Udupi: Unable to bear torture by father, young siblings leave home


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Daijiworld Media Network - Udupi (UM)

Udupi, Jul 13: Two children from Parkala left their home on the evening of Sunday July 12, reportedly to get away from their father who was habitually torturing them.

The siblings, named Meghashree, studying in 7th standard and Nagaraj, a student of 4th standard, were found and taken by the police on Monday July 13, but both of them refused to go back home.

They are children of Hanumantha, a tipper driver and Lalita, residents of Parkala.

It is said that Hanumantha used to beat the children regularly with belt. Unable to bear the torture anymore, the children decided to leave the home for good.

Accordingly, on Sunday evening, Meghashree and Nagaraj, packing some of their clothes, left home without informing anyone. The girl had ten rupees with her, with which they took a bus to Udupi and came to Shree Krishna Math in the hope of having food. However, as it was Ekadashi, food was not served.

The children then wandered around in the rain, until they were spotted by Mahesh, a security man at the parking lot of Sri Krishna Math. Mahesh asked them what they were doing there, and the children narrated their story. He then took them to his house and gave them food and overnight accomodation.

Mahesh also informed some of his neighbours about the children, who then informed the media. The police were also informed.

Udupi circle inspector Girish and police personnel visited Mahesh's house and took the children to the police station and counselled them. However, they refused to go back to their parents. The girl was in tears.

CMC member Janardhan Bhandarkar said that the children could be accomodated in a hostel. The children could be handed over first to the parents, and if their father continues to harass them, they could be taken to a hostel by the child welfare committee or other bodies, he said.

However, the children refused to go home. Further course of action has not been decided yet. The parents may be called and counselled, sources said. It is also learnt that after the children left their home, a missing complaint was filed in Manipal police station.

  

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  • Kusuma Kumari Venkiah , Nellore/Kodyadka

    Fri, Jul 17 2015

    These things happen Pure children Might have suffered a lot in the ends of the cruel Father. I feel the children should be with some Hostel for something where they will be provided good education food and accommodation, Sad story

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  • vibhan, Parkala

    Tue, Jul 14 2015

    Hi all ,
    This family stays in the house whom I know very closely.Its very bad to see the above comments against the parents.
    I know them personally ,they aren't like the way they are described.They dont torture them.
    Yes father might have beat them with belt sometimes when children misbehave.
    But I have seen his tension when he was searching his kids in full parkala town.
    Even we have got beatings from our parents when we were small ,we never considered it as torture.
    Just that these kids are immature to understand it and ran away from home.
    I am sure when they grow up they will realize how stupid they were.

    Please dont be judgemental on the parents ,They are loving and caring as others.

    Thanks,

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  • Ramchandra Shetty, Urwa

    Tue, Jul 14 2015

    Vibhan, Parkala.
    I don't think with light beating the children will make up their mind to take such a huge risk of running away. When the children are missing any father will feel his children absence be it a cruel father or a good father. This frantic search by the father is just a temporary trend. When the children are back he will start the torture again in few days and under the influence of alcohol the beating will be worse. I really feel pity on this children. I feel like hugging and kissing them tightly. I feel pity also on their mother who must have also been tortured and borne it silently without anybody coming to their help. How can the children go with their bag of clothes without the notice of their mother and neighbours. I am very much sure that their mother must have helped them to go telling them to go to Shri Krishna Math not being able to save the children from the torture.

    Vibhan please stop spreading rumour. By doing this you are putting this children in jeopardy and people will think your side of story is right and will forget these children.

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  • Ramchandra Shetty, Urwa

    Tue, Jul 14 2015

    This is really a heart wrenching incident. My heart goes out to these innocent children who have to go through the torture from their father at this young age. If he is thrashing his children then I am very much sure he must be thrashing wife also and must be bearing it silently. My story is not any different than theirs. I have also gone through this phase and I know how it feels like to go through such a mental and physical torture. My father was suffering from Schizophrenia and he didn't realise about it nor was he taking medication for it. May be this man also has some mental problem and he should be evaluated by a good psychiatrist for mental sickness and if so he should be given proper medication. And if he is not suffering from mental problem then I request the so called moral brigade to give him good thrashing and give him warning that if he comes within one kilometer radius of his house, he will be beaten more severely than the last time. Only then the mother and children can live happily and peacefully. The moral brigade also has to ensure that the father pays adequate money on monthly basis for his family's expenses. Our law & order police are good for nothing so it is best not to rely on them.

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  • Anil, Udupi/Mumbai/Dubai

    Tue, Jul 14 2015

    Many people (99%) talking about parental responsibility, which is extremely good and it should be. But I am very sad to see, the same people (80%) very conveniently forget their old age parents well being ! Just think about it...

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  • Aubb, Kuwait

    Tue, Jul 14 2015


    Let the Immoral police take responsibility for the upbringing of these kids whose life is in danger.

    If anyone can legally admit them to Vishwasada Mane, Shankarpura, Udupi dist., I am willing do donate Rs.15,000/= to Pastor Sunil D'Souza, who is my friend, who will take care of them.

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  • Ramchandra Shetty, Urwa

    Tue, Jul 14 2015

    My salute to you Aubb. I am also willing to donate money to them. We cannot imagine how difficult it is to live with such monster. Only those innocent kids know what a hell they are living in.

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  • Rita, Germany

    Tue, Jul 14 2015

    Poor children!when they both decided to leave house means something serious has/was happened.something with Girl?Wonder why mother didnt protect them?when they dont want to return, please dont send back at present.The Situation might go out of Hand and they might commit sue side when not tolerable is .Afterall they are still children.when they feel they want go home ,then let them.Father may be drinking alcohol?otherwise why beat them?Best is put the father out of house.Anyway the father should be punished.otherwise he wont learn.Findout what was the reason to torture children.mother should be also asked why she didnt protect them.There is something here not clear.

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  • Charles D'Mello, Pangala

    Tue, Jul 14 2015

    I have noticed from the comments on this issue that...Most of the guy's who were supporting VHP in the cow slaughter issue have not commented on this issue...!!!!??? It means only religion is the issue and not the love for living beings...!!!???

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  • Praveen, Kulshekar

    Tue, Jul 14 2015

    Hukumchand are you still in mangalore, what is the punishment you wish for this father

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  • Af,, Mangaluru

    Tue, Jul 14 2015

    Hukumchand will tell him leave your children and start cow chasing job.
    anyway cow is most important than human.

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  • joyce, mangalore

    Tue, Jul 14 2015

    please please put the kids in the hostel.no couselling as the father seems to have animal tendencies.he should be punished.and should be allowed visiting hrs

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  • sudesh pai, Manipal

    Mon, Jul 13 2015

    Please do not give vague adopt the children lord will bless you a great life

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  • Peter Lewis, Kalmady/k s a

    Mon, Jul 13 2015

    Animals (Cows) are more important us than Childrens!

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  • Ronald, Mangalore

    Mon, Jul 13 2015

    People always talking and writing about 'Our Culture',our 'Pink Chaddi,etc are missing from this domain today!

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  • Joe Gonsalves, Mangalore

    Mon, Jul 13 2015

    Parents who are not able to love the children should not have children... again such people should not get married.

    In the present instance, the father should be sent for counseling.

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  • Animal lover, Udupi

    Mon, Jul 13 2015

    Hip hip hurray, one more chance to prove animals are better than humans my cat has given kittens and she refuses to budge away from them even if I bribe her with milk,I feel like feeding the bas****d with the cats s**t.

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  • Ramchandra Shetty, Urwa

    Tue, Jul 14 2015

    Mr/Mrs.Animal Lover, Please keep in mind that you too belong to the homo sapien species. This is a serious issue of children being tortured by their father. Please don't dilute the issue with your uncalled comments. If you are so concerned of animals then your presence is very much required in the wild forests to save cows, buffaloes, deers, wilder beasts, gazelles, warthogs from wild animal like lions, tigers, leopards, cheetahs, hyenas, etc. Please go there as soon as possible and save maximum number of animals and build a shelter for them rather than wasting your time here.

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  • Animal lover, Udupi

    Tue, Jul 14 2015

    Mr. Shetty,
    I'm not so rich and I'm born as a little more compassionate towards animals than you are and I try to make people aware about their importance, people have agreed with me that says it all.

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  • Ramchandra Shetty, Urwa

    Tue, Jul 14 2015

    If you are not rich then the other alternative is to kill all the predators and save the innocent lives of herbivores. Don't you have sympathy for those cows, buffaloes, deers, gazelles, wilderbeasts, warthogs and other animals? Why this double standard? When will you stop being a hypocrite.

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  • Ayub malpe, bahrain

    Mon, Jul 13 2015

    Better to born as cow in this society...!???

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  • oliver, udupi

    Mon, Jul 13 2015

    Please admit them to the hostel which is good & safe for the children.

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  • jesssy, mangalore/ireland

    Mon, Jul 13 2015

    before the matter goes worse take precautionery measure. please hand over the children to hostel/orphanage. if the children are refusing to go back to their parents, that means there is something.!!! if the police let them go to their parents tomorrow if they commit suicide. whom to blame? or if they wander in deserted area and someone rapes them? who will answer? please take decission.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Mon, Jul 13 2015

    Our Moral Force is only good at chasing COWS ...

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  • Rudolf, Mumbai

    Mon, Jul 13 2015

    Feel empathetic for these small kids and condemning the father's atrocities on his kids, However, 3-4 decades ago getting pasted with canes (spl. nagu beth), belt, wire etc. when one committed mistakes or did not listen to parent's diktats was common I suppose, especially in the villages!!! Now times have changed and one cannot even raise their voice on the children lest they take some drastic step!!

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  • John, Udupi

    Mon, Jul 13 2015

    Is this our culture! ?. Where are the culture protectors and immoral rowdies!?. Let them tackle the kids father and show they are real moral police!!

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  • vinayak prabhu, mangalore

    Mon, Jul 13 2015

    This is individualism not culture.If u dont like indian culture.you can go to any other country where you can love culture

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  • NITHIN, MANGALORE

    Mon, Jul 13 2015

    Mage pard tight ad jokule akovena pand . POLICE dakulu rad budad apaga sari aape - jokuleg akod andad e namne ath. RAD KORLE SARI AAPE.

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  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Mon, Jul 13 2015

    Jossey,

    We have grown up (even married) children but our love for them still the same from time they have come into this world.
    I still address them lovingly, putha (Babu) or puthuli to daughter.
    Look at these helpless kids ! God forbid.

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  • jd, mangalore

    Mon, Jul 13 2015

    And where was the mother all the while?
    Do not send the children back, in a fit of rage, the father may do unrepairable damage to the little ones.

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  • Francis, Dubai

    Mon, Jul 13 2015

    In this case, the parents have not fulfilled their duties.

    Whereas in so many cases, not only children have cared for their parents but also abandoned them who have brought them to this world with dignity.

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  • kas, Mangalore

    Mon, Jul 13 2015

    Well done Mahesh.....for giving shelter and food to the children.....god bless you.....

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Mon, Jul 13 2015

    Some parents long for Children and this ...

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  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Mon, Jul 13 2015

    That man from his face looks like a drunkard (alcoholic).
    Let us hope that the child welfare committee or other bodies would help these kids to continue with normal life under their care.

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  • FAb, AUD

    Mon, Jul 13 2015

    Why not at least once this man taste the police belt torture. Just to test the parameter of pain.

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  • Antonio D'Silva, Kuwait

    Mon, Jul 13 2015

    God created parents to look after the welfare of their children. It seems in this case it is not to be.

    This is also an opportunity for all parents to introspect whether we are fulfilling the role that God has created us for?

    on the other hand the incident has revealed the strong bond between the siblings which I pray will last a lifetime.

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  • ANP, Blore

    Mon, Jul 13 2015

    Anthony ,
    If God created parents then he is in control of them. Why can't he make them care for their children.
    Looks like god has no hand in children being born if so he should protect them .

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  • Pradeep Kumar, Mangalore

    Mon, Jul 13 2015

    Can not believe parents will do such thing with their own Children. Thanks to Mr. Mahesh for his timely help. Otherwise these kids would have been fallen in wrong hands.

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  • citizen, mangalore

    Mon, Jul 13 2015

    Useless guy...devilish act ..and poor children ...why cant he look after his child happily...Poor upbringing has serious consequences..

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  • PAM Suvarna, Karla

    Mon, Jul 13 2015

    There are still some devils in the form of human beings, feel so sorry about the condition these two kids, some parents are for sake of their lust giving birth to children later totally forget what their parental responsibilities. God bless these kids.

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