CYRIL MASCARENHAS, KIREM/MIRA ROAD/BOMBAY

VERY SAD..GOD ONLY KNOWS WHAT HAD HAPPEND TO HER..WITHOUT KNOWING WE SHOULD NOT COMMENT ANYTHING..
MAY HER SOUL REST IN PEACE.

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Ronald pinto, Mangalore

Shetty, what about female members of your family, arn't they use mobile phone. Look at your own culture first, before blaming other cultures!

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Victor Fernandes, Toronto/Bombay

As far as possible girls should avoid relationship with boys. I do not mean to say that they should not be friendly with them but should be extremely carefull regarding their closer relationship with them. Girls are girls, boys always prey on girls, best thing is avoid intimacy, if not this is what will happen. I think she did not agree for the advancement of the boy hence this happened, I feel very sorry, GIRLS PLEASE BE CAREFUL>

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Stany D'sa, Balehonnur/Dubai

Girls go out of the way and end up like this.Look like rape and murder case.

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Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

Mangalore guys are great story writers.....

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Rudolf Rodrigues, Mangalore/Mumbai

Edward Maben bro, most of the important things were actually invented in ancient India, but robbed from us by force and deceit by the foreigners!! Just an example father of surgery "Sushruta" was from India, then think about great people like Srinivasa Ramanujan, Rabindranath Tagore, Aryabhata, Ramakrishna Paramhansa and scores of scholars like him who went unsung!!! Who gave the world "shunya"!! Think about the Vijaynagar empire!!!! Only thing is over the years that entire history of our "great people" has gotten erased from our history books and not accessible to our newer generations!!! Why when you salute Google do not talk that Sanskrit is a very natural and most easy language for programming!!!!

And last but not the least, India is the most tolerant country in the entire world!!!

It is a different thing that we did not have the development other countries had, but our past heritage is too great for anybody to challenge!!!

Jai Hind!!!

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koraga, mangalore

Indians always boast about past and blame foreigners.What about present? In the past if they were so strong and intelligent how foreigners dare to invade.How Indians acquired slave mentality. Why they accept as third world. Few years back they used to III class pass also third class train travel etc etc

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Anup, Mangalore

Very well said Mr. Rudolf. Like the scientist Albert Einstein said "We owe a lot to the Indians, who taught us how to count, without which no worthwhile scientific discovery could have been made."

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JN, Bejai

@Rudolf Rodrigues, Mangalore/Mumbai,....
It reminds me one of the prestigious invention by India 7 centuries ago..
a) America dug a 100 meter deep well and found copper wire and said we invented wires 250 years ago.
b)Russia dug similar 200 meter well and found a copper wire and said we invented wire 350 years ago.
c)China dug a well 300 meters deep and found the similar wire and said they invented 450 years ago.
d) India told above all dig a well in India and after digging 600 meter no wire found.
you know what Indians answered we were 'WIRE LESS' 700 hundred years before.

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Sanjay A, Udupi

Rakesh shetty
why your anger against mobile phones?
Did anywhere mention about the cause of her death due to mobile phones?

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anil, udupi

what is the reason all people are giving ridiculous reply to mahan rakesh. First let us know what he is speaking and he knows the meaning.

What is the reason of fatal death , please investigate police fast so that the poor girl get justice!!!

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Edward C Maben, Mangalore/Bangalore

Dear Anil Thomas & others who reply to Rakesh Shetty, please don't waste your precious time replying or commenting on whatever he says. His replies are always like that of a frog in a well. Always cribbing western culture western culture. Hongkong was returned back from British rule in 1997. Look at the amount of development that country has achieved under their rule. Look at their infrastructure. Look at the roads. What did our morons including the congress, BJP, JD, who ruled us do in the last 60 odd years. Stop blaming the western culture or a particular party, speak as a Indian. The amount of fuel we use, needs crude oil imported from other countries. Every country needs each other to survive and sustain a ever growing populations.

Today the amount of weapons we have 90% imported from the west, Middle East & EU. There are so many medical break through which is saving life in India. The light bulb was (if you went to school) was invented by the west. The radio, the xray, etc etc. I am sure you may have traveled between Udupi or Manipal, in Volvo bus which came from the west too. If you own a two wheeler, or a car that too is a western technology. Now if you want to know more what the west has done, please Google. Oh I forgot, even Google is western. Boss come out of your slumber. Yenkle illadha vodu thornaga, kudoryana vodu repairi ponda yencha. We are all Indians, let us set our house right first, then speak about west. A closing revelation if you wear under garments. It was invented in Utica, New York, and patented in 1868.

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Pradeep, Mangalore

Glen, I like it. Thanks a lot for your cut through reply. Hope everybody will understand the suituation and live according to it. Not sure why these are blaming western culture. In today's world most of them are educate or they will get the same through one or another media and everybody is capable enough to think in right way.

Hats off you...

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JN, Bejai

Nobody in politics regrating using foreign made cars in India.
Why can't they still use 'Ambassador or premier Padmini'???

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ANIL THOMAS DSILVA, MANGALORE-ADYAR-AFGANISTAN

Mr Rakesh,,, if u think that western culture changes every thing n this insident happened coz of western culture then u r a big foolish,, u should wear DHOTI N KURTA, not jeans pants n branded shirts, and if u r a smoker then smooke beedi instead of cigarate,,

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Rudolf Rodrigues, Mangalore/Mumbai

Yep Glenn I totally agree with your extended views!! Also, unlike earlier times, due to very good nutrition and the various hormonal and other additives added to the fast foods that most children consume, they mature very fast, sometimes as early as 11 and due to the sudden surge of hormones they are totally confused, and this is the time the child be taken into confidence and made aware of the dangers lurking around, about the good touch/bad touch!! Moreover, parents should have a very friendly approach so the child confides most of his adventures to the parents and in this way, even if it is trapped in a bad incident, she will definitely confide this with her parents so that some solution can be found and a young life saved at the nick of time!! The olden days of rebuking the children, caning them no longer yield on the contrary are highly unproductive!!

Even if one were to control internet in the house, they will do it outside in a cyber or at a friends place, so awareness and only awareness is the solution to this problem!!

It is an irony that we all have passed through the same turbulent phase as teenagers, but forget about it when handling a child confused about lust and love and invariably reprimand him/her and condemn her, which can lead to very bad result!!

Secondly somebody saying that in God Fearing families such things do not happen and it occurs elsewhere, there are so many so called God Fearing Families who have faced the worst of situations, and children born in utterly poor families with uneducated parents and alcoholic fathers have maintained their cool, grown up with their own wisdom and come up in life!!

Balance is the key to any area of life, which on the face of it sounds easy, but very very difficult to practice!!
Jai Hind!!

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Glenn, Mangalore/Kuwait

Dear Rudolf excellent write up.I have nothing to say more.But as a respect to womanhood I wish to quote a good message I received from my friend.

"You can feel her care in form of a sister"
"You can feel her warmth in form of a friend"
"You can feel her dedication in form of wife"
"You can feel her devinity in form of a mother"
"You can feel her blessings in form of a grandmother"
She is WOMAN.She is LIFE.

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Rosario Fernandes, kallianpur

Rudolf & Glenn: Instead of commenting on the subject, you guys landed into kavita competition. Very good.

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Amin Bhoja, Patte / Riyadh

A mis-adventure,youths and their premature minds.
'May her soul rest in peace'

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K. S. Mayya, Mangalore/Bangalore

Let me try to win over you with following facts about mobile and how it is eastern technology although not culture:
1. Foxconn manufactures all the phones of Apple in China
2. All phones sold by Samsung are manufactured in Asia (India included).
3. Semiconductor chips, displays or you name it, in your telephone is manufactured in Asia.
And now regarding western culture.
The big difference between Western and our "current" Indian culture is westerns do not take anything at face value. They try to reason, understand and at the least ask the question "why?". We on the other hand accept anything told to us. God forbid, if it is associated with our culture and identity we accept it at face value and even vouch for it without even trying to understand it.

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Kamal Taiyyeb, Mangalore

WHATEVER BAD HAPPENS THESE DAYS SOME PEOPLE SIMPLY BLAME IT ON MOBILE PHONES, WESTERN CULTURE AND RULING POLITICAL PARTY OTHER THAN WHO OR WHAT IS ACTUALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR THE TRAGEDY. THIS IS REALLY REDICULOUS. MATURE, REASONABLE AND RESPONSIBLE COMMENTS ARE WHAT WE NEED HERE.

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Vasant Raj, Mangalore / Abudhabi

Very sad end to such a beautiful girl. RIP.

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K. S. Mayya, Mangalore/Bangalore

Price paid by an innocent girl for the rules set by the gender biased soceity.
1. You need to have good character atleast appear to pocess if not actually have it.
2. Monogamy (for women only) and leading a puritan life.
3. Any relation without blessings from parents is unholy.
4. Until unmarried dependency on parents and once married dependency on husband. Idea of independent (barring few educated and effluent family women) thinking women is still that everyone profess but hardly accept if practised.
I hope our youngsters will get quality education that could guide them to think right as well as take pride in oneself.

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rahil, Mangalore

We as parents neeed to change along with the time. Its time for Parents to be bit open with their children and speak to them about sex and love affairs and to educate them from certain age level and make them understand what is good and what is bad on short and long term of the life.

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R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

Glenn Sir
Again today I bow before you.However
one thing again...'Predator sets Honey trap'... How he has 'Honey'
with him aa? Only Honey can set 'Honey Trap'...Can you lure 'Honey with Honey'? tell me....? To lure Honey you must have Money...Got it?
Bit confusing but many here will understand all Honey Money people....!

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Glenn, Mangalore/Kuwait

Bhandarkar Sir thanks for your comments.I agree that I do not have writing skills as good as you but my intention is to share some thoughts on core issues."Honey trap" a word used by me with a meaning that a strategy whereby an attractive person coerces another person(Girl) into doing or revealing something.I admire your simplicity and sense of humour.Keep writing sir.

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JEM, Mangalore/UAE

WHAT A JOKE!!

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Asha RaM, Bajpe . Bahrain

Really missing our dearest former HM Ashok very much. When he was HM very few cases now it's too much .god save karnataka
Asha RaM

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Glenn, Mangalore/Kuwait

Dear Rudolf I agree with you.Further to your comment I wish to add few points.It is shocking to know that many young girls commiting suicide due to sexual abuse and blackmail.Everything looks fancy in the beginning as if love birds in a bollywood movie.Predator sets honey trap in such a way that the girl becomes easy prey for his lust.The act is recorded using mobile.Then, there will be continuous blackmail for more gratification.Victim will have only two options.Either to fight back or to end life.Most of the cases ends with option two.As you said,how cruel is the world outside our home.Only solution is awareness to teenagers.Most importantly we have to communicate with teenagers in our family as our friends specialy on this topic.I knew plenty such instances and I feel let every parent aware of it.

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Agnel, Udupi

Better to find out first she was friendly with a boy is alive or missing. May be through him only get the answer.

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Dev Sagar, Mangalore

Dear Mr. Rakesh shetty, mangalore - if you think this is due to mobile phones and western culture you can go back in history and start living in the past!!!

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SUNIL PRABHU , MUMBAI

Few days ago i read an article in udayavani that 13 years girl delivered baby boy. Her uncle was the culprit . This is also western culture mr shetty . In western countries you never hear rape . For a sake of commenting do not comment and waste your time

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Muneer,

Muneer, Jeddah

Very sad news,

Please respect Womans for god sake

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ARUN S., UDUPI

Rakesh shetty,Hope and wish in your house no one using mOBILE PHONE AND WESTERN CULTURE.

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Rudolf Rodrigues, Mangalore/Mumbai

May her soul RIP!!

Teenagers do not understand that the intense physical attractions due to the flush of hormones creating a big emotional termoil are only temporary and always end in tragedies thanks to the various soap operas being telecast day and night on all the channels, flood of negative news in media, open access to hardcore porn, and the instantaneous communications with mobiles/internet!!

These young formative minds having absolutely no idea of the 'cruel' world outside their houses fall prey to promises, gifts, and pseudo amor showered by their love friend!!

The only way out is to put awareness in their brains, maintain a friend approach so they divulge most of their feelings to their friends and keep constant track on their movements through close friends!!

Only increased awareness, spirituality, and Gods grace can save parents of their wards meeting such tragic ends!! Jai Hind!!

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Noel, Neermarga, Mangalore

Why are u blaming Western culture and using western language (to express your anger) Do not blame something for nothing. India is great but Indian’s mentality is sick.

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avith, shamboor

its very bad news..looks like D.K district getting worst..

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Yamby, Qatar / Mangalore

Very sad. RIP

May God save innocent lives

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Rakesh shetty, mangalore

MAIN REASON FOR THIS: EFFECT OF MOBILE PHONES AND WESTERN CULTURE.

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alvin, miyar/Dublin

@Rakesh Shetty
Can we follow Eastern culture ?
Explain to me what is our culture ,what according to you is our culture?

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BP, Kuwait

@ Rakesh you r not using mobile phone????? n which culture u r following ?

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Krishna Kant, Mangalore/Moodbidri

Rakesh u are one of the dumbest person on earth... i am curious if you are using mobile and wearing shirt pant...

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Rita, Germany

@Mr.R.shetty,to which School you went?and what did you study there?Sorry,you Need some lessons regarding western and Indian culture .No one knows what happened to the Girl.whether she was trespassed by the others or a riksha went wrong way like in Manipal,we dont know .Thatswhy dont comment anything rubbish.For a Girl there are always danger nowadays apart from her character. It is a pity that her Family should hear allthese rubbish comments in their greviness and a Young Girl lost her life.may her Soul rest in peace.

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dsouza, mangalore

o god what is going on this world.must be need perfect law, need to secure women.

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arunbolar,

Rip...

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Edward C Maben, Mangalore/Bangalore

A budding life taken away, right from our midst, right as parents watched with hopes bright. Her choice or not, nor her deed or God knows what, there she lies, lifeless, never to come back again. Many a tears she leaves behind, and many anxious souls, oh dear parents, take heart,..for she now resides closely warmed with Gods own soul...May she rest in peace!!!

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Glenn, Mangalore/Kuwait

It is known fact that in teen age love affairs girls are vulnerable to exploitations.Usually young girls fall for bad guys and the irony is most of their hero's are professional cheaters.This trend is going on and on right from Rajesh Khanna era to the present day.We have to educate every teenager about abuses.Pray for departed soul.

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R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

Something's fishy....
Loss of a very precious and lovely life....Why do teenager's do this?
Life has so much to offer only if you have the will to live and fight.

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Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

Untimely and sorrowful incident.

Whatever the cause, death has overtaken the life of a teenager.

May her soul rest in peace.

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Rosario Fernandes, Kallianpur

Sad news. May her soul R.I.P.
OMG.!!It is dangerous to be friendly with a teen age girl.?
You have to face unavoidable circumstances. Better stay away.

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Najeeb, Bangalore

STOP this menance of female abuse.

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ANIL THOMAS DSILVA, ADYAR-MANGALORE-AFGANISTAN

sorry to hear on the loose of a teenaged girl, may ur soul rest in peace baby,

hope police wil do the best investigation on this case,,

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For Justice, Abu Dhabi / Ubar

Sorry to hear this news.

Getting Madan into police custody will/may expose the truth.

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