Unhappy over marriage alliance,bride-to-be commits suicide


Daijiworld Media Network - Puttur (SP)

Puttur, Feb 13: Novita (23) from Bandaru Moortaje near Uppinangady committed suicide by consuming poison.

Her marriage preparations were under way. It is gathered that she was not happy with the groom her parents had chosen for her.

Novita was the daughter of Soorappa Poojary, and it is said that the parents insisted on going ahead with the marriage plans with the boy of their choice. Frustrated by these developments, the girl consumed poison at home on February 11 morning.

She was in serious condition when she was taken to a hospital in Puttur. On Thursday, she breathed her last without responding to treatments.

A report was filed in Uppinangady police station relating to this incident.

  

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  • Ashwin, SuratKal

    Fri, Feb 13 2015

    Sad incident but lessons should be learned from this.
    1. As someone said it before marriage is a bond between 2 people and the choice should be left to them. Family including parents should just smile and give blessings to them. It is they who live and if there is any problem later it is them who will suffer, not the marriage broker.
    2. Muthalik and BD keep telling that they will tie the knots for the couple who are sitting in the park (brings parents too) It is again that those 2 who decides whether we are going to marry or discontinue (may be realising that it is not going to work on long run)and when to marry. Even to take this decision they have to sit together and talk.. sitting in the park together does not mean they have to get married.
    3. people should not care too much about religion. If 2 people who belongs to different religion, let them decide how they are going to manage that not BD/SRS goondas.

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  • Rita, Germany

    Fri, Feb 13 2015

    So sorry,and sad.why did she make parents to understand or say she is not going to marry the fellow they had Chosen?she could have bold enough to resist.It is high time when bride or groom make their choice and want to marry of own.Better for both sides.Love for their own children doesn't take any harm through this.Both will be happy .Even when they are not happy with their choice,it was their decision.Now parents will be life Long to cry and repent,.but doesn't help now.Heartfelt sympathy to them.May her Soul rest in peace.

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  • Ronald, Mangalore

    Fri, Feb 13 2015

    Some parents feel their choice or decision is always right for force that on daughter or son. She is not a child any more and it is the decision of her life. Don't understand why parents need to force her.

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  • Amin Bhoja, Patte / Riyadh

    Fri, Feb 13 2015

    It is the WhatsApp Age.Parents should take extra care while dealing like this sensitive issues!!!Feels sorry to the Family.

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  • Joe Gonsalves, Mangalore

    Fri, Feb 13 2015

    Here is a case of a marriage alliance - perhaps under pressure by the parents.

    Here is a lesson for others. Marriage is a sacred and a permanent contract and no one should pressurize any party to get married forcibly. It is sad that a young lady has ended her life. This is a lesson which all parents should make a serious note of.

    Joe Gonsalves

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  • C. D'Souza., Kulooru Mangaluru

    Fri, Feb 13 2015

    A LOT OF CARE IS NOT ENOUGH. SUICIDE IS A SERIOUS THING. NO ONE SHOULD BE IN PAIN.YOU NEED TO GET THEM HELP. EVERYONE SHOULD LOVE THEM SELF. IN THE END ONE NEEDS MORE COURAGE TO LIVE. SORRY FOR HER. AND TO LIVE IS AN ACT OF COURAGE.

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  • A.M Shaikh, Dubai, Belapu, Kaup

    Fri, Feb 13 2015

    Absolutely parents mistake
    Police investigation is not solution for the society. Need some more 'SANSKAAR'.

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