Now #MenToo movement to 'expose' harassment by women


Bengaluru, Oct 21(PTI): On the lines of #Metoo, a group of 15 people, including a former French diplomat acquitted in a sexual abuse case in 2017, has launched a #MenToo movement, asking men to come out and speak openly about the sexual harassment faced by them at the hands of women.

The campaign was launched here Saturday by NGO Children's Rights Initiative for Shared Parenting (Crisp) to protest against the #Metoo movement, false cases against men among others.

Speaking on the occasion, National President of Crisp, Kumar V Jahgirdar said the group would fight for gender neutral laws and demand punishment for those filing false cases under #MeToo campaign.

Noting that #MeToo was a good movement, he however said it should not be misused to fix somebody by levelling false allegations.

"This movement has only resulted in bringing disrepute to men who have worked hard to earn respect in society," he said.

Later, talking to reporters, Jahgirdar said unlike #MeToo victims, who bring about sexual abuse stories that happened a couple of decades ago, the #MenToo stories would be related to recent incidents.

On #MeToo movement, Jahgirdar further said if the affected women have genuine case of sexual misbehaviour, they should take legal recourse, instead of putting out stories on social media.

Former French diplomat Pascal Mazurier, who was accused of sexually abusing his daughter and later acquitted by a city court in 2017 also took part in the protest.

He said #MenToo campaign was not at all a counter to #MeToo campaign, but to address the problems of men who do not speak up against women's atrocities.

"There is real pain among men.. They are also suffering, but they are not coming out in the open against women and their misdemeanors," he said.

The false allegations levelled on men in #MeToo campaign not only destroys children's future, but also families, Pascal noted.

"We make laws to protect women. That is fine, but let us not forget half of humanity are men," he added.

Pascal is facing a court battle after his wife had moved the Karnataka High Court challenging a city-based court's verdict acquitting him.

Pascal's wife has custody of their three children.

The #Me Too movement has gathered pace over the past few days with a number of women speaking out on sexual harassment at their workplace and support for them has been pouring in from various quarters.

Former Union Minister MJ Akbar, film personalities like Alok Nath, Subhash Ghai, Nana Patekar and Vairamuthu have been accused of sexual harassment by a number of women under the #MeToo movement.

  

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  • R Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Mon, Oct 22 2018

    Cynthi Cynthi ....
    Some questions....
    1. Girls know what exactly look for you said.
    WHAT? Please elaborate.
    2.See her conscience you said...How ? Can one see it ?
    Does her conscience tell her anything ?
    3.Beauty is but skin deep goes a saying why ?
    4.Now according to you ...Girls know exactly what boys look for and shape accordingly Whose fault...His or Hers ? All on boys aa ?...
    5.....Continuing Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder right ? This should be known to girls too.So why bother with artificiality and implants
    I mean no Use like pretending to be innocent these days.
    Ok.? 50 percent blame you must take ok ?

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  • R Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Mon, Oct 22 2018

    1.Girls know what exactly " BOYS" look for
    Please read as

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  • Cynthia, Mangalore

    Mon, Oct 22 2018

    OK... Done.. We will take 50 % blame..
    Let's assume 50% are definitely not "snow whites"..rest 50% are really "snow whites" even now sir ji..inspite of TV, mobiles etc. Which were not there in the past years... Will you agree?

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  • Rudolf Rodrigues, Mumbai

    Mon, Oct 22 2018

    As per research statistics significant number of young men fall prey to sexual abuse by women and men:

    Today we know that reality is more complicated. Much research shows that at the time of abuse men and boys, like women and girls, are silent. They won't respond, won't yell and won't confront the attacker, but will freeze in place just like most people do during a traumatic event. Additionally, therapeutic knowledge teaches us that the implications of sexual abuse on the lives of men, similar to that of women, is hard and traumatic. Victims experience loss of control, lack of self-esteem, anxiety, loneliness and feelings of self-blame.

    The social expectations of men not to express weakness or hurt, lead us to a situation where victims have trouble asking for help.

    Statistics from ARCCI's annual report last year show the situation clearly: among all general inquiries at the rape crisis centers, 87% are women and girls and only 13% are men and boys.

    These statistics do not show that there are less incidents of sexual abuse among men, rather the difficulty men have in turning to us for help.

    The hotline for men and boys was founded from the understanding that there is a serious need to give assistance to those who cope everyday with the trauma of sexual abuse, as well as the social stigma, silence on the issue and gender expectations.

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  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Mon, Oct 22 2018

    @ Alwyn, Canada,

    You too ? Cannot believe !

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  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Mon, Oct 22 2018

    Even during my time too they were harmless.

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  • Ozy, Mangalore

    Mon, Oct 22 2018

    If men does not make advances these women call men Eunuch. and when goes something wrong blame men. Men should unite and fight for their right

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  • J.F D Souza, Attavar, Mangalore.

    Mon, Oct 22 2018

    Forget about this. It accidentally happens.

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  • Mangalurian, Mangaluru

    Mon, Oct 22 2018

    Much more than #MenToo, all women need to be questioned for misrepresentation.

    By putting on all sorts of makeup, teeth implants, and plastic surgery - women misrepresent what they really are.

    This is grossly misleading - as innocent men end up thinking that this is all real stuff, and part with their money.

    The misrepresentation has gone on for a few thousand years. Time for men to wake up!

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  • Cynthia, mangalore

    Mon, Oct 22 2018

    Please don't see the beauty of the body.. See her conscience...now a days all want beautiful girl... No one looks at the girl who is not beautiful Even if she is "Snow White" overall, except outward appearance.
    Girls know What exactly men look for so they colour themselves artificially.. It's not fault of girls at all.

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  • Tell The Truth, Mangalore

    Mon, Oct 22 2018

    To tell you frankly i like womens having natural beauty..what they possess. While travelling we meet some people...some women's they themselves do not aware...that they are beautiful...they act normally.
    We like to observe them again and again...especially there eyes..in it many things hidden. Other's good for nothing. I hate them.

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  • Cynthia, Mangalore

    Mon, Oct 22 2018

    Really I admire what you said in this comment...great views.. Natural beauty is real beauty.

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  • Alwyn, Canada

    Mon, Oct 22 2018

    Good job men. We have to stand up

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  • I wish I was there, Bahrain

    Mon, Oct 22 2018

    You Too.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Mon, Oct 22 2018

    10 years back Ram Jethmalani had cautioned to always carry a stamp paper mentioning "Consensual" ...

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  • Ahmed K. C., Mangalore

    Mon, Oct 22 2018

    I feel that more than woman makes advances, they ask for advance (cash, gold, gifts etc.,)

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  • Alwyn, Canada

    Sun, Oct 21 2018

    #me too apply to wealthy and celebrateties but not applicable to poor or homeless or men not rich.won't apply with homeless men thier agenda. If someone realy suffering from rape and abuse for sure good to apply. Only for publication or revenge I find it dangerous game.

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  • Vincent Rodrigues, Katapadi/Bangalore

    Sun, Oct 21 2018

    MeToo is good if not exploited and misused .

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  • R Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Sun, Oct 21 2018

    It's a Misuse of a Miss or miss understanding the situation 'better to complain much later.
    Right?

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  • PEDDA GUNDOO, MANGALURU

    Sun, Oct 21 2018

    NEED OF THE HOUR ! THOSE SEDUCING MEN EXPOSE THEM NOT NECESSARILY WIFE ! THERE ARE DEVIL WOMEN IN OTHER PLACES LIKE MEN !

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  • R Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Sun, Oct 21 2018

    Fair enough.
    I had written earlier that it's not the Men only who make advances...
    These days not all women are Snow whites.
    In my time they were ....ok.?

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  • Cynthia, Mangalore

    Sun, Oct 21 2018

    Ok.

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  • R Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Mon, Oct 22 2018

    Three Cheers .

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  • Manoj, Mangalore

    Sun, Oct 21 2018

    Hope husband's don't come out & speak abt their spouses now🤔

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  • RkR, Mangalore/ Dubai

    Sun, Oct 21 2018

    #Hubby too

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