Bangalore: Retired ASI, chained to cot by wife and sons, rescued by police


Daijiworld Media Network – Bangalore (SP)

Bangalore, Aug 30: A retired assistant sub-inspector of police (ASI), who was chained to a cot by his wife and two sons for money, was released by the policemen of Girinagar station here on Thursday August 28. The man who underwent this ordeal was Venkatesh (60), who had retired in June this year after working as assistant sub-inspector of police in K G Nagar police station here. He was backed by 35 years of service.

At the time of retirement, Venkatesh got around Rs 20 lac in the form of provident fund, encashment of pension, gratuity etc. He had deposited this money in the form of term deposit in State Bank of India in his wife, Ratna's name. It is learnt that Ratna and her two sons had tortured him and chained, and kept him in house arrest, demanding payment of the entire money in cash to them.

When Ramadase Gowda, younger brother of Venkatesh, tried to contact his elder brother recently, he found that the cell phone number was not available for contact. As he was refused entry into the house, Ramadase Gowda, at the advice of the policemen, obtained search warrant from the 24th additional chief metropolitan magistrate's court, and went to his brother's home with policemen from Girinagar station, duly armed with the court order. Ratna refused entry for the policemen inside her house, and reportedly challenged them that she would be able to get several such search warrants. After the policemen warned that they would break open the door, she allowed them inside.

It is gathered that even three months earlier to his retirement, Venkatesh had been kept under house arrest by his wife and children. As he had not been chained then, he could escape at midnight from his house and get shelter in the house of his brother at Kanakapura. Ratna approached a MP then, and got a recommendation letter from him to remit retirement benefits directly to her, duly alleging that Venkatesh was mentally unstable. But the senior police officers, who insisted that retirement money can only be paid to the retiring employee, insisted on making the payment to Venkatesh.

Venkatesh told the media men that in spite of his paltry income, he had struggled to provide engineering education to both his children. His first son, a M Tech postgraduate, and second son, who has visited several countries as part of his engineering job, tortured him at the instigation of their mother. He said that he had kept the entire money in fixed deposit to secure the future of his wife. “We get Rs 50,000 as rent from a house in Srinagar in the city, and another apartment is being built at Ittamadu. As money is required for this flat, I was being pestered to provide money. I took the stand that keeping money in fixed deposit can be helpful in the future if the children turn hostile after their marriage,” he said. He also revealed that he plans to hand over all the money to his wife and children when he is produced in the court, and then go to live with his brother for the rest of his life.

'I am under house arrest since August 9. I have never taken bath ever since. They did not provide me anything to eat, except tea to drink occasionally. When my younger brother, Ramadase Gowda, sent his wife and children to check for me, my sons applied gum tapes to my lips so that I could not shout. They also threatened me at knife point to kill me. Our family has five acre irrigated agricultural land inherited from my father, which can fetch an income of two lac rupees per year. I will lead the remaining life out of this money and the monthly pension,' he said.

  

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  • peter, Brahmavar

    Sun, Aug 31 2014

    Moral of the story is father's love to his children and wife. He still loves unconditionally and ready to give what he has.

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  • shalini salian, mangalore

    Sun, Aug 31 2014

    How nice this world would be if sons took care of their aged parents and daughters too understand their responsibility towards their aged parents and help them in how much ever possible. No parent should die due to torture from their children. Respect our parents and tomorrow we can expect respect from our children.

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Sun, Aug 31 2014

    John,

    Are you here to comment on the topic are are you out to prove me wrong ?

    Where did I say that the wife did the correct thing ? Go away you impostor, step on somebody else's tail - leave me alone ! I have fittingly replied you on your 'Mother' image during a previous instance.

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  • John, Mangalore

    Sun, Aug 31 2014

    Lydia, Why you are angry on my comment? I told you the fact what I heard from my elders. I never said you are wrong.

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  • John, Mangalore

    Sun, Aug 31 2014

    Lydia, YOU MUST HEARD FROM ELDERS SAYING "Mother is the first and best teacher at home to the child". What mother teaches the kids will follow. Why you are understand this???. Kids innocent initially, what you feed you get.

    Author Brand Henry says - "A GOOD TEACHER INSPIRE HOPE, IGNITE THE IMAGINATION AND INSTILL A LOVE OF LEARNING.

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  • Santan Mascarenhas, Kinnigoli/Mumbai

    Sun, Aug 31 2014

    Rudolph, Mumbai
    I completely agree with all your views expressed here and also, the examples. The market price of Grand Paradi Apartments at Kemps Corner today is between 20 and 40 crores depending on floor space. For the son and daughter-in-law, it was only curse or what else ?

    My advice to all friends, do not
    loosen your grip on your house and wealth till you die and also tell your spouse, after your death she should never loosen her grip too, since your children today may not have intention to cheat you, but in future circumstances might crop up where they will be unable to keep you in your house (here I mean,Your earlier own house)

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  • stan, dubai

    Sun, Aug 31 2014

    Man who handled so many criminals and corrupt in his life could not handle his own wife and children.
    He gave good education and made them intelligent that his sons applied gum tapes to his lips so that he could not shout. This is good lesson for each and every one i.e. Don't believe anyone.

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  • Vicky D, Dubai

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    Funny life!!!

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  • Michael, Mulky/San Fransisco

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    Better not to marry and have children than to have one like this. Poor man still says he wants to handover the money to his wife and children but wants to stay away from them. We can imagine the kind of ordeal he has gone through.

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  • Cliffy, Mangalore

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    Those who die for their children this is a big eye opener. How can be your own wife and kids are so ungrateful and rude. Thank God he had good brother.

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  • J.F.D'SOUZA, Attavar, Mangalore

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    Many retired persons suffers like this one or the other way. After retirement some wives including children mentally torture the retired people just for money.When education has been given to the children, mostly sons, it is their bounden duty not to depend upon fathers hard earned money but to stand on his own legs and try to become rich by putting efforts like what their father done. The sons want easy money and there will be a curse if the children behave like this.

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  • Langoolacharya., Belman/Washington,DC.

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    Where is woman's advocate from Kadri?

    ...JH...

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  • Rudolf, Mumbai

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    LOL!! She might be consulting experts or doing research on what to reply!!

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Sun, Aug 31 2014

    Rudolf & Langoolacharya,

    Its strange that you guys see only the wife as the culprit here - why are you ignoring that his two off-springs (MALE) also share the medal ? I am imagining what would you have said if they were daughters !

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  • Ivan, Mangalore/Mumbai

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    Venkatesh educated his children very well. He got 20 lacs on retirement which is not a big amount. Have come across some inspectors / DCP's / ACP's holding properties worth 500 crores. So comparatively this guy is poor, not corrupt. Question is why he is still giving the 20 lacs to his wife when they have tortured him so much? They have property at 3 places including the house in which they are staying. Not clear in whose name all the three houses are registered? This is a confused mystery to me. he has finally taken a step to leave everything back and part with his fathers inherited land and of course the pension. Luckily he has survived.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    There is a saying - Children of Police cannot become Doctors or Engineers because of Corruption.
    Now we can add - Even if they become Engineers they behave like uneducated RAS##LS ...

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  • Wilson D'souza, Mulky Bus Stand/Dubai

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    I feel sad for the Venkatesh.. his wife Ratna to be blamed for this.. there is a saying.. Wife can MAKE a house or BREAK the house.
    I know there is a house wife, she control and dominate the husband, as husband only worked hard in his life.. she took all his money and bought the apartment in her name rather then putting husband name.. which costing about 80 lakhs in current market..Husband sitting in the corner like servant and reading same news paper 100 times a day..

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  • Rudolf, Mumbai

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    Bro, at least the gentleman in your story has been allotted a place to sit and given chance to read the newspaper to pass his time in many places, he is treated worst than an animal! This is mostly the case with those who slogged their life out in the Gulf and came back thinking of a happy retired life not knowing what was in place for them for the trust they reposed in their spouses and making the entire money and property in their names whilst being alive!! Jai Hind!!

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  • Koti, Kundapura

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    Kinni Kathe Malla story.
    Its so confusing such educated sons will torture father for 20 lacs.

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  • Prem, mangalore

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    How his relationship would have been....with his family so long???.... Did he treat them the way these cops treat the public????

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  • Rudolf, Mumbai

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    I am reminded of a similar 'hair raising case' that happened in Mumbai's upmarket area in 1998, read below excerpts!!

    'A man and his wife committed suicide by roping themselves and jumping off the balcony of their eighth floor apartment on Sunday, June 14, 1998. The man had even left a suicide note alleging that they were disgusted and depressed by their lives due to continuous harassment by their son and daughter in law. The police arrested son and his wife couple of days later on the charges of abbetement of the elderly couple. During the court proceedings, the manager of housing society testified that the son and his wife wanted to get the flat transferred in their name. The victims sister, also testified that his son and his wife used to abuse her brother.
    During the seven years of trial, the family were financially insecure. Their spare parts business was not doing well, and they might had been in debt. After defending themselves for seven long years, on the judgement day on Monday, March 28, 2005, at 6:30 AM, the victims son, his wife, and their 19 year old daughter committed suicide by jumping from the same apartment in the same manner as their parents did. It is quite possible that the son's family decided to take this extreme step because the son feared that he and his wife would be convicted and may hear an adverse verdict in the case. A ceremony was later performed to get rid of evil spirits from the eighth floor apartment, and the apartment in which three generations of the same family leaped to their death is sealed off."

    Get the full story at: ~hauntedindia, grand paradi appartments/~

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  • peace lover, india

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    Only God knows whether this gentleman was corrupt or not, but majority of our police force is corrupt. It’s not their fault also, due poor salaries and other facilities, these people are compelled to take bribe. One thing is sure, whoever is involved in corruption, this will be their fate. Money earned through wrong way is not useful for the person at all it will go the doctors, lawyers, magicians or thieves.

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  • Rita, Germany

    Sun, Aug 31 2014

    @ Peace.over, India,here it is not the question of whether he was not or was corrupt.but he treated and looked after his Family well,gave education to children,even thought of his wife in case something happens to him.Here is the question how his children and wife treated him ,gave no respect ,chained him,and hardly gave him Food.He Looks now very very sick because of lack of Food and fluid,so that he must be by this time has some mental disorder(which is caused by lack of nourishment)That is why he wants to go away from his Family fearing further mishandling.very very sad.when grown up children too join to Harass father with mother for Money and land,respect to father and his hard life is not considered.I fear even they may not wait for his normal last days.when so is ,better not have such children but Dogs with them.They may Show you some loyality and freindship.Hope he will have some better days by his brother and his Family.(or they too start saying bring Money)Tragic days for a asst,police Inspector.

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  • PEACE LOVER, INDIA

    Sun, Aug 31 2014

    Rita, Germany.
    I am not at all supporting the act of his children, they deserve punishment and if they escape from punishment in this world, they will be surely punished in the life hereafter. What I mean to say is, if we feed our children with the money earned through wrong doing (corrupt way), this is going to happen. Accepting bribe in police force means, done INJUSTICE to some on else and that will surely turn back.

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  • Roshan, bedra

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    Hardly they know that they also going to face the same fate!!!

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  • KGSHENOY, Mangalore

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    Feel sorry for Mr.Venkatesh.Glad that his brother rescued him from his cruel wife and son's.
    Very strange that serving in police as for 35 yrs, he could not control his own people and live with dignity .I wonder as a police officer which way he could have helped the public in case of serious problems.

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  • Be Positive, Florida\ Mangalore

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    For all Men Please wake up do not trust anyone until your last breath in this world , I have come across this too, where children and wife had imprisoned their Dad in the Balcony of their house for outsiders they were a "Posh" "Hi Fi" "Respected" family !!

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  • sureshshetty, mangalore

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    really greedy behind cash no solution this family when very good education is given to sons it is sons responsibility to look after father mother verly lovely.the person dosnot have money cries for daily food & the person have enough money cries for more wealth & greedy both are unhappy people.greed never ends.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    I have already invested in home for the aged ...

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  • Kusuma Kumari G, Kodyadka/Nellore

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    People these days are like this, I know some one who was very happy when his father died Thinking of the money he would get, I think but later he had terrible problems in life. I feel theres a God and he will do natural justice when needed,The sons who did this must be arrested and tried in a court of law.

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  • Rudolf, Mumbai

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    I have come across a couple of families in our circle wherein the children, right from their impressionable years, are brainwashed against the fathers for whatever shortcomings he could be having, later on in life to form a cartel of wife children on one side and weak husband/father on the other!! At a certain point in time when the husband becomes weak mentally and physically the real torture starts, he is kept under house arrest, not allowed to attend phone calls forget meeting relatives and friends and forced to partake of money, transfer property etc. much before his death, and from there it is 'hell' for that poor man in the house arrested state till his end as he cannot even afford or even venture out to buy 'poison' to end the misery!! If any relative visits the cartel will say he is not in his senses, sleeping, or simply unwell to come out of his house!! Such is the fate in many places, sad but true!! Later on whether these children, having taken the curse, are really able to live a comfortable and peaceful life is anybody's guess!!

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  • Stan, Udupi/Dubai

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    Wife and children should be sent to jail for life.Parents should provide only good education and moral values to the children. They should never hand over their savings to children as they may later land up in old age home pleading for mercy. Shame on such children who does not respect their parents and do not look after them at their old age. Its the duty of children to look after their parents even if their mental state fails. May almighty lord open the eyes of all children who harass the parents at their old age.Society will be a better place to live if such children are not born.

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  • RK, Katpady

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    Love and money brings happiness when they are in balance when there is imbalance it will make human an inhuman.

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  • Allen, Mangalore

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    In spite of seeing the real face of his wife and children, now instead of giving out his money to his wife and children and moving out, he should spend all the money on himself and latter whatever is left should be donated to some old folks charity home. That is the only way to treat those inhuman greedy family members!

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  • Pedro Sam, mulky

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    Most of our people do not manage their finances at all. It is so important for retired people to take advise from some one as to how to manage their ESB. Whatever may be the amount people need to invest the same in their own name and shall create a will (which is not expensive) and register the same. Creation of will is so important. People need to create this document as soon as he or she start their family. Never handover the control of your finance to anyone until you live in this world. Always appoint an independent person to ute your will

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  • Jaimini P.B., Manaipal,Sharjah

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    This case reminds me of my dad's close friend and colleague.(Canara Bank)..His wife and two children used to harass him..(1983 story).Unfortunately,they were my neighbour.He was promoted and transferred to Nelamangala branch..He didn't take his family there for children education.(for relief too)..Whenever he visited Manipal on short vacation,his wife never used to give food to him..Poor man started taking alcohol..After sometime,whole family left Manipal permanently..One day my dad met him accidentally in one marriage function.He was not looking like a Bank Manager,( in a hopeless condition)..He was in tears..He even told that wife and children beat him many times.She wanted him to transfer property,Deposits in her name..After few years...bad news came..He committed suicide..

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  • John, Mangalore

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    Good lesson for everybody, wake up.

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  • Abdul Habibi, Al Jubail, KSA

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    Ohh... So sad,
    Murgi soney k Ande de rahi hai tho kyun na hum ek hi baar sab Ande nikal loon....

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  • John R Lobo, Kaikamba/Dubai

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    You cant judge anybody's character with education. If you does not have wisdom what is use of BE/ME/MBA.

    These Two educated fools thought they will be live like evergreen hero's....

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  • sam, Mlore

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    Money has never made man happy, nor will it, there is nothing in its nature to produce happiness. The more of it one has the more one wants.(Benjamin Franklin)

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  • Willy, Mangalore

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    Its high time that Venkatesh puts all his family members on the road, then only they will know the value of human life. O God where we have reached where is all the love and happiness?. I am sure Venkatesh is still strong to fight his battle he is only 60, I know he will not have that much strength, but surely can use his brains to ute his plans.

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  • HENRY MISQUITH, Bahrain

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    If people are not safe in their own house, where else they should live? This the wife & children of today who only uses the husband for money and ruins the man .

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  • JSaheb,

    Sat, Aug 30 2014

    Lesson for them who make all possible for their children and wife, sacrificing everything.

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