sunita lobo, abu dhabi

What kind of a mother, brother, sister and father can abandon their own offspring. Did the mother not think what could have happened to her daughter had she been found by some perverts. How could the young lady defend herself in her state of mind. Thank God and thank the noble ones who found her before anything unfortunate happened. A woman is not safe anywhere in the world today let alone a mentally disturbed one. I dread to think what could have happened to her had she been found by any anti-social elements. How do people sleep or look into the mirror after such an act.

 I think the family should be held responsible for this grave act of carelessness, fine them heavily, socially boycott them. Nobody goes to a mental institution on the spur of the moment and admits a patient, reservations need to be made in advance, a good level of correspondence is initiated and only then is the admission done, but here I don’t think anything like this was done. I can also imagine what kind of abuse she has faced in her 25 years at her own house.

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Rohan Pinto, Mangalore

Feel bad for Shaila who deserted in the middle of the road by her own parents,
Sorry sister, your parents no better than evils they forgot that they lost a precious gem from their richness
she is just mentally ill, She could have been better if she treated properly by her family
Thanks to humanity who helped her timely and to SEON for promising her life and shelter.

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Rita, Germany

I am shocked and find no words to express my thoughts.Leaving back a mental ill Girl at busstand !we all know what can happen to a lonely Girl even in Company .we had so many examples.And These Family members giving a lapidar excuse saying no place and leave simply to roam about and go home.I wish such Person one day to leave there without any Cent or house .Horrible.How did others found a place and before bringing someone to admit in Ashram,usually inform about it and after having a seat bring the Person.Their excuse will nobody believe.Poor Girl who knows what she suffered till then.Even a house pet goes out of house,people go searching.whereas here,they went home and calmly enjoyed most probably for their done Job .God open your eyes and enlighten them.

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Sir Lancelot, Manglore

Thousand of blessings to Social workers for getting her in Seon Ashram.

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Anita Prabhu, M'lore/Canada

Mohammed Riyaz, Udupi What nonsense are you talking man? When and where the Western culture asking you to abandon any mentally ill family person ?? in fact western countries are the one giving refugee status to brothers/sisters from Afghan/Iraq/Syria etc !!
The most beggars/mentally ill people/cows/dogs are abandoned and can seen on INDIAN STREETS MAN!!

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Mohammed Naveed Khan, Mangalore/Oman

Anita.P... Ua talking nonsense, not riyaz...wat he said z 200% true... For Syrians n Iraqian dey get sheller from their on brotherhood countries...But All western countries r depended on Gulf countries For (Rozi roti)n shaltterd here for better life which dey dont get in their own countries... Come to GCC countries n see...ua own sis's n bro's (Catholic) sheltered here to live peaceful life..

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Abdul Salam, Mangalore/Doha

How can the family do this?.its really shocking. i think we as human lost humanity within ourselves. god will never forgive these kind of acts. we are all creature od god whom call in different names because of our different faith. bu definitely their is power who has created us and this world. we all will be going back to him. we will be punished in one way or the other when we are alive and will be hell once we go back his feet. i curse this family who has deserted this innocent women. Local administration has taken a good move. she needs to be rehabilitated as she is human being who is still alive and can feel the pain. punish the family who has brought to he this stage.

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Hubert D'souza, Mangalore Dubai

Rich people cannot enter gods KINGDOM, IS IT TRUE???????

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shailaji, chethan john madtha

Her family members Wil pay for their act...each and every bit they need to pay...

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Joseph F. Gonsalves, Bannur, Puttur / Mangalore

Rationale minded man abandons his own rationale wife.

Remained abandoned mentally ill girl at bus stand this case: God help them and mental girl.

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Mohammad Iqbal, Mangalore

Inhumanity at best. How they can sleep peacefully when one of their own left in the middle of nowhere? Socially boycott this family from Chickamagalore. Hats off to all those who involved provided support to young lady safe

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Nithin, Mangalore

Sue this family for inhumanity . People don't understand God gave you the family its every one's jib is to protect the family . You live and die for god gave family . Money you will not take after you dead . most important in life is FAMILY tear a prat this family they are not human's and they are evils . KEEP ON THING ALWAYS IN MIND NEVER NEVER LEAVE YOUR FAMILY MEMBER LIKE THIS GOD WILL NEVER FORGIVE YOU FOR THIS .you should be rich in heart not through money.Hum insan hai insan banke raho us kuda se daro jinhone insan ko banaya oose ke kehar se daro insan ho tho insano se mohabath karo. .I like thank all the people who supprted her .God will always remeber the people who leave in a way what he told us.

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taurojohn, mangalore/malad

That is not family.family can not do this. They must be evils.Thank God for local social activist and other supporters.

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mangalorean, mangalore

it not lack of space it is lack of funds, you pay u get accommodation

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JSaheb,

We have sufficient Goshalas..not Ashram for human being.. height of ignorance and idiotic drudgery

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Jossey Saldanha, Mapusa

Family values have gone to the DOGS...

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Shekh M, Mangalore

Its our great Indian family culture. Sorry I am not saying Sanghees always boasting on the stages

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Deepak, Bajpe / Muscat

Great work done by Seon Ashram. Its Managing Trustee Mr.Paulose dose a great job by looking after lot of poor and specially mentally ill people. When he came to Muscat for collection, he told us that there are 285 inmates in the ashram. Lets all be generous and help Mr.Paulose to do this good work of taking care of mentally sick people.

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rajdeep, mangalore

can someone give the address of the Seon Ashram so that i can help them for the good work they are doing.

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John Tauro, M'lore / Kwt

Mr. Rajdeep, Mangalore,
Here is the email address: seonashram@yahoo.co.in & Contact Nos.: 08256-235228 / 208122.

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rajdeep, mangalore

THANKS A LOT MR John Tauro, M'lore / Kwt

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Mohammed Riyaz, Udupi

This much Inhumanity people keeps in their heart. I cant believe this happens in India. The country which love each other without noticing cast culture and color. Now a days people are attracting towards Western cultures, which encourage them to do some this kind of shameless acts. What is Rich family. They are not rich they are so poor. Money does not makes rich to a person or family. The loving heart only makes rich. The family should bring to that Ashram and let them live for some time.

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Stany Lobo, UDUPI/Dubai

How any family members can sleep in the night when they have abandoned their own blood in the midst of vultures. People should boycott the family socially.

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Valerian Dsouza, Udupi/Mumbai

Oh God, these incidents reminds us the great sacrifice some good people are doing at ORPHANAGES, OLD AGE HOMES, HOSPITALS etc.
They take care of those whom even family members have abandoned!
They are true signs of living God's presence through their work. They take care of most neglected sections of the society.
They are doing it not for themselves but to glorify the name of God.

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Henry misquith, Bahrain

The family who are responsible for this should be severely punished. When they can think of there pleasure.

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Shekar Moily Padebettu, Udupi/India

In the present situation everybody in the society want to live comfortably and do not want to take responsibility of taking care of their own kith and kin,whether it is rich family or poor.Every body want to live of course comfortable life.But not like this.In the case of poor it is a known fact that they can not afford for their treatment or taking care of.When it comes in case of monied,rich people,it becomes a question of prestige,status in the society and ready to put the disabled,old and sick people in the Ashrama by paying exorbitant money.But they do not want to see them anymore.It is so pity to note that now a days there is no concern for fellow human beings,kith and kins and people became so selfish centered and forgotten basic value of the life.
In olden days people were measured not by their wealth and richness but by their virtues and conduct but now the just the reverse.There was compassion,love,respect and regard among the people in the past.
Here in this case it is pity to see that mentally ill girl has been abandoned at bus stand by her own family members,How cruel it is?Are they really human beings or animals? What is the use of possessing lot of wealth,money when they cannot look after their own family member?.Will God punish,curse them or bless them for this act?.Let Almighty God grant this girl a respectable,peaceful life in the Ashram and thanks to the people who extended their humane gesture in sending her in the Ashram.Who knows the girl might have gone mental due to the torture of family members.Only thorough probe can reveal the truth.

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Vicky D, Dubai

Every one wants every thing to be normal to take a perfect picture for the facebook or show them self's to the society in perfect way.
Living with a mentally challenged people is not an easy task & will be never ending burden unless treated & cared properly. If the family feels it wont be in good interest of the family or the mentally challenged person living under the same roof then at least they can them to a ashram, where they are taken care properly.
Lets pray God almighty to bless every one with healthy child..

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Andrew L D Cunha, Mangalore

Let heaven shower blessings on those who helped Shaila when her family abandoned her.

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cagirishkk, m'lore/dxb

Can we know or is there anything wrong to in knowing the hindu cultural outfit's response/reaction..., what is their advise to the parents of this innocent girl.
Those who helped her reflect the love of heavenly almighty.

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ISMAIL.K.PERINJE, PERINJE

INHUMANITY @ PEAK...RICH FAMILY!!!!THEY ARE RICH IN MONEY ONLY NOT IN HEART OR CIVILIZATION.UTMOST CONDEMN ABLE ACT.'FAMILY KO LAHANTH HAI'

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