Bangalore: Former minister S A Ramdas attempts suicide


Bangalore: Former minister S A Ramdas attempts suicide

Daijiworld Media Network - Bangalore
With DHNS Inputs

Bangalore, Feb 11: In a shocking incident, former Karnataka minister S A Ramdas attempted suicide after a woman claiming to be his wife alleged that he had been harassing her.

A woman, identified as Premakumari, appeared before the media on Tuesday February 11 and claimed that she had been married to Ramdas for the past five years but he had refused to acknowledge their marriage.

She also alleged that he had cheated her and had been harassing her for the last five years. She claimed that she had been his 'unofficial' wife and that the former minister had ruined her life.

Ramdas, who was the minister for medical education in the previous BJP government, reportedly tried to commit suicide by hanging himself in a Mysore guest house he was staying in, hours after the media flashed Premakumari's claims.

He was rushed to a hospital in Mysore and reports stated that his condition was critical. He was declared out of danger by night, sources said.

Speaking to the media after the suicide attempt, Premakumari said that her intention in coming before the media was only to seek justice for the wrong done to her and not to push Ramdas to commit suicide.

Premakumari also said that before attempting suicide, Ramdas had called her on phone while she was in the press conference, and threatened to kill himself by consuming poison if she did not end the press meet.

As crowds began to swell, there was a minor altercation with demands that media persons be sent out of the hospital premises. Mahesh, BJP city unit president Maruti Rao Pawar and corporator Shivakumar intervened to prevent the situation from getting out of control.

Earlier in the day, Premakumari, a second division clerk at the deputy commissioner’s office in Tumkur, alleged at a press conference that Ramdas had “sexually and mentally harassed” her. Ramdas “used his authority as a minister to transfer her frequently”, she claimed.

Premakumari said she first met Ramdas in 2009 for a transfer from the assistant commissioner’s office in Tarikere to the DC’s office in Mysore.

Later, she was transfered to the HMT maternity hospital, Mysore on deputation, where she worked for three years. Thereafter, Premakumari said, she was transfered to the DC’s office in Mysore by the end of 2012. “Within three months, Ramdas again transferred me to Tumkur. I refused to go there, as the education of my two children would have been affected,” she added.

At the press meet, Premakumari received a phone call which she said was that of Ramdas and put the phone on the loudspeaker. The caller said, “Don’t do anything, or else I will consume poison and commit suicide.”

“Ramdas married me unofficially at his home. Now he should marry me openly and accept me as his wife,” she demanded. Premakumari said she had photographs, videos and mobile phone clippings to substantiate her allegations which would be produced before the media. She said would also make a complaint to the police.

  

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  • JNB, Bejai

    Thu, Feb 13 2014

    Who would tie the bell first.If at all legalized.
    Are you or me sacrifice our life.
    Sin is sin even if it legalized.

    Once Abortion was legal in India too, every railway station and every train compartment we used to see Doctors' advertisements only Rs.70/- etc.
    The government later realized SIN WILL NOT BECOME VERTUE even if is LEGALISED.
    Hope you will understand the societies feeling.

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  • Esther, Udyavar

    Thu, Feb 13 2014

    Its a simple case:

    She traded her body to get what she wanted (transfers) from a man with power.

    Now she is blackmailing to get more of what she wants.

    You can call her anything, but she is a....

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  • Roopa, kuwait

    Thu, Feb 13 2014

    Minister Ramdas fan who attempts suicide and he died, but minister survived, wahoo what a political drama Is it political nehnu begitha its a natak in karnatak minister

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  • William, Bantwal

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Ram Dasji you are a good politician. You played politics with women also. Now no need to worry. Simply marry her. No suicide like Veeru in Sholay picture. That is old story. Veeru was dying for love. You are dying to hate love. What a difference? Paani mein utara to tairna chahiye bhai. Best of luck.

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  • Vincent Rodrigues, Katapadi/Bangalore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Mr.Ramdas hails from a good family and he was the best minister of the earlier government too.Why he has to attempt for the coward act of suicide when the lady who is a widow so bold to call him as a husband without marriage.Teach the lady a proper lesson if she blackmails and also caution the media not to encourage this type of cases to media trial.Thanq.

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  • shaman, mangalore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    This story looks like the story created by anant nag in his movie Udbhava to teach a lesson to a politician

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  • Ethan, Florida\Mangalore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Whosoever wants to trade their body in exchange for money it is their right no one owns anyone! Prostitutes/Sex Workers are not committing crime!!, at least they will check the unwanted rapes in the society which we are suffering from also cases such as this may too will be checked as men can go and relieve themselves legally instead of resorting to rapes/ extra marital affairs whereby the family structure breaks down totally, and at least men know their transactions are legal and binding with a Prostitute/Sex Workers, but in case of affairs everything is kept secret until one party starts to think that they have been "cheated" of their " rights" have been violated, then they see what maximum harm can be inflicted to the other party (to their benefits)and they will try to do it " legally" even though so called " aggrieved" party was in total agreement as long as everything was hunky dory for 5-6 long years, probably until goose stopped laying golden eggs and then suddenly the realization strikes about “ABUSED” !! and coming to your query If a Porn actress (Sunny Leone) can get a stardom status in India what more can be said! Also now the PC (politically Correctness) calls it as a Worker so it is recognized as work in fact, there are Many NGO’s are working go this , so they will also compensate with the end of the service benefits like any other worker so many of these workers get married to good families, channel like BBC have made documentaries on such subject at least check in the you tube to get informed, if you are not aware of such intricacies I wonder what is YOUR attitude about another human being trying to make ends meet with whatever opportunity presented by the life ( but not by any external power by vested interest, but only by their free will and choice).

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  • Ap, Mlore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Lydia bai,
    Hey !
    You asked FLORIDA THAN ETHAN
    A QUESTION .
    HE HAS ANSWERED. NOW YOU PLEASE REPLY BAI.

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    AP,

    No part of his jumble of words contains an answer to my questions. I must say, the first sentence is an open display of his disrespect towards the human body (both, a man's or woman's).

    Please don't watch the farce, you continue the debate with him on my behalf.

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  • Ethan, Florida\Mangalore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Thanks AP, Mangalore!

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mapusa

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    These BJP bachelors fall for any Hema, Meghna or Prema and get exposed...

    DisAgree [13] Agree [44] Reply Report Abuse

  • Asha, Karla

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Its ok Joss the Boss
    As far as they are not Exposed !

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    1.Privately-Pose-Expose.
    Publicly: Dispose-Remorse.

    2.First -Ride Horse and then Cry Hoarse.

    1&2: Same same.....

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  • JNB, Bejai

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    This case is a twisted look like Premakumari raped Ramadasa!

    I need more legal opinions from: Jeevan,Mangalore, Dinesh,Kundapur,Nagesh Nayak,Bangalore if not missing in action and many more ABVP activities who protested in Udupi but not in Yenepoya Hospital doctor attack.

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  • jr,

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    XYZ DASA NOT DENIED RELATIONSHIP BUT JUST ATTEMPTED SUICIDE WITH ALL ARRANGEMENTS TO RESCUE HIM AND WAS FORCING KUMARI TO ACT LIKE JAYALAKSHMI.

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  • Asha, Karla

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Now since he has the experience I am sure the next govt if his will carve out a new portfolio for him...
    "Minister for deaths and Suicides."(attempted Div)

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    No Asha No...That makes it scary.
    How about:
    Minister For Holding & Leaving MFHL(Cushion Rank)

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  • Mann, bangalore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Alwyn, Mangalore

    Poor Ramdas - a bachelor boy - such a nice boy (man) did not commit any adultery or had any affair with any woman and does not have any inclination to commit and even so being a RSS man - pure brahmachari (like present days pure vegetarian restaurants!!) will never fall into temptations!!

    One thought always irked me - do these "married & left" bachelors and those who did not really get married, do they really abstain from sex\sexual thoughts\acts all their life? Do they overcome temptations throughout their life?
    When one is on "temptation" mode and a bachelor, anything they do then is immoral and against "CULTURE"!!.
    Do you really believe these are 100% bachelors and do not use their power when they are in position like Ramdas?
    His threat to end his life itself proves, he is guilty and as per law, he should be booked and imprisoned trying to commit suicide (New law on this has not yet come into effect).
    So called RSS people!!

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  • Sundeep Kunder, Mangalore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Let me remind you the FAMILY FAILURE LIFE FAILURES of Shashi Tharoor, N.D. TIWARI and Singhvi.

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  • Sudhakar, Kallianpur

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Yes Mr. Sandeep Kunder, For the sake of his love life Shashi Tharoor forced his wife to commit suicide. Some congressmen projecting here as their leaders are saints.

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  • gerald, Mangaluru

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    BHANDU MAAM YOU ARE ALWAYS NUMBER ONE IN DW SPECIALLY SPECIALLY ON WOMEN CENTRIC ISSUES !!!!! " THIS IS CONGI MUSHROOM TO TARNISH THE BJP IMAGE "

    ALL BJPWALAS ARE LOVER BOY AND SEXY BOYS

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  • Dev, Mangalore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Some doesn't know the complete story of their relationship or status.
    Here the facts from her interview-
    1. She is a widow with 2 children.
    2. Ramdas is an eligible bachelor till today.

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    'Eligible' just became 'Gullible' as the 'bubble' burst yesterday!

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  • Joseph F. Gonsalves, Bannur, Puttur / Mangalore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Theoretically, this ex-BJP minister couldn't see Porn videos in the Assembly.
    So he did it practically.

    When the news of his practicality is exposed this bjp-ex minister tried to commit suicide.

    GENERALLY BJP’S ARE GOOD IN EXPOSURES AND ARE BAD IN FAMILY FAILURE LIFE FAILURES.

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  • Vishwanath.H.G, Bangalore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Inta kachada rajakaranigalanna sumne bidabaradu.....Ramdas suicide madkoloke prayatnapattidu ondu nataka aste...

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  • Aadil Khan, Kasaragod/Saudi Arabia

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    The woman, Premakumar, is also equally guilty in the case. For four to five years she continued as his mistress and enjoyed all cream. Now, the less resources start receiving from Ramdas, she raises the issue of legalizing her relationship.

    Shame on this woman.

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Aadil Bhai....
    What is this 'Enjoy all Cream'?
    You mean 'Upar Ki Malai' like in Hindi??

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  • Aadil Khan, Kasaragod/Saudi Arabia

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    You got the point, sir.

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  • Amin Bhoja, Patte / Riyadh

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    S A Ramdas, no no Premdas and his love story, Pathi Pathni or woh Bechare!!!

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  • Ethan , Floria\Mangalore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    In my opinion Prostitution must be made legal so we can end all this unnecessary affairs and rape “sexual and mental harassment allegations also such Kind of the allegations proved wrong there should be sever punishment up to 7-10 years of rigorous imprisonment this is the only way to stop this kind of nonsense created by so called "Educated Women" by the help of Scrupulous lawyers .
    This is a classic case of abetment to commit suicide (IPC section 306 If any person commits suicide, whoever abets the commission of such suicide, shall be punished with imprisonment of either description for a term which may extend to ten years, and shall also be liable to fine )and she should be prosecuted under this section

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Ethan,

    May I know why prostitution needs to be legalized ? Lets assume its legalized - am I or are you willing (or permit our kin) to serve there or use the services ?

    I have more questions, but I'll wait for your answer to what I have already asked here.

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  • Asha, Karla

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Mr ETAHN,
    Armadas is doubly unlucky ......
    THE LAW IN INDIA IS SO KIND THAT IN THIS CASE A CHARGE SHEET CANNOT BE FILED FOR COMMITING THE ACT ONLY FOR ATTEMPTING IT

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  • Kuppi Lahari, Uppinangadi

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    ಆರು ವರುಷದ ಹಿಂದೆ ಕೋಲಾಟ , ಇವೊತ್ತು ಗೋಳಾಟ ..

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Wah Kuppi Wahhhh!
    Andu Chendatta
    Jothege Kolatta
    Indu Bayalaata....
    Heluthaane EEgaa Ramadasa
    'AKATAKATA AKATAKATAAAAAAAAAAAAA'

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  • T.K SIDDIK AZAD, Uppalli.AlKhobar

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    I still vividly remember his hospital raids,when he was health minister.His colleague Renukacharya would have advised him to look for something else during his raids.

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  • dam, mangalore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Next Devdas....

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  • Ifthikhar, Mangalore / KSA

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    She has two children from who? Where is her first husband? Did she enjoy with Ramdas while she is married to someone else? It is unfortunate that this type of concocted stories are coming up after enjoying years together. I feel days are not far we may require to form "Men's Organizations" to fight for our rights.

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  • N.M, Mangalore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Ramdas had “sexually and mentally harassed” her. Ramdas “used his authority as a minister to transfer her frequently.

    These lines speak volumes of this scum bag ex minister. I think the people of Karnataka did a right thing by booting out BJP from the state otherwise many more ladies would have been sexually harassed and molested by Bajapa's 'holier than thou' ministers.

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  • sanjay, mangalore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    clear case of political conspiracy. truth will come out soon

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  • KRPrabhu, Bangalore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Ramdas was a minister for Higher Education in previous BJP Govt and hails from the respectable Brahmin community.Still, he does not know dignity in life and dont know to lead a respectful life.Such people with dubious personal/family record should NOT be given ticket to contest this time.

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  • Praveen, Udupi

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    But Prabhu mam in BJP unless you have this kind of qualification you won't be given a ticket.

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  • Peter Pereira, Nagoya, Japan

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Well said Praveen Bhai. Thaaliyan...Thaaliyan.

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  • Sudhakar, Kallianpur

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    If BJP is giving ticket, congress party is making them Governor so that they can do all their wise things inside Raj Bhavan.

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  • Af, mangalore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    One more Feku in BJP..

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  • Vasant Raj, Mangalore / Abudhabi

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Very sorry to quote : Rama Dasa becomes Prema Dasa.

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  • N.M, Mangalore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    He is more of a 'loose character Dasa'. Having a wife , he has fun with other women..Bjp is indeed a SANSKARI PARTY

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  • Doris, Canada

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Gentle readers, I cannot believe that there are comments to say that is 'a fashion' for women to tarnish or blame a man for the crime that HE and HE alone will commit. WOMEN do not Ask to be raped, killed, abused physically, mentally, sexually and emotionally. DOMESTIC VIOLENCE has to stop. Whenever men commit a crime some people immediately blame the woman. There have been cases vice versa, but not as often as men who commit crimes especially against women.

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  • JOY CASTELINO, MOODUBELLE/DUBAI

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    S A Ramdas, is a probable BJP candidate for the Mysore Loksabha constituency. May be some connection for this incident!!!!!!!!!

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  • Surrendra Poojari, Mangalore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Ramdas tries to commit suicide..why??? Is it because he is guilty or he is innocent and he can't bear this insult? Truth should come out. It is too early to comment on this case as only that women and Ramdas know the truth. So guys, before making any assumptions, wait for the truth to come out..

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  • jr,

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    BEING A MINISTER HE HAS ACKNOWLEDGED HIS ACT OTHERWISE HE COULD HAVE SUED HER IN THE COURT OF LAW. THIS IS SECOND AFTER RENUKA CHARYA VS NURSE IN BJP LOT.
    WHAT ABOUT COMMON MAN IF MINISTERS /GOVERNERS ACT SHAMEFULLY OR IS IT WESTERN CULTURE TO USE & THROW.
    IS THERE ANY SPECIAL LAW TO POLITICIANS WHO CAN ENJOY ANY NUMBERS OF STEPNEY/KEEP/WIVES.

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  • Dr Kusuma Kumari G, Nellore/kodydka

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Nowadays it has become a fashion to tarnish men with allegations. I feel the media should an enquiry before blaming men. May be the minister is right. I pity the minister who had to take an extreme step of suicide. May be she is trying to blackmail him for money

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  • Anand, karkala

    Wed, Feb 12 2014


    When we encounter someone who is more chosen, beloved or esteemed than we are, our natural instinct is to tear them down to our level.
    Prema(LOVE)kumari's name itself is for making love and not for declaring it in the press meet.
    When things start going out of control people get frustrated and decide to call press meet.

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  • Dev, Mangalore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Ramdas Get Well Soon & marry her officially & give life to yourself & her kids as well.
    Society appreciates honesty more than dishonoring promise.
    You will be Hero not villain if you own up & do the Right.

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  • Suleman, Udupi

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Ramdas called her before attempting suicide... I wonder, how he got her phone number?

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  • Jafer, Ullal

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    I think he needs to learn some tips from Kumaranna

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  • Praveen Kumaresh, Bengaluru

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Last year same BJP Minister had asked people to promote Indian culture and Ban Valentine's Day.
    This year same man is celebrating Valentines day in a different manner.

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  • Sir Lancelot, Manglore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    dear Praveen
    Good one.. Hundred claps...make one slap on the face of this tainted minister. Get well soon S.A.Ramdas
    Police officers for committing suicide, please register a case on him and close the chapter.

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  • G.Z.T. Kunte., Udupi

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    As Lok Sabha Election is nearing more and more such skeletons will tumble out of the cupboards of prominent politicians. Opposite party will make capital out of this.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mapusa

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Kar Bala Tho Ho Bala...

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    'Kukarma Malthandaa Ballah Dethonlaa'
    Nammah Tulut Dhaane Kammi Gaade Undaa??

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  • Alwyn, Mangalore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    It is really sad and sorry about Mr. Ramdas. Ms. Premkumari suddenly appeared and claiming him, as a husband. He might be dodged by Premkumari many years before. The real thing must come out and giving the information to media is not a solution. Hope he will recover soon and the truth will reveal.
    Suicide is not the answer for sins, mistake, or failure.

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  • Nelson D'souza, Mulki/Dubai

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    This is a good example, Woman can do anything and everything, they can make a House or Break a house.
    I know personally many women caused their men to become Alcoholic, caused for depression, High BP and many of them died with heart attacks where men have no chance to tell anyone about his partner in this world, if he does.. it is more miserable for him.
    Even President Clinton's career screwed up by a ordinary woman, Many well known Actors, Politicians, Other personalities, Even Religious Leaders are victims.
    There is no Law implication for harassment, death of men by indirectly caused by women where there is no proof nor any clues.

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  • leon, Mangalore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    I fully agree with Nelson D'souza, Mulki/Dubai. Nowadays all these stories are cooking by women and coming with mahila morcha, stree shakthi. Todays one sided law is making all this nonsense to the society.

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  • U V Kini, Mangalore

    Fri, Feb 14 2014

    While Reading Ramdas's story i recalled a forward i received on my Mobile few months back..
    A woman goes to the Police Station to lodge complaint against a man alleging she was raped.
    Police: So when you were raped
    Woman: 10 days back.
    Police : Then why so much delay..
    Woman: I realized that it was a
    rape when the cheque that he
    had given me in return got
    bounced..

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Nelson,

    One gets a good life partner (wife as well as husband) by luck. Those who didn't get one, make adjustments and take things positively than saying 'grapes are sour'.

    There is no generalization that women spoil men nor men spoil women. Over expectations (greed), unnecessary comparison and jealousy invites many disappoints in life. I remember a man who showed his wife to Gulf to earn him money while he feasted with sex workers. Result ? The wife returned in time to save their children from running away from home (due to his tantrums) and to nurse the HIV husband !

    Bill Clinton is a bad choice of example, because famous men/women are tailed by a hoard of admirers who don't mind going to the extreme of indecency, after which, some silently walk away but some take advantage of the situation by blackmailing the successful member.

    A faithful spouse does not give heed to such temptations, but maintains the respect of them both together.

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Madam:
    See, you are very good and mature and give good comments and all in these matters.I am floored, but from there, think otherwise and give rejoinders or ask questions-Here same case:
    1) What 'luck' after marriage? I have seen so many men after marriage, joining classes only to learn 'how to nod their head and say 'YES'' where does luck come in here? Any doubt as to who is lucky here?
    2. What 'generalization' about spoiling? You, madam-what telling? See my English has also gone awry
    at the mention? Just take this example! So many 'men' poets while compared to women? Do you think they took to the pen just like that?Who made them 'bingree' in the first place?
    Who frequent' bars' more? Why? Has a thorough research been done? The talks there 75% comprises of women? O.K? No 'generalization 'Madam'...The jury is out on this one too...!!
    3. What Bill Clinton and all? Whosoever does like that and all has to pay the Bill -O.k.?
    See Man in his whole life feels half complete and seeks the 'other half' to be complete!It is not an easy task..Goes through turmoils
    for 'many lives' to be complete...He has to 'realise' it and he will! How is another story!!
    This is not the place to reveal it though.

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Bhandarkar Maam,

    I liked your jovial outburst - rather a 'Rasamanjari'

    I am aware that you are a happy man, a happily-married-man. I wish all good to you.

    Leave those who are struggling in life to find happiness alone because there is no exact definition or limit to happiness. We can't say whether its money, literacy, health or person/s (pretty/handsome wife/husband) or brilliant children that an individual finds happiness in. Possessing one Rupee is too less, but someone who possesses on million Rupees too is not content in life. A hermit, who renounced all pleasures of life is begging for what ? Not food/clothing/medicine, but money - just imagine the meaning of his renunciation ?

    You have a wonderful day Bhandarkar Maam...

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  • clvie, Kuwait

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Mr. Bhandarkar,
    I hope you will agree with the below points:

    Hell hath no fury like a woman -scorned or conned or unsatisfied(in marriage). Pity for the men who have to face such kind of women.
    Nowadays, a man has to say "I am the boss of this house and I have my wife's permission to say so"

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Lydia Mai...
    If only you knew me and what I have gone through and still going through!!It's 100% true Mai...
    Laugh and the World laughs with you.....

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Dear Clvie..
    The first three types I have not come across, for I am very meticulous and articulate.
    However, I call from my residence often and say that I am speaking from my wife's place...

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  • HENRY MISQUITH, Bahrain

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    This case has been full of suspense, mystery, drama, love & emotion.

    Premakumari ki Prem-Kahani!!

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  • Lavin Noronha, Paladka

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Otte stove da byra andala avu ye love da byara atthu... ramadasa nikku bod ithunda undu byra.

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  • Eric, Mangalore

    Wed, Feb 12 2014

    Nowadays this has become a fashion, giving press statement and alleging rape or misconduct after many years or months all together. It's possible such things to happen. But why one cannot realize and report the same at an early stage to proper authority. She stated to be his unofficial wife for the last five years. Cheated and ruined her life and now harassing her.

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