Puttur: Mother of two rejects husband, seeks company of neighbourhood youth


Daijiworld Media Network - Puttur (SP)

Puttur, Nov 28: In a strange incident which has happened in a village falling under the jurisdiction of Uppinangady police station in the taluk, a married woman has been adamantly demanding the companionship of a youth living in her neighbourhood. The youth and her husband are in a bind because of her insistence.

The woman has two kids. She married a man from this village nine years back. When her husband used to stay away from home on account of work compulsions, he had sought help of a youth living in the neighbourhood and asked him to bring provisions and other things needed by his wife when he was away. In course of time, with the frequent visits of the youth, the woman got attracted towards him. After she openly expressed her love for the youth and came out with her madness for him, all hell broke loose.

This incident resulted in family quarrels and the husband also had a fight with the youth. The issue was referred to police station after which the police asked the youth to desist from visiting the woman.

Overlooking the warnings of the police, the woman called the youth the same night and threatened to commit suicide if he failed to visit her. The youth rushed to the police station to share his helplessness. The police summoned the woman and her husband to the station and talked to them. The woman insisted that she does not want to live with her husband and that she wants the company of the youth in question. She also threatened to end her life if they forced her to live with her husband.

At last, the woman's brother was called to the police station and the lady was sent with him to her parental home. The police asked the family to send the lady back to her husband once she undergoes change of mind. The youth now faces a strange situation.

  

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  • Anwar, Dubai

    Wed, Nov 29 2017

    JOO SATHER SAAL SE NAHEIN HUWA CONGRESS KI SARKAR MEIN WOO AB BJP KI SARKAR MEIN HO RAHA HAI. JUST JOOKING.
    This is BJP common slogans in their entire election rallies

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  • Rita, Germany

    Wed, Nov 29 2017

    What a story.I find here not only the woman guilty but the neighbour too.He sought the company of a married woman.He should have kept her away.Now the marraige has no sinn at present.no kitting is possible.will be only courts lawyers and fights .Might end in a disaster.Better the neighbour should go to a far place.woman should think twice and live with kids alone.Husband can go where he wants.Afterall he pushed her in lovers schoss.woman too is gone too forward.No sense of keeping her marraige vows upright.We say roadside bird. kids are here suffering.why did the woman not seek a hobby when husband was away so that time pass and wait till husband comes back.Husband too should have thought for a moment when young boy was coming home ,keep a watch on them ,or come home time to time,or take her away with kids and keep them with him.Now fight further.see who gets the fruits.

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  • Dr Mohan Prabhu, LL.D, QC, Mangalore (Kankanady)/Ottawa, Canada

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    Readers of this story have so many different views, all understandable and predictable, reveals from where they come from. I am just muddling the issue by adding a tuppence worth of my comments. The husband lit the fire but left it burning by prolonged absence entrusting another and younger man to "tend" to it. Whose fault is it? Having done so, he is unable to extinguish that fire and the flame continued by his proxy continues to burn within her. Again, whose fault is it? I am not preaching either the woman, the husband or the young man caught in between. Each person has his or her own moral bias, and I have no right to question.

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  • Seetharama U, Kota

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    Yes, of course, the husband started the fire but left the house to work to look after the family The woman must understand that she has to control her desires. I would blame the woman here than the poor husband. But as you said when Petrol and fire are together naturally there can be fire. But we all must place family above above our desires and maintain the family

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  • Femina, Dxb, mangaluru

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    Its true that when your spouse is far away ,soulmates gets attracted to other souls.But we need to say and seal it in our heart and mind that we are auctioned(married).Marriage is the most respectable institution.One who cannot handle it, should never enter it.Otherwise what is the use of saptapati or saathpheras ,taking oaths etc.
    May she reunite with her husband.I pity children.They will have scars in their childhood,if divorced.
    Husband should impress her ,treat her like his gf.I am sure she ll melt.Women loves surprises, solitaires.If you can't afford anything ,then just say I love you,more than my MOTHER.Lol....It ll end all this saga.

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  • Seetharama U, Kota

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    This is the situation when SOCIAL WORKERS of the area must come forward and solve the issues. SOCIAL WORKERS must get into action and convince the woman that she can not do this to her husband and children, I feel the lady has some mental problem which can be solved through negotiations and counseling,

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  • Kiran, Mumbai

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    Liberals please don say that modi is responsible for this

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  • SD, Bangalore

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    Mother of two, Is it love or is it lust that you are craving for?

    Lady once your lust is fulfilled with the youth, you will be longing to go back to your husband and kids. But than your husband and children may not want you in their life. Your behavior will only destroy your life and the children's life. I hope you get back to your senses and work on your marriage.

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  • Raman Nambiar, Manipal

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    Long ago when we were studying a girl from Andrapradesh fell in love with a malayalee boy. The girl lured the boy somehow and she got him married, The marriage was on the rocks , It ended in three months time. The girl took good amount of money from the boy also. What I say is some women dont understand life fully and always play funny.

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  • Ilyas, Udupi

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    LOVE JIHAD?

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  • Bajilakerey Kamalaksha, Mangalore

    Wed, Nov 29 2017

    It's not Love Jihad... it's LOVE BEHIND THE SCENE... that is love jugad!!!!

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  • vish, mangalore

    Wed, Nov 29 2017

    No Luv Janab :)

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  • JNB, Mangalore-Mumbai

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    Where are morale police now?

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  • Nawaz, Udupi/ Kuwait

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    Why the society and the police is helll bent to make them live together as married couple when there is no bonding and love between them.

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  • santhu brive, Mumbai/Udupi

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    better to keep your wife away from your best male friends/neighbors to avoid such kind of tragedy.

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  • Vicky D, Dubai

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    This is like rejecting India & seeking company of Pakistan!!!

    There are people who justify the action of lady, May be according to them this is women empowerment!!!

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  • Wilson DSouza, Moodbidri

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    No spiritual values ... loose families ... a grave social concern ...

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  • Seetharama Upadhyaya K, Kota

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    We must be extremely careful when talking or even helping a woman. They sometimes just get carried away and fall into relationships. I feel this is the case / Everyone I request everyone to stay from women. Sometimes I feel they are the cause of many problems in life. Strange incident indeed. I understand the pain that the young man in picture is undergoing!

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    Classic example of 'Grass is always Greener on the other Side' ...

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  • Avinash, Mangalore

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    Every time since last 70 years you were wrong

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  • Luv, Mangalore

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    Out of sight out of mind !!!
    Poor husband should forgive his wife, at least she didn't play hide and seek . she has genuinely fallen for this youth and can't control her emotions.

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  • rajesh, udupi

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    and if the matter goes to court it will be dragged for a small period of seven to ten years until boy says bye to his youth.

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  • D.P.Shetty, Bahrain

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    This lady have too much bad cholesterol by caring husband, hope he and children will be safe

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  • Vincent D'Souza, Belthangady

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    This case proves "Love ❤ is not "Blind"

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  • prem, moodbidri

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    Tulu proverb "Nere kare yedde ippodu", is no longer trustable !!!

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  • David Pais, Mangalore

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    konkani drama: tho maka naka

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  • prem, moodbidri

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    Hope abandoning Husband/Wife will not become New Trend, inspired by.... !

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  • Vincent D'Souza, Belthangady

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    This case proves "Love is not Blind".

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  • Thomas Cutinho, Dubai/Mangalore

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    She can be compared to the animals since they have little brain and they will do whatever they need. If she knows the value of sacred sacrament of matrimony and afraid of God and consequences of her decision she would have never taken this step. As a human being we have some limitations. Many couples are committing this kind of mistakes and their friendship is end up with a tragedy. Ex: Many years ago same incident happened in Surathkal [girl from Puttur]. She ran away with a Keralite boy with her 2 kidsand within 3 months she wanted to leave that boy and come to her family, but no use no body had accepted her since she had already tarnished the image of her family.

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  • k b r, Mangala Uru

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    That lady knows 'Variety is the spice of life...'

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  • shaji, Udupi

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    What will be the fate of this lady in case the boy marries her today and tomorrow he goes with another girl. He also has rght to follow his taste.

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  • Mangalurian, Mangaluru

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    He can't!

    India has a dozen laws to find the man guilty. All that the woman has to do is cry a little.

    And then everyone - police, courts, media, neighbours - will make the man's bones are broken - unless he promises to go back and support the suffering lady.

    That is Indian law.

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  • G R PRABHUJI, Mangalore

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    From today all most all husband's will have a doubt with neighbours.

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  • L n T, Mumbai

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    Mother of 2
    Swamiji. Was pleading atleast 4
    Formula suits
    2 gharka 2 bahar ka
    Aap aye bahar aye
    Desh Badal ke Vikas karna hei

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  • RUDOLPH, MANGALORE

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    ACHHE DIN OF OUR NAMO

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  • Mangalurian, Mangaluru

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    People don't get it.

    Most women find the usefulness of the hisband is over once the children are born.

    Anyhoo...to cut a long story short...

    Marry your girlfriend when she turns 40, and (possibly) live happily with her ever after.

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  • vivek, hirebyle / abu dhabi

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    if Ram Gopal Verma will see this D.W news....immediately he will rush to Puttur ........Normally such stories are ending up with Crime....

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  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    Like ;
    When the Cat was away
    Mouse engaged in a play
    She may repeat when village boy is away

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  • Krishna, Malpe/Bangalore

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    ........ Mera desh badal raha rai..

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  • Gangaram, Moodbidri

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    Everyone has their own taste!!!

    here people commenting like they all are saints and that woman only sinner!!!

    lust and love van lead a man and woman any heights!!!

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  • Mangalorean, Mangalore

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    JAMAANA BADHAL RAHA HEY

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  • Santan Mascarenhas, Kinnigoli/Mumbai

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    At the departure lounge, the girl hugs the boy and tells "darling, you are going to gulf, I do not know how to live without you. Don't leave me, otherwise, I will die. Please write a letter every day, so that I will be able to live with your memory" The boy wrote a letter each day and at the end of the month, boy gets a letter saying, she is marrying the post man. Out of sight, out of mind.

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  • Dr Mohan Prabhu, LL.D, QC, Mangalore (Kankanady)/Ottawa, Canada

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    Hilarious!!

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  • shan, dubai

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    Marriage has changed because world has changed. Now marriages are just a contract and temporary.
    Olden days the couple used to continue even they are unhappy with their partners. Now in the world Divorce cases increasing not only in western countries even in Middle east. She wants to live happily she does not want to continue her commitment of marriage.

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  • SJM, Mangalore

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    She can keep two - One par time and another full time - Dunia Badal raha hai

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  • JAGDISH, mumbai

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    HOPE YOU GOT THE IDEA

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  • Beowulf, Mangalore

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    We have to respect her right to live as she pleases.

    And what are police doing?? It is not their job what the lady has to do.

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  • vivek, hirebyle / abu dhabi

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    If so Then ...what will their KIDS future....

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  • Beowulf, Mangalore

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    Her husband will take care of them. What if she would have died in an accident?? who would have taken care of kids??

    Every person has a right to determine their own future. At max, you can give your advice. But forcing an individual to obey your rules is highly unethical.

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  • Johan, Surathkal/dubai

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    She will live however she pleases by filing cases on the husband for maintenance and alimony..unfortunately he will not be able to live as he pleases as half his income will go to this ungrateful ..story of every husband in india...

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    I wonder if any such cases were reported prior to 2014 ...

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  • JAGDISH, mumbai

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    FOR YOUR INFO THIS WORLD WAS DISCOVERED ONLY BY 2014. BEFORE THAT ITALIAN ALIENS AND THEIR SLAVES WHERE RULING THIS PLANET.

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  • dinesh, Udupi

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    yes it happened in Mumbai,,, but dongi police took money from her police and not reported to police

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  • Jaimini P.B., Manipal,Sharjah

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    Jossey Sir....Haaaa...Yes..such cases were reported prior to 2014 and result was either Divorce or Suicide...and now (post 2014) Counseling...No damage or tragedy so far....Acchhe Din..

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  • Rampanna, Udupi

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    There is a limit to the extent to which your 2014 comment could go.
    May I just remind you that even before 2014
    - Sun was rising in the east every day without fail;
    - Chickens were still crowing at day break every day;
    - All major rivers of India were still culminating at Bay of Bengal and some in Arabian sea;
    - Public servants from Ministers to MP/MLAs to IAS/IPS to a clerk and constable were still engaging in corruption; AND
    - YOU and I were still venting about the Government of the day and the state of our country.

    I am an atheist. But I would still say this to you. For GOD sake stop your 2014 non-sense when you have nothing else to say.

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  • sri_elder, Karkala

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    Rampanna - good one.. But let it go...
    In future jossey to replace 2014 with 2019 and 2024 after Modi re- elections in due course of time 😋

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    When did I say no such cases were reported prior to 2014 ...

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  • Beowulf, Mangalore

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    Jossey Saldanha,

    There might have never been a better fence sitter than you.

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  • David Pais, Mangalore

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    chaiwala divorced his wife & do da bhakts think he is living bachelor life??????

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  • David Pais, Mangalore

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    chaiwala divorced his wife & do da bhakts think he is living bachelor life??????

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  • Prashant Karkera, Hejamady/Mumbai

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    Relax, partners, gammath avondu undu, avve raaga, avve taala, waa marl marre, Sir Jossey you carry on till 2019, 2024 etc....

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  • H Kunder, Mangalore

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    Jossey was born in the year 2014. That's why everything news seems to be new for him.
    Its time for you to join LKG my dear baby. Have you filled the admission forms.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    So many frustrated Cries ...

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  • Ivanka R Monteiro, Kuleskar / Spain

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    What a madness, marriage is the bond of two bodies and one soul, how she can cheat her husband,

    Ivanka
    Spain

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  • Rampanna, Udupi

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    Welcome to the real world, Ivanka madam. In the real world, marriages do break down and couples do separate.

    And your comment about “two bodies and one soul” sounds good in movies and religious teachings.
    I do not want to comment specifically about the current news article because (a) I do not have all the facts in front of me; and (b) it is none of my business.
    However, in our regional context where lot of marriages are arranged by the families, you still expect that the couple should remain glued to each other if the relationship has completely broken down? There could be 100 different reasons for the breakdown of marriage and many of them are irreversible. That is life and that is the real world.

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  • Af,,, Mangalore

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    Gharki murgi daal barabar, May be found Road side food is so tasty.

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  • JAGDISH, mumbai

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    EXPERIENCE TALKS

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  • Jamal, Mangalore/UAE

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    No one is saint in this world including me & you!

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  • Ray, Mangalore/ Dubai

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    True!! but giving a try to be a saint no harm...God will be pleased!!!

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  • JAGDISH, mumbai

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    hope enjoying in UAE with road side food.

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  • Ray, Mangalore/ Dubai

    Tue, Nov 28 2017

    Sorry sir i don't enjoy any outside food..the food which god has provided is enough!!! Praise the lord!!

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