Mangalore: Wife-turned-bride protests against marriage!



Daijiworld Media Network – Mangalore (SP)

Mangalore, May 13: In a marriage that was solemnized at Kateel Goddess Durgaparameshwari Temple on Sunday May 11, the bride created a scene by refusing to marry, alleging that she was being forced into marriage. 

She started shedding tears at the function, and the couple's relatives had to even cancel the order they had placed with the caterers, only to retract the cancellation later.

The couple, made up of the girl belonging to Vishwakarma family and groom from Billava community, had entered wedded life through registered marriage two years back after falling in love with each other. However, the marriage ceremony was arranged to get social recognition for their relationship on Sunday.

The bride was overwhelmed with emotions, as her relatives, who did not approve of this relationship, stayed away from the function. 

However, after the relatives of the groom succeeded in convincing her to allow the religious procedures to go on,  she relented. Thereafter, the catering firm was asked to prepare the feast. The marriage party could therefore partake in the feast with some delay.
  

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  • Sir Lancelot, Manglore

    Wed, May 14 2014

    Caste..caste....caste..
    First u r human being Boy n Girl eligible get into wedlock.
    Second both are Hindu
    Then why these worries Vishwakarma n Billava?
    Wish u both a happy married life.

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  • dza, mangalore

    Tue, May 13 2014

    Looks like the girl is in deep confusion. Maybe the girl is hurt by something regarding their married life and wants to walk out but doesn't have the guts(or support). Yeah, she has been register married , but maybe things have now changed and 2 years may have been enough for her to think and regret for having stepped into this relationship. it was a love marriage without the willingness of the family, So, maybe shes felt she wont fit in?
    Hope that people who are close to her help her out of this dilemma. Looks like the foundation of this marriage is bit shaken.

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  • Santan Mascarenhas, Kinnigoli/Mumbai

    Tue, May 13 2014


    I just happened to read an incident in Times of India where a 54 year old accountant goes to another city on business along with his 18 year old secretary. He sends an SMS to his wife. His wife who also is 54 in return sends him SMS saying that he would not find her on his return, since she also goes out with her 18 her old driver. She further adds "As an accountant you will appreciate that 18 goes into 54 many more times than 54 goes into 18". Whether this may be the reason for the bride to relent, I do not know.

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  • juliet Mascarenhas, Bejai

    Tue, May 13 2014

    3:0.My Bhandumaam is good in accounts. I will tell him to give the right answer.

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  • johnson pinto, Neerude / Bangalore

    Tue, May 13 2014

    haha.. good one

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  • Lavin Noronha, Paladka

    Tue, May 13 2014

    LOVE BANGAYA THELLAOVE

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  • Joseph F. Gonsalves, Bannur, Puttur / Mangalore

    Tue, May 13 2014

    Dear Juliet Mascarenhas, Bejai,

    I don't understand what is Old and Moderate.

    Do you mean wearing fashioned dress is modern and wearing a dress fully covered is Modern?!

    Read the Holy Bible Proverbs which were of the old. Many of the 21st century youth do not know those proverbs.

    One such proverb is: a lizard you can catch with the hand, but it gets into the palaces of the king.

    You cannot get away with the fundamental commandment honor thy father and mother.

    Any one goes behind blind love without forethought doomed to fail.

    As Lydia Lobo is right in her comment seems with experience.

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  • HENRY MISQUITH, Bahrain

    Tue, May 13 2014

    Aaye ho meri zindagi mein tum bahar banke…
    Mere dil mein yoon hi rehna… Tum pyaar pyaar banke…

    MAD(e) for each other!!!Wish you both happy & prosperous married life, Congrats!!

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  • Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Tue, May 13 2014



    The incident of Love, Registered marriage, and the bride shedding tears on formal wedding day seems to be rather confusing and after reading Julliet’s , comments, I am totally lost !

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  • juliet Mascarenhas, Bejai

    Tue, May 13 2014

    Hangamaaa!!!!!

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  • V..D..K, Mangalore / Dubai

    Tue, May 13 2014

    golden pathera!!!!

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  • V..D..K, Mangalore / Dubai

    Tue, May 13 2014

    aain how it got separate!! its a reply to Lydia Lobo, Kadri

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  • ISMAIL.K.PERINJE, PERINJE

    Tue, May 13 2014

    That was a cloud before rain. Finally, a sigh of relief for all party concerned. Congrats to newly wedded couple.

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Tue, May 13 2014

    I wish the couple happiness and a very long married life. There could be many reasons for the bride's emotional outburst but what I feel is the rejection she received from both parties could be the reason.

    It looks all green when one is in love. They want to rebel against everybody including their own parents but when practically arriving at a situation of living together, many problems come up and we find ourselves very feeble to face them. Major of them is the future of their children, having to raise them in a totally unwelcome environment.

    Its my request to today's youth, especially girls, to abide by what is social custom when you chose a life partner. Never go against your parents, they are the one who support you in all your trials and troubles. Their blessing can make stand upright against toughest terrains of life.

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  • vinay, mangalore

    Tue, May 13 2014

    Lydia mai, superb thought!!!

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  • avani, mlore

    Tue, May 13 2014

    Good thoughts I agree. However, things have changed a lot in recent times. Slowly but steadily inter cast marriages are becoming acceptable in the society. Problems come when a girl chooses a life partner who is less educated, chaali poli type and yet to settle in life. If the boy chosen by the girl, is educated and well settled then normally bride's family do not resist much. Even though they may resist initially but slowly they accept the relation and compromise on their cast egos. Same is the case with grooms family. Yes.It is true that girls have to careful in choosing their life partner. But this is only the beginning of the trend and many changes eventually may take place.

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  • juliet Mascarenhas, Bejai

    Tue, May 13 2014

    This Lydia Mai is little old fashioned you see. Not like me. I am very Mod. For me marriage means boy and girl(very strictly no boy, boy /girl, girl).You invite, I attend. DANCE? I'll be the first on floor.

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Tue, May 13 2014

    Juliet,

    Its not just boy and the girl, its their entire life thereafter. All is rosy till they get children. This is precisely because, for children, their mother is the first teacher. Imagine a mother from a different social background (let's say religion), who will teach the faith to the child ?

    Please consult any Mangalorean girl married into a different socio-cultural-religions background. The children grow up sajjige-bajil but later in the life finding a match for her/him is a herculean task. All along, the woman who abandoned her original root suffers.

    I am not just literally saying this sweety, I have a nephew who is excellent in academics, commands a noble profession but still underwent all the turmoil. Again, the unity is sajjige-bajjil.

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  • HENRY MISQUITH, Bahrain

    Tue, May 13 2014

    @ dear Juliet,

    Old fashioned, new-fashioned!!

    Maine bhi Juliet mai ke Dance ke Jatke(Madhuri ki tarah) dekhe hain ' News Karnataka' mein!!

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  • V..D..K, Mangalore / Dubai

    Tue, May 13 2014

    Lydia madam...give me a hifi if u agree..
    The whole thing is that entire human kind is a BIGGG sajjige bajil!!
    Religion ,cast , country ,black ,white , allah ,rama, yesu….etc etc etc..
    Solution is to have LOOOOT of money… no bride will cry no, no husband will get fry .
    Arthaath : dudde dodappa.. all sajjige bajil will become one BIGG .. chicken biryani if you have money!!

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