Kundapur: Timely help stops poverty-ridden woman from selling baby


Silvester D'Souza
Daijiworld Media Network - Kundapur

Kundapur, May 24: This is the tragic tale of a family which has not been the beneficiary of any developmental plans implemented by the government. This is the true story of a woman who fell victim to a marriage broker and was forcibly married off. When a baby girl was born to her, her husband refused to acknowledge the child as his, and frequently assaulted the wife.

Unable to bear the burden of poverty and harassment, she was on the verge of selling her baby, when timely intervention by a doctor and the assistant committioner (AC) made her change her mind.

A financially backward girl residing in Uppinakudru village of Kundapur taluk was married to a man from a different community from Uttar Kannada a couple of years ago through the assistance of a local marriage broker. She gave birth to a girl child around 8 months ago and the series of problems started then.

Her husband Lingesh works in a movie theatre as a ticket issuer and earns around Rs 4,000 per month. His wife has no income and thus he faced a financial crisis as his income was not sufficient to run the household. The girl's mother had taken loans from the hotel where she worked, but when the loans crossed limits and she was unable to pay back, the hotel stopped paying her. It became difficult to pay back the loans taken from the Dharmasthala Society too.

The girl who has completed her SSLC, has no job. They have no support from society as it was an inter-caste marriage. Unable to bear the torture by her husband, she left for her parental house six months ago, with her then two-month-old child.

Amidst these problems, the child fell ill. Luckily, well-known paediatric surgeon Dr Ranjith Hegde offered free treatment to the child. When the child fell ill again, she approached the doctor and shared her problems. She asked him to look for someone who would want to adopt the child, and said she had decided to sell her baby. Moved by her situation, the doctor approached Kundapur AC S Yogeshwar and apprised him of the situation.

Yogeshwar called the woman, her mother, and the husband for counseling and was successful in reconciling them to some extent. The AC urged the Women and Child Welfare Department to keep an eye on the mother and child to ensure their safety and security. Now the child has been admitted to Matta Hospital in Kundapur for free treatment. The locals have applauded the quick action and humanitarian gesture of the doctor and the AC.

 

  

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  • Vishwas, Kundapur

    Mon, May 26 2014

    Love you Derick! May God be with you! May people like you increase. God Bless you.

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  • Alexander Lewis, kundapur

    Sun, May 25 2014

    only comments r enough? plz help them

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  • Derick, Uppinakudru

    Sun, May 25 2014

    I am willing to help whatever possible from my side. Please provide the contact details

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  • satish shetty, karkala

    Sat, May 24 2014

    superb great job from doctors and cop., its really great

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  • moshu, mlr-ksa

    Sat, May 24 2014

    Doctor Saab, We have heard about your reputation but today your big heart proved it with SONE PE SUHAAGA.

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  • taurojohn, mangalore/malad

    Sat, May 24 2014

    Daiji thanks to you and Dr Ranjith Hegde and Kundapur AC S Yogeshwar.Its very sad to hear these stories. may God bless them all and it would have been very kind of you ,if possible to publish their a/c details so that willing people could have supported poor family.

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  • a.v.a, mlore

    Sat, May 24 2014

    This is only a temporary solution. Its better to give the child a better home through adoption through a reputed NGO.

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  • Rita, Germany

    Sun, May 25 2014

    @ a.v.a.Mangalore,do you really mean it? to give free to adapt because she is not able to Support.when a Baby/child is given away it wont be better.can happen like falling from pan into fire.many times happened .but important is mother and child will both suffer.child lack of mother which she already got used,and mother of giving away.Now there is someone who is watching and has hopes of some better living,let us hope they will have a better normal life .Thanks to the doctor who had the timely idea of stopping.Hope the woman will also get some household Job .Her husband should be taken into Task.

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  • a.v.a, mlore

    Mon, May 26 2014

    @ Rita, I wish you only know the problems of how much the poor in broken family suffer. As you said since the child and mother are now bound its not the right time. I wish some financial assistance of a substantial amount could be given to the mother to atleast give a good upbringing for the child, now that the father has disowned the child.

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  • Bryan, Bahrain

    Sat, May 24 2014

    Every life deserves a certain amount of dignity, no matter how poor or damaged the family is. And
    Dr Ranjith Hegde you have done a great job, God Bless You...

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  • Jigmig, Mangalore

    Sat, May 24 2014

    God Bless you doctor. Your actions are not only holy, your thoughts too.

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  • JSaheb,

    Sat, May 24 2014

    Thanks to Dr Ranjith Hegde . Well done sir

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  • S.M. Nawaz Kukkikatte, Dubai

    Sat, May 24 2014

    Heart touch incident, Where is those so called fundamentalist?
    Thanks to surgeon Dr Ranjith Hegde. timely help her May GOD bless you both

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  • HENRY MISQUITH, Bahrain

    Sat, May 24 2014

    How sad, tears rolled down. Still poverty is the root cause of many evils. Appreciable work by doctor & A.C.

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