I look after mother, still everyone blames me - Ranu Mondal's daughter


Mumbai, Sep 2 (IANS): Internet singing sensation Ranu Mondal's estranged daughter Elizabeth Sathi Roy, claims that she didn't know her mother used to sing on the platform of Ranaghat railway station, because she could not visit her mother regularly. Sathi added that, contrary to reports that she reunited with her mother only after the latter courted overnight fame, the two of them were always in touch.

"I didn't know that ma used to sing at the railway station because I could not visit ma regularly. I had been to Dharmatala (in Kolkata) a couple of months ago and found her sitting aimlessly at a bus stand. I told her to go home immediately and gave her Rs 200," Sathi told IANS.

Sathi now faces public flak for deserting her mother in a helpless condition, and she says many have been blaming her for negligence, although she is the only one among Ranu's four children who has been taking care of their mother.

"I used to send her Rs 500 as and when possible using an uncle's account. I am a divorcee and run a small grocery shop in Suri (a small town in Birbhum district), where I stay. I am a single mother looking after my younger son, so I have my own struggles. Still, I try to look after ma as much as I can. I tried to get her to stay with us several times, but my mother does not want to stay with us. Despite this, people are blaming me. The public is against me. Who do I go to now?" said Sathi.

Revealing about Ranu's three other children from her two marriages, Sathi, daughter from Ranu's first husband, shared: "My father passed away a few years back. Ma's kids from her second husband probably stay in Mumbai now, though I am not sure. Her second husband is still alive. I am her first husband's daughter, and I have an elder brother and a half-brother and half-sister. We are not in touch with each other. Why don't the other kids take responsibility of ma? Why is nobody is blaming them? I want them to come forward and take care of ma along with me."

Sathi revealed that she has spent her childhood in Mumbai, where she studied at Juhu's St Joseph's High School. However, she got married soon after their family shifted to Kolkata and, hence, it was difficult to visit her mother regularly. She said: "After coming back to Kolkata, I was married off within a year. My husband and I used to stay in a joint family, so I couldn't bring ma to stay with us. Despite that, I have tried to support ma in whatever way I could. I would take food and money for her every time I went to meet her. Soon after that, my husband and I shifted to Suri. Ma has visited me a few times at Suri but she does not want to stay with us permanently and I cannot force her. Maybe I couldn't stay with ma, but I have taken care of her as much as I could."

Today, Sathi is a single mother who runs a small grocery shop in Suri and looks after her four-year-old son. Her elder son, aged nine, stays with her former husband. She blames the members of Ranaghat's Amra Shobai Shoitaan club, who are looking after her mother, for not letting her get in touch with Ranu and also accuses them of threatening her.

"It feels like as if Atindra and Tapan (club members) are my mother's own sons. They, and other members of the club, have threatened to break my leg and throw me out if I try to get in touch with my mother. They don't let me talk to ma even over the phone. Also, they are brainwashing ma against me. I feel helpless. I don't know what should I do. I am not taking any drastic step because that will create an impact on my mother, and she will not be able to concentrate on her music and recordings. She is mentally imbalanced and, on top of that, the media is annoying her," said Sathi.

Ranu Mondal used to sing at Ranaghat railway station and shot to fame after a video of her singing Lata Mangeshkar's soulful number "Ek pyaar ka nagma hai" was uploaded on social media by Atindra Chakraborty and Tapan Das of Ranaghat's Amra Shobai Shoitan club. Accusing the club members of misusing Ranu's money, her daughter further said: "Tapan and Atindra want fame, so they have sidelined me. They are pretending to be selfless but they are not. Why are they accompanying ma to Mumbai, leaving behind their family and work? They did not let me accompany ma to Mumbai. Tapan takes money from my mother in the pretext of buying goods for her daily use. But, when I went to her place, I discovered that she doesn't even have basic utensils like a dish or a cup. They have taken Rs 10,000 from ma's account and bought only a suitcase and a couple of nighties for her. I don't trust them at all."

Sathi is waiting for her mother to return from Mumbai and now wants to take her back again. "Even though everybody is blaming me, I will continue to support ma. I will request ma to come and stay with me in Suri, but I will never force her. If she decides to shift to Mumbai, I will go and stay with her along with my son. I love her. She has been through a lot in life and is finally getting recognition for her godgifted voice. I am proud to be her daughter," Sathi concluded.

  

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  • aysha suverna, udupi - doha

    Tue, Sep 03 2019

    Regarding Ranu Mondal.... everyone blaming her daughter... once side its true need to blame her... another side its wrong need to blame her other childern... bse each childeren she kept in stomach 9month ... and struggle to grow up them... this all people never think about mother she alived or not... thier duty to search her .. if she drepression (as daughter word) there is lot of hospital they can treat her that time... how drepression lady will became a singer... noway... everybody use her good nature ... silent ... we can see her nature how.. much she is good... This daughter telling one one time one one story... anyway mother is mother ..daughter is daughter ..we are outsider .. we cant talk anything ..just we can give her support in her singing ... god need to be give more and more to her bse she struggled without food ..without love ..without childern ... i pray with god for her.. its one big lession to every mother ... if there is money all will be arround ..if no street only her property... i am heartly giving thanks for that two guy who make
    her life meaningfull... even my big big thanks to Hemesh sir and to Salman sir...whatever thy did for her.... god bless them always .... Randu Mandal need to decide wht she want to do... BUT MOTHER HEART ALWAYS VERY BIG FOR CHILDREN IF THEY DO ANY MISTAKE....THAT IS GOD GIFT.......... GOD BLESS HER.

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  • Gangaram, Moodbidri

    Tue, Sep 03 2019

    Who am I to judge her or anyone......

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  • Bhoja, Jeppu

    Tue, Sep 03 2019

    There are many talented singers who are like Mondal and need some help to shine to rise.Once they see stardom their families reunite and tell these kind of stories..then they make a film out of it and again make profit.

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  • HARISH, MANGALORE

    Tue, Sep 03 2019

    YE SABB PAISSA,,,, PAISSA DEDO MAJA DEKO

    PAISSA NAHI ,,, BACHI GAYAAB...

    PAISSA AGAYA ,,,,,,, BACHI ,,, AGAYEEE

    YE HEE HAY DUNIYAAA.....

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  • Santan Mascarenhas, Kinnigoli/Mumbai

    Tue, Sep 03 2019

    Following is the slow and steadily changing scenario today.

    "Dear sir, I am calling from old age home
    We saw your advertisement of missing dog
    Your dog has come here's and playing with your mother"

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  • Santan Mascarenhas, Kinnigoli/Mumbai

    Tue, Sep 03 2019

    Typing mistake. Read as here.

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  • Vishu, Udupi

    Tue, Sep 03 2019

    Whatever...

    Ek pyar ka nagma hai.
    Moujon ki ravaani hai.
    Zindagi aur kuch bhi nahin.
    Teri meri kahani hai.

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  • Shan, Mlr

    Tue, Sep 03 2019

    Mom is mom childrens may play different role paisa come n go Paradise lies under moms feet

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  • Thomas Andrade, Toronto

    Tue, Sep 03 2019

    The saying in Kannada “ಹಣ ಕಂಡರೆ ಹೆಣ ಬಾಯೀ ಬಿಡುತ್ತದೆ“ is very much true. This applies even to close relatives like children. If Ranu’s children had taken care of her well which was expected from them, she would not have had such pathetic condition. Anyway, whatever happened, happened for good. I just foresee to listen to her melodious songs.

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  • D Souza, Mangalore

    Tue, Sep 03 2019

    Please do not judge people without knowing anything.

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  • Nawaz, Udupi/ Kuwait

    Tue, Sep 03 2019

    It is so sad that Srimanji has not formulated any law that prescribes the jail term for the son for not taking care of mother. He could have thought pakoda making in the jail term to look after his mother in the future at least. Why nobody is adopting the great ideas of Srimnaji? Every one has become so lazy it seems.

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  • Nawaz, Udupi/ Kuwait

    Tue, Sep 03 2019

    When Ranu Mondal herself refused to stay with her daughter, how can any of the commentators blame her daughter when the latter also seems to be very poor and divorcee with the responsibility to look after her son. Let us not waste our time to unnecessarily blame someone and involve in the personal matter of mother and the daughter. Of course mother knows the best what is in the best interest of herself and her daughter and the grandson.

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  • Rahul, Mangalore

    Tue, Sep 03 2019

    Maa ka dil samundar hai hai.
    Parents never complained about their childrens although this daughter is lying now.

    50% to 60% of the daughter or sisters intention is to loot their parents or their brothers after their marriage to fill their homes although all the cost of their marriage is burdened either their parents or their brothers.

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  • Jrome, Mangaluru

    Tue, Sep 03 2019

    Not necessarily...these days atleast so many of the girls finance their own marriage...

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Nashville

    Tue, Sep 03 2019

    Why did she have to sing on Railway Stations ...

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  • Jrome, Mangaluru

    Tue, Sep 03 2019

    If she was not to sing on the railway station platform - i dont think her talent wud have been discovered...inspite of her proximity to bollywood - her husband worked as a cook at Firoz Khan residence

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  • I wish I was There, Bahrain

    Mon, Sep 02 2019

    We should stop judging other people,

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  • prem, moodbidri

    Mon, Sep 02 2019

    There are always 2 versions of any story. Since Ranu Modal became a celebrity overnight, media is giving more weightage to her. Who knows, maybe her daughter is right at her end!!!

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  • Mahesh rao, Bangalore

    Mon, Sep 02 2019

    Hello whatever it is we have no right to argue or judge about ranu mandal or about her daughter. god has seen her strugggling and changed her life.














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  • Deepak DCunha, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Mon, Sep 02 2019

    Success is relative - the more success, the more relatives....

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  • Rayan Miranda, Mangalore

    Mon, Sep 02 2019

    Let her mother give in writing that her property belong to an orphanage. Let's see then whether her daughter still wants to take care.
    Actually very few know the real story, but for many what media writes is the truth.

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  • YOGI THUNTA, MANGALURU - NEAR PUMPWELL CIRCLE

    Mon, Sep 02 2019

    As we are proved to be emotional fools on earth ! this is a similar case ! The children who let her on the bus stations to sing to earn money but they didnt realized her talent ! Oh Gosh ! Now she got the flat in Mumbai and over the night rich obviously relations are there to grab the opportunity ! People surprised no need to ! this is the TRUTH

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  • Cynthia, Kirem

    Mon, Sep 02 2019

    Where was she all those years... Where was she when mother was on streets... Now name, fame, bungalow, money speak love and taking care of that mother who was weak and lonely some days back... She cannot pay f

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  • Deshbhakht, Mangalore

    Mon, Sep 02 2019

    Those two men may be using Rano to earn and give them because she is famous because of them. Pathetic, that she is new to the fame and may not know to manage her wealth.

    Some day she might wish she continued singing on the railway platform.

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  • Charles D'Mello, Pangala

    Mon, Sep 02 2019

    Let Ranu Mondal decide who she has to be with..???? None other than Ranu can decide this. Who knows what is the connection between mother and daughter....!!!

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  • Kiran Dsouza, Mangalore

    Mon, Sep 02 2019

    Daughter is a Daughter to the mother either poor or rich, but Daughters never abandon their mother for 10 years even if in a difficult to difficult situation. This daughter arriving at this moment to claim her mothers wealth is not proper at all....Nobody, no society will accept.
    All the credit must & should go to the boys who clicked the video of her singing at station & making her a overnight internet sensation, make her life better.

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  • Fernandes, Mangalore

    Tue, Sep 03 2019

    Dear Kiran D'souza, Quote:"....... Daughters never abandon their mother........" unquote: why there are mushroom like old age homes are raising each and every nook corner of our society?

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  • Gireesh, Talpady

    Mon, Sep 02 2019

    May be daughter is fed-up of running small grocery shop. Now she wants to shift back to mumbai to her mother's flat given by salman khan. As mother is having singing assignment money will flow from all end. If name and fame is there of mother..why should daughter struggle in kolkatta. After her mother said flat will obtain to daughter itself. We do not know actual story who's what.

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  • Sunil Fernandes, Mangalore

    Mon, Sep 02 2019

    Please don't trust any social media..... Salman khan has given to her Babaji ka thullu......she doesn't have any wealth.

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