this which is dividing families instead of uniting them. May god bless him for his unfailing love of true living God. Let him surrender his sufferings to the sufferings of true living god

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  • Dr.S.Kamath, Mumbai

    Wed, Oct 24 2018

    About 8 years ago when Mangaloreans complained about the conversion activity of New Life many Mangalore Catholic s objected and supported the activities of New Life
    Now New Life is spreading rapidly in DK district ,Udupi and also other parts of Karnataka
    Voluntary Religious conversion is legal and fine
    Conversion by treason ,relating it to life activities is not right

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  • Rohan Pinto, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 24 2018

    They are not terror groups like BD, RS, VHP or RSS

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  • Sandesh, Mangalore, Oman

    Wed, Oct 24 2018

    Never ever Catholics supported New Life, and will not support at all. Don't bring your lies here. You are always waiting for a chance to poke your nose when matters about religion of others comes here.

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  • Smile, Mlore

    Wed, Oct 24 2018

    If you can't see God in your Father, Mother,Husband or wife, then what kind of new life is that? Prayers should have made more conscious about their relationships and duties.
    When Symbolism becomes more important than spirituality that's a disaster !!

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  • Darshan, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 24 2018

    All remarks, comments, judgements are being passed on hearing one side of the story. Justice is pronounced only after hearing both the sides. Even a criminal gets a say before he is judged. Shouldn't the wife and the sons be heard before everyone starts condemning them without even giving them a say in the matter?. What is wrong with Us???

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  • N.M, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 24 2018

    This 'New Life' Christian Sect is known for its rigid and radical views. If I am not wrong the Catholic places of worship were attacked in 2008 for the acts linked to this Christian outfit with which the former had no connection.

    Can some Catholic correct me if I am wrong?

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  • Rohan Pinto, Mangalore

    Thu, Oct 25 2018

    As per I know through one of my neighbor, New life or Pentecostals strictly follow Bible scriptures, So they don' keep idols or cross neither worship them ,as it was strictly forbidden in the Bible Also they don't celebrate any festivals as it was not mentioned in the Bible, Instead they do fasting and prayers during Christmas days

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  • Charles D'Mello, Pangala

    Thu, Oct 25 2018

    Collecting money from the believers is mentioned in the bible....These people collect some percentage from the earnings of the believers.

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  • Satya, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 24 2018

    These New life people target innocents who are undergoing depression or some other personal difficulties and brain wash them to convert. They also eye the money of the converted people. They seem to be under some spell and look possessed. They look at this beautiful world that God has created through what can be described as tunnel vision and have a fanatical view of the scriptures, totally distorted and wrong.

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  • abdul, udupi

    Wed, Oct 24 2018

    India should become like France.. No religious activity outside your house and no wearing of religious emblems on body in public..then all these issues will be resolved.

    I support a world which is free of any binding.

    Freedome eva jayathe

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  • SUNNY DSOUZA, MARNIMIKATTE MANGALORE

    Thu, Oct 25 2018

    Yes
    But I think it will take decades
    So many languages
    And OUR Shameless Ministers

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  • pircki, panchanabettu

    Thu, Oct 25 2018

    Abdul,
    that is not possible in India. bcoz if we try to do so then freedom of speech, tukde gang, secularism gang .... etc. will come out & protest.

    your idea is good I also liked that concept. it will unite the people & nation.

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